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It's Over I think I'm turning asexual

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I don't know when or how t happened, but I've stopped caring about sex. I just don't think about it much any more. I still get lonely and wish i had a woman to cuddle with but the thought of sex barely excites me any more.

I used to fap every single day, now it's more like once every two weeks and even then it doesn't feel very satisfying, more like taking a piss except it requires more effort.

Not sure wtf is wrong with me. Maybe it's my age, maybe it's a result of medical treatments (i did chemotherapy back in 2020) or maybe my dick has finally come to terms with the fact that it will never touch a pussy.

You might expect this to feel liberating but instead it just makes me depressed to think that my virility is going away and i never even got to have sex once. Hopefully this is just a phase but it's been going on for several months now so it might be permanent.
 
Same,but that doesn't mean you're asexual. Asexuality isn't a thing.

You just have a low libido
 
It's just a phase
 
It's okay to be asexual.
 

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I wish you the best
 
It's protably a mix of age and sickness. Your body has no energy for sex. I really wish that one day I woud stop geting horny randomly. Lucky you :chad:
 
I'm feeling something similar but it's mainly from my hatred of women. I have to watch violent porn or gore to get off.
 
I don't know when or how t happened, but I've stopped caring about sex. I just don't think about it much any more. I still get lonely and wish i had a woman to cuddle with but the thought of sex barely excites me any more.

I used to fap every single day, now it's more like once every two weeks and even then it doesn't feel very satisfying, more like taking a piss except it requires more effort.

Not sure wtf is wrong with me. Maybe it's my age, maybe it's a result of medical treatments (i did chemotherapy back in 2020) or maybe my dick has finally come to terms with the fact that it will never touch a pussy.

You might expect this to feel liberating but instead it just makes me depressed to think that my virility is going away and i never even got to have sex once. Hopefully this is just a phase but it's been going on for several months now so it might be permanent.
Me 2, mid 20s

I actually don’t even know if I really want a relationship tbh. I’m so used to having so much autonomy and feeling hurt that the idea of someone taking autonomy away from me horrifies me, because unless I really find a woman who loves who I am, I know I’ll just continue feeling hurt but with less energy and autonomy. I can’t imagine some normie relationships where the chick dictates what male friends he’s allowed to have or how much time he’s allowed to spend with other dudes (I’ve seen this happen to some friends who have broken off from me for exactly this reason).

And considering I’m entering through the gate of betabucks land and I got to never experience just innocent desire and developing sexually with a female friend in my youth, I am deep down still a hurt middle schooler, and I really feel like any relationship I have will just end up with some woman taking advantage of my inner hurt child and hurting him even more, along with the loss of time, energy, money, and autonomy.

I bet if I somehow found a chick who loved me who doesn’t annoy me I would be willing to give up that autonomy, but for the most part, nah.
 
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And considering I’m entering through the gate of betabucks land and I got to never experience just innocent desire and developing sexually with a female friend in my youth, I am deep down still a hurt middle schooler, and I really feel like any relationship I have will just end up with some woman taking advantage of my inner hurt child and hurting him even more, along with the loss of time, energy, money, and autonomy.

Women are so fucking judgemental, even if we ascend they'll never respect us. You'd have to keep your past inceldom a secret because your girlfriend would never understand why you didn't "just get laid".

Im not even being hyperbolic, ive seen foids on discord say that they don't understand why lonely men hire escorts instead of just having sex with their female friends. I'm sure this doesn't apply to *all* women since at least the escorts must understand how pathetic their clients are, but i think most women really do think this way.

I also once managed to get into a phone conversation with a foid i was messaging on oncupid several years ago. She asked me about my previous girlfriend so i told her ive never had one. And then she asked me why I've never had a girlfriend as if whether or not girls want to have sex with me it's entirely under my control. I felt very tempted to ask her why she can't just lose 50lbs but i didn't say anything because im too high inhib to say something that mean even when my feelings are hurt.:feelsping:
 
It’s a phase, hopefully it’ll last.
 
Good for you, just get addicted to porn and fap 9 times a day like me
 
It's protably a mix of age and sickness. Your body has no energy for sex. I really wish that one day I woud stop geting horny randomly. Lucky you :chad:
 
Me 2, mid 20s

I actually don’t even know if I really want a relationship tbh. I’m so used to having so much autonomy and feeling hurt that the idea of someone taking autonomy away from me horrifies me, because unless I really find a woman who loves who I am, I know I’ll just continue feeling hurt but with less energy and autonomy. I can’t imagine some normie relationships where the chick dictates what male friends he’s allowed to have or how much time he’s allowed to spend with other dudes (I’ve seen this happen to some friends who have broken off from me for exactly this reason).

And considering I’m entering through the gate of betabucks land and I got to never experience just innocent desire and developing sexually with a female friend in my youth, I am deep down still a hurt middle schooler, and I really feel like any relationship I have will just end up with some woman taking advantage of my inner hurt child and hurting him even more, along with the loss of time, energy, money, and autonomy.

I bet if I somehow found a chick who loved me who doesn’t annoy me I would be willing to give up that autonomy, but for the most part, nah.
Relatable
 
Women are so fucking judgemental, even if we ascend they'll never respect us. You'd have to keep your past inceldom a secret because your girlfriend would never understand why you didn't "just get laid".
 
I don't know when or how t happened, but I've stopped caring about sex. I just don't think about it much any more. I still get lonely and wish i had a woman to cuddle with but the thought of sex barely excites me any more.

I used to fap every single day, now it's more like once every two weeks and even then it doesn't feel very satisfying, more like taking a piss except it requires more effort.

Not sure wtf is wrong with me. Maybe it's my age, maybe it's a result of medical treatments (i did chemotherapy back in 2020) or maybe my dick has finally come to terms with the fact that it will never touch a pussy.

You might expect this to feel liberating but instead it just makes me depressed to think that my virility is going away and i never even got to have sex once. Hopefully this is just a phase but it's been going on for several months now so it might be permanent.
Consider it as good fortune
 

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