I'm 26 years old and living in Israel. On last Sunday I was hanging out with a friend and his social circle. There was a 2.5/10, ugly 29 year old ugly girl with a formless body and purple hair . I was drinking stoli with some of them. And in the end of the night after drinking at least 200ml of Vodka, and then getting freshed up with a cappuccino and a cookie, they dropped us off next to her house. I decided to try to make a move; when we were hugging goodbye, I tried to quickly kiss her on her mouth. It didn't work, and she quickly ran home. I didn't use force or and just tried to weasel out a kiss.
Today I started a new job, and lo and behold, I see her at the cafeteria. I said hi. It took her a few secs to respond. It seemed like she was trying to avoid me and saw it's not gonna work. I said that I'm gonna work here and asked her for what division she's working for. It was the same division I'll be working for. The conversation stopped, and she sat down in another table, not the same table I was sitting at.
After working I messaging my friend that was out with me that day and tell him she's working at my new job.
Him: "Damn, did you hit on her on the job?"
Me: "No, I said hi, and she seemed troubled by my presence."
Him: "She told us you tried to force her to kiss you, and that she ran away so you'll not be around her."
Then he sent me a combined pic of my profile pic on facebook and her pic with hearts between us and said they were laughing at me on their whatsapp group that I'm no longer a member of.
Later those fuckers added me and her to a special whatsapp group they created to try to troll me and her. I decided the best way to handle it is to mark it as unread, not read or write comments in the group, and in other words, not go along with it - not let those fuckers the satisfaction of getting under my skin. They only posted 6 messages on the group and then users started to drop out because I was not going along with it and straight disregarding the group.
It made me laugh. You can't do anything; you can ascend and it's not enough. You can go slummin' and lower your standards and still get rejected, and you're going to be laughed at for trying by your acquaintances.
Back to my situation - at work I'm on thin fucking ice. I won't be talking to her except the occasional hi and bye because I don't want her to think I want to have anything to do with her. I'm not going to risk sexual harassment allegation for any women, especially not to a fugly creature, who I tried to lower standards in hope for a one night stand. Tomorrow, if she asks me about the groups and the trolling I'll lie and say I was attending a wedding today and have no idea what she is talking about. If she presses me hard and force me to a wall, I'll tell her that she has to deal with the shame, since she thought it was a good idea to share some exaggerated story about me, and that I know that I did nothing wrong and have nothing to feel embarrassed about.
I fucking hate this country and wish the arabs took over!
Today I started a new job, and lo and behold, I see her at the cafeteria. I said hi. It took her a few secs to respond. It seemed like she was trying to avoid me and saw it's not gonna work. I said that I'm gonna work here and asked her for what division she's working for. It was the same division I'll be working for. The conversation stopped, and she sat down in another table, not the same table I was sitting at.
After working I messaging my friend that was out with me that day and tell him she's working at my new job.
Him: "Damn, did you hit on her on the job?"
Me: "No, I said hi, and she seemed troubled by my presence."
Him: "She told us you tried to force her to kiss you, and that she ran away so you'll not be around her."
Then he sent me a combined pic of my profile pic on facebook and her pic with hearts between us and said they were laughing at me on their whatsapp group that I'm no longer a member of.
Later those fuckers added me and her to a special whatsapp group they created to try to troll me and her. I decided the best way to handle it is to mark it as unread, not read or write comments in the group, and in other words, not go along with it - not let those fuckers the satisfaction of getting under my skin. They only posted 6 messages on the group and then users started to drop out because I was not going along with it and straight disregarding the group.
It made me laugh. You can't do anything; you can ascend and it's not enough. You can go slummin' and lower your standards and still get rejected, and you're going to be laughed at for trying by your acquaintances.
Back to my situation - at work I'm on thin fucking ice. I won't be talking to her except the occasional hi and bye because I don't want her to think I want to have anything to do with her. I'm not going to risk sexual harassment allegation for any women, especially not to a fugly creature, who I tried to lower standards in hope for a one night stand. Tomorrow, if she asks me about the groups and the trolling I'll lie and say I was attending a wedding today and have no idea what she is talking about. If she presses me hard and force me to a wall, I'll tell her that she has to deal with the shame, since she thought it was a good idea to share some exaggerated story about me, and that I know that I did nothing wrong and have nothing to feel embarrassed about.
I fucking hate this country and wish the arabs took over!
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