I live in Kazakhstan in Astana. Astana is a capital, this city have one million population of people, but on the metropolitan area aspect, this location have around two million population if we include too close sub-urban areas.
I tried tinder, twinby, “daivinchik leobot” dating channel in telegram.
In tinder and twinby i have ZERO matches.
After this situation, i tried advice of my friend, i created profile in “daivinchik”.
To my surprise, i have matches, but exist little problem… After start chat with women there, they instantly send me to the blacklist.
Let's say I write to her "hi, cool style, I was very impressed by your profile, it would be interesting to know about your hobbies." And after that I will either be ignored or blacklisted.
I start communication adequately, I do not violate personal boundaries, I do not rush to get closer. But I am sure that even if chads communicate inappropriately and send dickpics, women will sympathize with them.
Sometimes I remember a series of videos on YouTube that I watched back in 2016, it was a documentary about attractiveness, and also about how it affects the dynamics of communication in dating services and social networks (FaceandLMS).
It seems to me that if a man does not attract a woman, it does not matter what he says and how he communicates with her, even if a man does everything “correctly”, “decently”, all the same in her eyes it will not have any value, unfortunately. They are not interested in personality.
The problem is much deeper. Women have no personality. Have you noticed that women adapt to their environment, friends, boyfriends? I have seen it many times. A woman enters into a relationship, adopts the ideology, hobbies, even political views of her boyfriend. The woman essentially dissolves in him, in his personality. Women do not have a stable "compass" in terms of worldview and hobbies, their worldview and hobbies are a consequence of who they are personally close to.
I tried tinder, twinby, “daivinchik leobot” dating channel in telegram.
In tinder and twinby i have ZERO matches.
After this situation, i tried advice of my friend, i created profile in “daivinchik”.
To my surprise, i have matches, but exist little problem… After start chat with women there, they instantly send me to the blacklist.
Let's say I write to her "hi, cool style, I was very impressed by your profile, it would be interesting to know about your hobbies." And after that I will either be ignored or blacklisted.
I start communication adequately, I do not violate personal boundaries, I do not rush to get closer. But I am sure that even if chads communicate inappropriately and send dickpics, women will sympathize with them.
Sometimes I remember a series of videos on YouTube that I watched back in 2016, it was a documentary about attractiveness, and also about how it affects the dynamics of communication in dating services and social networks (FaceandLMS).
It seems to me that if a man does not attract a woman, it does not matter what he says and how he communicates with her, even if a man does everything “correctly”, “decently”, all the same in her eyes it will not have any value, unfortunately. They are not interested in personality.
The problem is much deeper. Women have no personality. Have you noticed that women adapt to their environment, friends, boyfriends? I have seen it many times. A woman enters into a relationship, adopts the ideology, hobbies, even political views of her boyfriend. The woman essentially dissolves in him, in his personality. Women do not have a stable "compass" in terms of worldview and hobbies, their worldview and hobbies are a consequence of who they are personally close to.
