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Deleted member 8353
Former Hikikomori, Aimless Pleasure Seeker
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- May 29, 2018
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The problem is that they don't really allow me the opportunity to do so. How am I supposed to relate to someone who just laughs at the thought of a lifelong reject of a man? This happens all the time, I'll be posting on another site, and suddenly people just start making fun incels, calling us things like "pathetic", "losers", or "virgins". This shit happens constantly, and reading stuff like this is so frustrating. I mean there are really two ways I can take it, either I can feel angry towards them, or I can just hate myself even more, and neither is very conducive to being able to feel anything positive for normies. Do they seriously not understand that none of us want to be this way?
I can't even post on forums or subreddits for totally unrelated stuff without being reminded that I'm not welcome, and no IT, it's not because I "identify" as incel. The shaming of low status men is completely normalized, and it's been a constant thing irl for me as well. I'll stop being angry the moment it ceases to be totally acceptable to mock and humiliate men like me. You can't say "it's all in your head bro, it doesn't matter if you're a virgin", and proceed to laugh about adult male virgins when it's next brought up in conversation, at least not if you expect me to believe anything that you say.
I can't even post on forums or subreddits for totally unrelated stuff without being reminded that I'm not welcome, and no IT, it's not because I "identify" as incel. The shaming of low status men is completely normalized, and it's been a constant thing irl for me as well. I'll stop being angry the moment it ceases to be totally acceptable to mock and humiliate men like me. You can't say "it's all in your head bro, it doesn't matter if you're a virgin", and proceed to laugh about adult male virgins when it's next brought up in conversation, at least not if you expect me to believe anything that you say.