I think I'm emotionally stunted because of the isolation and inceldom

[Deleted member 7448]

As I went outside today, I saw people talking. Just talking, smiling, nothing out of the ordinary. And that made me think.

I haven't really experienced the full range of human emotions. My brain is somehow ... atrophied, not fully developed in certain aspects, because of my isolation. Sure, I like being alone, this isolation is largely self-imposed because I hate interacting with human beings. But still, it did have an impact on me.

I'm not trying to say I'm immature, because somehow I skipped normal adulthood and right into cranky curmudgeon old person territory. What I'm saying is that there are aspects of human life that I simply haven't experienced and emotions that I have no idea how they feel. Hope my brain isn't too screwed up by being alone since I was a kid.

 

[PEETER]

yeah that happens when you're 25+ incel

 

[michael2222]

People catch on that your different. So you don't get invited. Girls don't give IOIs. Instead of people extending a helping hand to you expect them to be wholly satisfied seeing you LDAR.

 

[Deleted member 16455]

I feel you man. Also this prolonged isolation makes you resent people more than ever. At least for me

 

[Johny.speiz]

At least, you went out. I rarely went out of my room for weeks.


But, I do feel the same as you. Sometimes or even often I can't understand what's going on.

Was also alone, for almost my whole life. I was forced into it, by others, more than a choice. When I did go out to meet people, it was a total fiasco, a dead end, and I tend to attire "toxic people", even criminals in some case, which is very depressing. Actually, the more I'm out of it, the better I feel (well, not that much).

 

[Deleted member 7448]

At least, you went out. I rarely went out of my room for weeks.


But, I do feel the same as you. Sometimes or even often I can't understand what's going on.

Was also alone, for almost my whole life. I was forced into it, by others, more than a choice. When I did go out to meet people, it was a total fiasco, a dead end, and I tend to attire "toxic people", even criminals in some case, which is very depressing. Actually, the more I'm out of it, the better I feel (well, not that much).

I have to work, when I wasn't working I literally didn't leave the apartment for months.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

yea, it's pretty common among loser males
btw, a thing that was pointed out to me as a cause for being 'stunted' and 'avoidant' later in life was this https://www.google.com/search?client=firefox-b-d&q=family+enmeshment and I realised I had it big time, my home time always weighed heavily on me and I had less energy when I was out and about

 

[Johny.speiz]

I have to work, when I wasn't working I literally didn't leave the apartment for months.

I didn't wanted to say, but it's mostly the case for months, in general.

When I go out, I tend to escape the city, and be alone.

yea, it's pretty common among loser males
btw, a thing that was pointed out to me as a cause for being 'stunted' and 'avoidant' later in life was this https://www.google.com/search?client=firefox-b-d&q=family+enmeshment and I realised I had it big time, my home time always weighed heavily on me and I had less energy when I was out and about

Thanks for the info.

 

[Michael15651]

All emotions were supposed to be experienced in childhood years, that's how the normies had it.