I wanted to make a thread about how most normal people have somebody that loves them and cares about them. But then I realized something.

[Deleted member 7448]

I was watching some part of a bluepilled movie and I started thinking about how nice it would be to have a woman that actually cares about me, that loves me and that I love back, and we're like best friends and trust each other etc...

And this myth is everywhere. Songs, movies, books - everybody is talking about this kind of love. That means that I'm missing out on a human experience that almost everybody has, right?

But then I started thinking. Most people are actually miserable. Sure, they all get to love and be loved for a while, but that never lasts much. This love phase passes by quickly, people either break up and hate each other or get married and have kids and end up hating each other. How many people are actually happy? Most spouses seem to barely tolerate each other.

So... we might miss out on a "love" phase that people go through, but it doesn't last long, so really we're missing out on loving someone and then eventually hating them.

Is it just a cope? Do people really experience this love thing daily?

 

[Deleted member 20811]

It is cope (for men). Only Chads get loved. All women are loved, even obese ugly land whales because of desprate soy cucks and "muh equality".

 

[Deleted member 2686]

Is it just a cope?

yes

Do people really experience this love thing daily?

only if Chad(aka top 5%)

 

[Rippa]

I was watching some part of a bluepilled movie and I started thinking about how nice it would be to have a woman that actually cares about me, that loves me and that I love back, and we're like best friends and trust each other etc...

And this myth is everywhere. Songs, movies, books - everybody is talking about this kind of love. That means that I'm missing out on a human experience that almost everybody has, right?

But then I started thinking. Most people are actually miserable. Sure, they all get to love and be loved for a while, but that never lasts much. This love phase passes by quickly, people either break up and hate each other or get married and have kids and end up hating each other. How many people are actually happy? Most spouses seem to barely tolerate each other.

So... we might miss out on a "love" phase that people go through, but it doesn't last long, so really we're missing out on loving someone and then eventually hating them.

Is it just a cope? Do people really experience this love thing daily?

The natural instinct of a beta male is to shit on a beta male supposedly "below them" in the social hierarchy.Thats why IT exists and thats why normies bully other normies and incels, it's all a coping mechanism to try and elevate yourself and in a effort to be mentally stable for a short time

 

[mcfroggy]

The 'love' that's pushed in media IS real, but its actually called honeymoon phase and only lasts a little while when they get together. Ppl are willing to ignore bad habits/personality defects/etc at the beginning of relationship BC they're fucking and all the endorphins just flood any negative emotion away. When they get used to fucking they realize all the faults in the other person, and most ppl just break up instead of trying to help/improve each other.

 

[Nothingness]

Here is the thing. Real life lasts as long as youth.
Life after 30 is total crap and nightmare

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Here is the thing. Real life lasts as long as youth.
Life after 30 is total crap and nightmare

Yeah, I've literally had trouble sleeping, I stay awake laying in bed thinking about how I'm getting old and yet all I really did in life was lay in bed with my laptop next to me, rotting since I was a child. The anxiety is making me sick.

 

[Nothingness]

Yeah, I've literally had trouble sleeping, I stay awake laying in bed thinking about how I'm getting old and yet all I really did in life was lay in bed with my laptop next to me, rotting since I was a child. The anxiety is making me sick.

Extinguish all hopes inside of you and be free. Life without hope is a bliss.
And count on nothigness in terms of revolution

 

[virgin4life]

Yeah, I've literally had trouble sleeping, I stay awake laying in bed thinking about how I'm getting old and yet all I really did in life was lay in bed with my laptop next to me, rotting since I was a child. The anxiety is making me sick.

Personally I fall asleep immediately but when I wake up in the morning I have dreamt about living an actual life and I am always very sad and depressed when I wake up only to find myself in this HELL that I call a life. It is a fucking JOKE of a life.

 

[Hell]

I was just thinking during my drive home from slaving about how there isn't a single person in this world I can trust, confide in, etc.
I might as well be an organism of another species because humanity has utterly rejected me.

 

[Emba]

I was just thinking during my drive home from slaving about how there isn't a single person in this world I can trust, confide in, etc.
I might as well be an organism of another species because humanity has utterly rejected me.

Welcome home brother!

I think all the love shit in the (((media))) is a meme weapon!

Designed to demoralize nations!

Sure there was love songs in the past but they were mainly folk tales with a social- moral message! The filth we have today is just crap compared to it!

 

[needsolution]

It is cope (for men). Only Chads get loved. All women are loved, even obese ugly land whales because of desprate soy cucks and "muh equality".