1. I don´t care about IT. Why are you letting them live rent-free in your head? Why should I care about the opinions of people who are deliberately lying and making you look like some kind of monster?
2. Our ancestors and even a lot of normie guys got their virgin girls. There is a roughly 1:1 guys-to-girls ratio (don´t quote me on exact numbers; I know it is not exact), and I have wanted a virgin girl since I was 15 years old. My standards are not high; I want only what I would get in a fair world. My standards would be too high if I wanted an 8+/10 girl when I am myself only 4/10. That is not the case, though. Virginity should be included as a normal standard. I never said I deserved a 10/10 virgin girl. I say I deserve a 4/10 virgin girl since I myself am a virgin.
3. If you will dumpster dive to prove that you have no high standards or whatever nonsense to people that hate you, then soon you will find yourself in a perpetually worsening situation. If you agree to get less than you deserve, then you will get even less than you agreed upon. You will find out that you will not even get a girl with 2–3 previous sexual partners but will get instead a use up slut with many body counts. Later, you will not even get used up slut with many body counts but will get instead used up landwhale with many body counts. Society needs to raise their standards, not lower them. We lowered our morals in society, and look where it got us. This is exactly why we are here. By agreeing to date sluts, you basically normalize their behavior. "Don't worry, gal, you can sleep with as many chads as you want during your teens and 20s. I will be waiting for you when you are 30+ and still marry you." Yeah, that will solve the situation completely, I guess. If they are not held responsible for such behavior, then they will not stop doing it because... they still win at the end, right? So why should they not slut themselves when people like you still marry them to prove they have no "high standards"?