I wasted my 20s drunkenly loitering around bars

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I wasted my 20s drunkenly loitering around bars solo trying to talk to random people because I had no one.

While I was there, I was constantly surrounded by couples and groups of friends (sometimes multisex groups). These people were usually very rude when I tried to talk to them. I usually ended up talking to random old dudes.

What do I have to show for it? NOTHING. My life would not have been any different if I had just stayed home except I would have more money and probably less health issues down the road.

Also, some of these bars were BRUTAL social mogging. If I went to a "trendy" place the bartenders would completely ignore me and serve people who were standing beside or behind me.

As for "friends" I made, I don't remember any of their names. Nothing long lasting was achieved.

"Just go outside bro!!!!"

 

[mirrors]

"Just go outside bro!!!!"

 

[JesusChristReborn]

If your not attractive and sociable, there's no reason to make any effort with foids, college, money, etc. It's never going to happen, and the sooner a sub-5 realizes that, the better his life will be.

 

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If your not attractive and sociable, there's no reason to make any effort with foids, college, money, etc. It's never going to happen, and the sooner a sub-5 realizes that, the better his life will be.

Yeah but if you don't have a semi decent job you will get assraped by landlords and creditors

 

[JesusChristReborn]

Yeah but if you don't have a semi decent job you will get assraped by landlords and creditors

Eh, just obese and disabilitymax.

 

[clearsmoke]

I usually ended up talking to random old dudes.

Every time an incel goes to a bar this always happens, it's like a rite of passage for sub5s.

 

[Renegade#1]

I wasted my 20s drunkenly loitering around bars​

Trucel trait : you nevER wasted any time because it never began for you,so you spent your 20s rotting in your basement

 

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Trucel trait : you nevER wasted any time because it never began for you,so you spent your 20s rotting in your basement

I mean, we ended up with the same result anyway so I guess it didn't matter

 

[BornToLose]

Based barflycel

 

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Based barflycel

I feel like that background character from the simpsons

 

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Every time an incel goes to a bar this always happens, it's like a rite of passage for sub5s.

Glad to know there are others experiencing the same thing

 

[marinaraswag]

Brutal, if nothing else atleast you can say that you tried.

 

[Luganki]

One night I was walking alone in Amsterdam, there was this bar that was packed with people crowded inside, it looked like everyone was with their girlfriend or friend group, I wanted to go inside but I simultaneously was very nervous, (I'm ND and have an extremely hard time socializing and starting/maintaining a conversation) so I just ended up pacing around outside for a few minutes like some retard before I finally just decided to go home.

 

[INVERTER]

One night I was walking alone in Amsterdam, there was this bar that was packed with people crowded inside, it looked like everyone was with their girlfriend or friend group, I wanted to go inside but I simultaneously was very nervous, (I'm ND and have an extremely hard time socializing and starting/maintaining a conversation) so I just ended up pacing around outside for a few minutes like some retard before I finally just decided to go home.

You sound like me. I have severe anxiety going in these places so I have to cope by drinking a lot but it's very bad health wise. Plus, usually these places are very loud and it's hard to converse with anyone even if you tried