Blackpill If a man is 30+ and people can't imagine him having kids..

[Nordicel94]

..he is ugly.

In the same way that if you put a 20 year old man in front of people and most people assume he's a virgin, he is ugly.

If a 30 year old man looks like he couldn't have started a family, he is ugly.

People have an image of what a man with kids looks like, and it's usually more masculine and better looking than the general population.

30 years old men can look so different, some are fat gamers living in their mother's basements and some are fit and already have two kids. So when people see a 30 year old man and find it unlikely that he has kids, it's obviously a judgement about his attractiveness and maturity.

I'm 31 and when I look myself in the mirror I don't think anyone would think I have kids, I look younger, but that's part of the issue.

What made me think about this was that I was at the hospital and they asked me from a form whether I have kids. I almost laughed because it's an absurd question, both because I'm an incel but also because I look the way I look. Then I realised that some people start families when they're 10 years younger.

Other oldcels, around 30, do you think people would think you had kids if they saw you and were asked?

 

[starystulejarz]

Other oldcels, around 30, do you think people would think you had kids if they saw you and were asked?

They should ask when i will sign up for the day of the rope appointment

 

[tulasdanslos]

If you look 21 then it's not over for you.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

That hospital story hit hard. The idea of having kids is so foreign to me too that it feels like a joke, because there's no conceivable way in which I propagate my genes.

 

[Nordicel94]

That hospital story hit hard. The idea of having kids is so foreign to me too that it feels like a joke, because there's no conceivable way in which I propagate my genes.

Yeah I was shocked at being asked that jfl, but it's a completely normal question to ask someone my age

 

[LastGerman]

What made me think about this was that I was at the hospital and they asked me from a form whether I have kids. I almost laughed because it's an absurd question, both because I'm an incel but also because I look the way I look. Then I realised that some people start families when they're 10 years younger.

Somebody asked you this question? Who was it?

Other oldcels, around 30, do you think people would think you had kids if they saw you and were asked?

I guess that people already know. Even my parents never asked me if I was interested in any female, not even back then when I was still in school. No, nobody asked me if I have children. People do not even ask me if I have a female.

 

[_meh]

I know it sounds crazy, but I'd like to have kids someday. However, I'm just denied of that possibility and so I try to not entertain that impossibility as much as possible.

Women are gatekeepers anyway.

I remember watching a show where an ugly man wanted to donate sperm, he eventually did, and some woman in a random country ended up mothering the child. Many women in the show/audience were disgusted with it, lol.

 

[Wolnir]

I've been asked if I have kids before. Average looking people are bluepilled af and just assume that you can fuck ugly foids.

 

[UnchargedSamsung]

Wear a fake ring in public so atleast people get the impression you’re married might have to get one soon since I look 10 years older than I am lmao

 

[ogercel]

Lamo no my uncle had kids at the age of 45 wtf are you on about?!

 

[Loner94]

Brutality shows no signs of stopping as a trucel/incel.

 

[grapeisfun]

Because most men are not incel. We are a minority. Some men are ugly but they can manage to get a gf or wife though betabuxxing or socializing a lot. Most people are not used to meeting ugly and high-inhibition meek men like us.

 

[Maeglin Lomion]

Don't worry fren, most of these married men are and will forever be betabuxxers that have no power whatsoever over their own kids who will grow up to be queers and feminists, thus ending their mostly useless bloodline

 

[Only_Perspective]

I remember watching a show where an ugly man wanted to donate sperm, he eventually did, and some woman in a random country ended up mothering the child. Many women in the show/audience were disgusted with it, lol.

I think the whole purpose of having kids is to raise them yourself, not to let them at their luck with a random woman.

 

[B33troot]

Other oldcels, around 30, do you think people would think you had kids if they saw you and were asked?

I don't think so.

I'm in my 40s. And even during my 20s and 30s, people just knew I never had a GF. They could just tell.

 

[m3nt4Lbl0ck3d]

33 here and I've been asked on multiple occasions if I have any kids. I just reply so casually saying no now because I'm so used to it. What they never seem to be surprised at however is that I never have a partner of any sort. Funny that. They still expect you to be a betabuxxer though.

 

[sexualeconomist]

Uhh most people who have kids are ugly or average in looks