Serious I wish my lust and desire for romance could be converted into a passion for a career or hobby

[Deleted member 35239]

Even when I'm working or studying my mind is filled with thoughts related to sex and romance. As much as I admire people like Nikola Tesla who could solely devote themselves to their career, that isn't the kind of person I am. I'm the most motivated when I'm doing something for someone I perceive as a romantic interest.

I wish my inner desires didn't conflict so strongly with what I actually want.

 

[Tenshi]

same

this can only be achieved through massive copes (like religion) imo. I just know I'll always be miserably without love and nothing I can create or learn will change that, so why?

Even the only time I actually was invested in some long term project I basically had a possible future partner and relationship as the main purpose of it, at least deep inside that was the case.

 

[Deleted member 35239]

same

this can only be achieved through massive copes (like religion) imo. I just know I'll always be miserably without love and nothing I can create or learn will change that, so why?

Even the only time I actually was invested in some long term project I basically had a possible future partner and relationship as the main purpose of it, at least deep inside that was the case.

It's a painful paradox. Simultaneously wanting to be independent and self-motivated, but also wanting to be loved.

 

[BlkPillPres]

Even when I'm working or studying my mind is filled with thoughts related to sex and romance. As much as I admire people like Nikola Tesla who could solely devote themselves to their career, that isn't the kind of person I am. I'm the most motivated when I'm doing something for someone I perceive as a romantic interest.

I wish my inner desires didn't conflict so strongly with what I actually want.

You can't convert something cucked into something useful

If your lust was for sex you'd definitely be able to convert it into a passion for a career, so you could have the money to pay for it lol

 

[Deleted member 34301]

I get what you mean. Im a romantic but all my love is wasted. You cant replace everything with a hobby

 

[meatball]

Even when I'm working or studying my mind is filled with thoughts related to sex and romance. As much as I admire people like Nikola Tesla who could solely devote themselves to their career, that isn't the kind of person I am. I'm the most motivated when I'm doing something for someone I perceive as a romantic interest.

I wish my inner desires didn't conflict so strongly with what I actually want.

Catch 22

 

[the3rdwill]

Well when you get old enough you'll lose hope and it will feel like a burden is lifted off your shoulders.

 

[Loner94]

Interesting

 

[Deleted member 35239]

You can't convert something cucked into something useful

If your lust was for sex you'd definitely be able to convert it into a passion for a career, so you could have the money to pay for it lol

That's a good point

 

[Caesercel]

I have the opposite problem. I have a lot of passion for things like studies and career but am too depressed and lazy to do anything about it. Can't be arsed about things like romance. Infact not having a partner is not even the main source of my misery.

[UWSL]Even the only time I actually was invested in some long term project I basically had a possible future partner and relationship as the main purpose of it, at least deep inside that was the case.[/UWSL]

Sex is the ultimate motivator for most of male effort. Its all about either getting sex or protecting the product of your sex(i.e. children)

 

[Deleted member 5712]

Im a romantic but all my love is wasted.

 

[Neetocel]

If you are good or are willing to get good at stuff like Unity, you can become a H game maker, the pay is very good if you are good.

If not, why don't you try to become a hentai stories commission guy? Write some stories in the 4Chans in waifu threads about waifus, offer some free stories to promote yourself and then start charging. You only need a notepad and your imagination to do this.

 

[Deleted member 35239]

If you are good or are willing to get good at stuff like Unity, you can become a H game maker, the pay is very good if you are good.

If not, why don't you try to become a hentai stories commission guy? Write some stories in the 4Chans in waifu threads about waifus, offer some free stories to promote yourself and then start charging. You only need a notepad and your imagination to do this.

That's a great suggestion and I'd probably enjoy doing that, but I want to do something that makes more money and is more meaningful in the long-term.

I have the opposite problem. I have a lot of passion for things like studies and career but am too depressed and lazy to do anything about it. Can't be arsed about things like romance. Infact not having a partner is not even the main source of my misery.

Sex is the ultimate motivator for most of male effort. Its all about either getting sex or protecting the product of your sex(i.e. children)

I have a similar problem. Can't be self-motivated for shit. I don't feel particularly sad I think, and while I think it's a tad of a trivializing term, I am lazy.

But I know I can be highly motivated under the right conditions. It's just frustrating that those conditions are hard to set up, despite me wanting to do those things and having an interest. If I had to guess, I think part of the reason is the sort of perfectionist mindset of wanting ideal starting and ending points, and having anything less makes my motivation go out the window.

 

[Neetocel]

That's a good suggestion, but I want to do something that makes more money and is more meaningful in the long-term.

The creator of a Patron hentai game I was following, was making about 30K per month. Sex gaming can give insane money, the problem is the actual skills for using the programs and making the character models.

Writing, yeah, it can be harder to succeed at, but who knows, maybe you could write the next Twilight for men, it is not like you have anything to lose for trying.

 

[Deleted member 35239]

The creator of a Patron hentai game I was following, was making about 30K per month. Sex gaming can give insane money, the problem is the actual skills for using the programs and making the character models.

Writing, yeah, it can be harder to succeed at, but who knows, maybe you could write the next Twilight for men, it is not like you have anything to lose for trying.

From what I saw an h-game on Patreon called Summertime Saga is making bank too. Depending on how far you go, especially if you manage a small indie team, it wouldn't be hard to make above 6 figures.

Problem is, as thankful as I am to some h-devs and fiction writers for providing good ideas paired with nice fap material, their completely cucked; because of having to adjust tastes to suit their audience, and, more importantly, there is a severe loss to dignity and the feeling of exclusivity. As an h-dev and writer you're essentially asexually creating daughters that other men fuck.

It also goes against my goals. I want to find a way to change this world, and that isn't going to happen if I add to the problem of entertainment distracting us and making us indifferent to seeing and finding opportunities to fix it.