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I think it is my own fault that I am a virgin and now I have no way out.

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MarkTheGreat

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I have talked to girls plenty. I have tried to hint at girls that I liked them or even their friends (hoping they would tell me if their friend felt the same way or not) but that never went anywhere. I didn't ask anyone to prom last year so I just went with one of my friends for a little while before we left bored. I never outright asked a girl out. I thought they were supposed to give you sort of a sign so that you know if you should ask them or not but that never happened. I would say that I was interested in going to a movie that they say they wanted to go see but the conversation would just sort of end there. I will be 19 soon. I am going to college and I am afraid of asking a girl out now because they will think it's weird that I have never dated anyone.
 
If IT says it's your fault then it must be true
 
Things are looking bad.

How would you rate your face on a scale of 0 to 10? How tall are you?
 
Things are looking bad.

How would you rate your face on a scale of 0 to 10? How tall are you?
I would say I am relatively average but not bad looking. Like a 6? I am 5'10
 
I would say I am relatively average but not bad looking. Like a 6? I am 5'10
You have a good chance of ascending, especially considering your age

Try to flirt with as many women as possible, but don't be too picky
 
You have a good chance of ascending, especially considering your age

Try to flirt with as many women as possible, but don't be too picky
I don't think I am too picky with girls in general. I have had crushes on girls who still had some qualities I would say were not my "type". I am not sure I have good flirting skills. This may be the problem. My flirting is usually just giving a compliment which I know a lot of girls hear all the time so they don't realize I am flirting. They think I am just being nice.
 
what are your quality types?
I typically like rounder faces. I don't usually like really skinny girls but I don't like very fat girls either, nor do I prefer muscular women. Soft girls, I guess. I like longer hair too and freckles. Short girls.
 
I typically like rounder faces. I don't usually like really skinny girls but I don't like very fat girls either, nor do I prefer muscular women. Soft girls, I guess. I like longer hair too and freckles. Short girls.
so only looks? nothing personality wise?


what do you think about her?




 
so only looks? nothing personality wise?


what do you think about her?


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Oh, I thought we were specifically talking about looks. That girl is gorgeous of course, but still a little thin.

Personality; fun, bubbly, energetic without being too over the top (there is energetic and then there is manic). I like girls who are sweet and good listeners. I have had some female friends (not very close friends, only inside the school) and they had a lot of these qualities.
 
Oh, I thought we were specifically talking about looks.
Fair enough but what good is a good-looking but rude, moody, glum girlfriend ? Know what I mean?


That girl is gorgeous of course, but still a little thin.
Can you give example of girl you consider attractive (face+body)?


Personality; fun, bubbly, energetic without being too over the top (there is energetic and then there is manic). I like girls who are sweet and good listeners. I have had some female friends (not very close friends, only inside the school) and they had a lot of these qualities.
Those sound like great qualities.
 
I will be 19 soon. I am going to college and I am afraid of asking a girl out now because they will think it's weird that I have never dated anyone.
Are you saying school is mandatory until 18 now?

If so, Ffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffff that. I can't imagine 2 more Years of being bullied by my school bullies.
 
Can you give example of girl you consider attractive (face+body)?

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Are you saying school is mandatory until 18 now?

If so, Ffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffff that. I can't imagine 2 more Years of being bullied by my school bullies.
Oh, I guess it depends on where you live?
 
cute

But I did ask, what good is a good-looking but rude, moody, glum girlfriend ? Know what I mean? Someone made a poll on this on here once and most users actually agree on my point.
 
cute

But I did ask, what good is a good-looking but rude, moody, glum girlfriend ? Know what I mean? Someone made a poll on this on here once and most users actually agree on my point.
No I definitely agree. I did say before what kind of personality I liked so I thought that was still implied when I sent the reference pic.
 
Is it just me? Or are there way roo many graycels nowadays
 
No I definitely agree. I did say before what kind of personality I liked so I thought that was still implied when I sent the reference pic.
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