Venting I wish I had a normal family

[MiSKiRaT]

every simple task I do with any of my family members is a NIGHTMARE, I was driving with my mom late at night and she kept bugging me over going to the gas station she didn't like the one in the highway and told me to take an exit and go to the OTHER gas station which is a stupid waste of time in itself. I told her the one in the highway is closer but she kept cutting me off every time I SAY SOMETHING. I think that's part of the reason why I stutter a lot, because my family kept cutting me off every time I try to say anything and have successfully abrupted my speech pattern and recognition skills.

I just wish I had a normal family at least it wouldn't have been so bad if I had a supportive mom or dad, some of you probably have the luxury of your own mother cooking for you, I DIDN'T HAVE THAT. I REMEMBER GOING TO HIGH SCHOOL WITH NOTHING AT ALL I USED TO TAKE A PIECE OF TOAST AND POUR HOT SAUCE ON IT LIKE A BITTER STARVING RETARD BECAUSE I HAD NOTHING ELSE TO EAT.

 

[sub5ricemale]

if I were you, I wouldon't budge and start shouting at her.

When she talks, cut her off. That's what I usually do nowadays

 

[ohrxcks]

same

 

[MiSKiRaT]

if I were you, I wouldon't budge and start shouting at her.

When she talks, cut her off. That's what I usually do nowadays

if I did she would tell my dad and everything would start rolling downhill for me

 

[sub5ricemale]

if I did she would tell my dad and everything would start rolling downhill for me

Start cutting your dad off.

If my parents gaslight me, i usually shout at them

 

[StoryOfMyLaugh]

Yeah, nobody’s kind, considerate, caring. Most parents pamper until you’re a mature adult that’s capable of doing things for them, and then they get upset when it isn’t done their exact way when they want it. I think this is ultimately how society shapes people to be, submissive toward orders and to not question their authority.

Often times I like to tread-the-line and bit and defy as much authority as possible, specifically from my Mom when she gets angry for whatever reason, because it imposes on my mental, and subsequently my health.

 

[MiSKiRaT]

Start cutting your dad off.

If my parents gaslight me, i usually shout at them

I don't think I can though even If I tried to shout back I'd stop and stutter a lot

Yeah, nobody’s kind, considerate, caring. Most parents pamper until you’re a mature adult that’s capable of doing things for them, and then they get upset when it isn’t done their exact way when they want it. I think this is ultimately how society shapes people to be, submissive toward orders and to not question their authority.

Often times I like to tread-the-line and bit and defy as much authority as possible, specifically from my Mom when she gets angry for whatever reason, because it imposes on my mental, and subsequently my health.

does your mom yell at you or abuse you back when she gets angry?

 

[SilentShadow]

Me too, my family is dysfunctional af.

 

[StoryOfMyLaugh]

does your mom yell at you or abuse you back when she gets angry?

She’s never abused me, as in physically strike me (at least since I was like, 6 years old?) But she does indeed yell and holds grudges against me unfortunately. It sucks, not much I can do other than mitigate how much I care that it’s happening to me.

 

[Demonintheflesh666]

every simple task I do with any of my family members is a NIGHTMARE, I was driving with my mom late at night and she kept bugging me over going to the gas station she didn't like the one in the highway and told me to take an exit and go to the OTHER gas station which is a stupid waste of time in itself. I told her the one in the highway is closer but she kept cutting me off every time I SAY SOMETHING. I think that's part of the reason why I stutter a lot, because my family kept cutting me off every time I try to say anything and have successfully abrupted my speech pattern and recognition skills.

I just wish I had a normal family at least it wouldn't have been so bad if I had a supportive mom or dad, some of you probably have the luxury of your own mother cooking for you, I DIDN'T HAVE THAT. I REMEMBER GOING TO HIGH SCHOOL WITH NOTHING AT ALL I USED TO TAKE A PIECE OF TOAST AND POUR HOT SAUCE ON IT LIKE A BITTER STARVING RETARD BECAUSE I HAD NOTHING ELSE TO EAT.

my family is fucked too.

 

[Erenincel]

If we had a good family, we wouldn't have ended up here. Even short stature can be cured if the child is given growth hormone early enough.

 

[PvZcel]

Being incel and having a dysfunctional family is like playing nightmare difficult while blindfolded.

 

[God's Lonely Man]

Just ignore your family as best as you possibly can

 

[Cuckoja]

Same, if i were born into somewhat normal family, i would be a different person.

 

[ThePornographer]

some of you probably have the luxury of your own mother cooking for you, I DIDN'T HAVE THAT. I REMEMBER GOING TO HIGH SCHOOL WITH NOTHING AT ALL I USED TO TAKE A PIECE OF TOAST AND POUR HOT SAUCE ON IT LIKE A BITTER STARVING RETARD BECAUSE I HAD NOTHING ELSE TO EAT.

This shit is hard man

 

[Poopless One]

Being incel and having a dysfunctional family is like playing nightmare difficult while blindfolded.

Can attest to this.

 

[Lego Island 2]

relatable sand families are the worst

 

[arkaxfoidletslayer]

every simple task I do with any of my family members is a NIGHTMARE, I was driving with my mom late at night and she kept bugging me over going to the gas station she didn't like the one in the highway and told me to take an exit and go to the OTHER gas station which is a stupid waste of time in itself. I told her the one in the highway is closer but she kept cutting me off every time I SAY SOMETHING. I think that's part of the reason why I stutter a lot, because my family kept cutting me off every time I try to say anything and have successfully abrupted my speech pattern and recognition skills.

I just wish I had a normal family at least it wouldn't have been so bad if I had a supportive mom or dad, some of you probably have the luxury of your own mother cooking for you, I DIDN'T HAVE THAT. I REMEMBER GOING TO HIGH SCHOOL WITH NOTHING AT ALL I USED TO TAKE A PIECE OF TOAST AND POUR HOT SAUCE ON IT LIKE A BITTER STARVING RETARD BECAUSE I HAD NOTHING ELSE TO EAT.

given you were driving I assume you're the legal age to work thus can afford to move out and leave her permenently and let her experience rotting alone firsthand... i believe everyone in this situation would have a 10000x better life without their abusive mothers and cuck fathers who lick the mothers circle in any situation no matter how wrong she could be. I'm in a similar situation and strongly believe i still have a small chance of being somewhat normal if i finally move out.

 

[Itsoverm8]

Same tbh my family is shit

 

[DissidentEast]

Can't function normal if the entire family is bipolar or borderline psychotic