Serious I think I will try Tinder soon.

[Mik_TFL]

I need to know the truth

Are there any tips you guys can share?
I never even really took selfies before.

took me 6 months to get 2 matches, that was a matching ratio of about 1/2000, some people in this forum do much worse, one guy was still at 0 after 25000. 1/2000 is still greater than 0, but only if your ego can take that many rejections. I did actually get a date though, even if it didn't go anywhere

 

[FUSIO_SOULS]

Tell us how it goes lmao

 

[Rightful anger]

took me 6 months to get 2 matches, that was a matching ratio of about 1/2000, some people in this forum do much worse, one guy was still at 0 after 25000. 1/2000 is still greater than 0, but only if your ego can take that many rejections. I did actually get a date though, even if it didn't go anywhere

A Tinder date is not the same as a normal date

a) Tinder attracts low quality people, most of whom are looking for sex or casual
b) Like she is dating you, she dates who knows how many others. A girl on Tinder is therefore a very risky investment to say the least since women get easily hundreds of matches.
c) She will resent you because you didn't approach her and only met her because of the Internet
d) You will be seen as disposable because of b even if you do manage to get into a relaitonship
e) It is just not romantic to meet on a dating site. It is a night club on steroids.

Conclusion: don't bother with Tinder unless you have ZERO other alternatives. The time is better spent improving/maxxing and looking elsewhere. Also, if you are about to approach a woman and see her using Tinder, move on.

Final words: My Tinder date didn't even last 5 minutes. She refused to go outside the central areas and called it off. I can't put up with crowded areas because of mental issues.

 

[imbored21]

Is it? @imbored21

It’s real using an autoliker app but i doubt very many women actually saw my profile.

 

[Deleted member 60]

So don't bother trying tinder if you're a friendless cel?

Got it.

aw man, it's over then

 

[Weirdcel]

aw man, it's over then

go up to strangers, ask them if they want to take a picture with you, pretend to have friends. profit?

 

[Deleted member 2798]

Tip #1 don't use selfies.

Get some good photos taken of you, put on a filter, go on dates and hope she isn't disgusted with your face compared to how you look in your pics.

So don't bother trying tinder if you're a friendless cel?

Got it.

aw man, it's over then

Selfies may work if you're good-looking enough, but ideally you'll want a few photos with prop normies, heckin doggos, landmarks, etc. I'm completely friendless and therefore rely exclusively on selfies (2), which is certainly a hindrance, but hasn't damned me completely. In fact, matches aren't my primary hurdle - getting a conversation going is the worst.

Spoiler: Potential [RageFuel]

Without wanting this to be construed as bragging, my experience so far has been mediocre but portentous of eventual success. I typically get 1/3 of the foids that I match with to say anything in response and maybe 1/4 of those to lead anywhere. I've had foids send ridiculously effervescent texts fulls of emojis only to stop responding for no reason. I've had foids initiate and stop responding. I've gotten unmatched if I fail to initiate within a few days. I've been cancelled on several times (you even have to wring this out of them, as follows - Ledgemund: "we still on for tonight?" Whore: "..." L: "hey, I'm headed over in about half an hour" W:"sorry I forgot and made plans"); I even thought I was going to ascend with a thicc latina who cancelled at the last minute. The common theme here: duplicity and prevarication - they are never straightforward. Another nice point: 4s are more discriminating than 7-8s - don't swipe on ugly cunts because you think they'll be easy. Bio probably doesn't matter too much. I don't think height counts for much until they meet you in person. I write this, too, as someone who has never received an IOI in his life - you might do better than you think, even if it's still not exactly good enough

 

[Deleted member 6470]

Don't forget to smile.

 

[latinoincel]

Everyone can have matches, the difficult thing is to have a decent conversation and make a date. The girls easily lose interest in you, because they find some chad.

 

[Full_Tidy]

I need to know the truth

Are there any tips you guys can share?
I never even really took selfies before.

I wouldn't use Tinder. Not only because most women on there are looking for chads (that is just from my experience), but a good amount on women on Tinder are catfishes (again, from my experience).

 

[Deleted member 60]

I wouldn't use Tinder. Not only because most women on there are looking for chads (that is just from my experience), but a good amount on women on Tinder are catfishes (again, from my experience).

so what would you advise, junecel?

 

[Indari]

I made one the day before yesterday. Wouldn't even know what to do if I miraculously got a date.

 

[uninstall]

Everyone can have matches, the difficult thing is to have a decent conversation and make a date. The girls easily lose interest in you, because they find some chad.

correction

"every normie"

 

[Full_Tidy]

so what would you advise, junecel?

I wouldn't use a dating site at all, but if you want to avoid being catfished, if somebody was interested in you, copy their profile pciture's URL, and look it up on Google, you will then see how many times that picture has been used on different websites, and find out the real name of the person in the picture (if you suspect that person to be a catfish).

 

[Anger]

Don't

 

[Deleted member 2798]

Well goddamn. Shortly after my last post I just had motherfuckin' two big opportunities fall through. Falling back into the pit still hurts no matter how used to the terrain you've become. Going to be a Today Is the Day marathon until I'm tired enough to sleep.

I should warn you, this shit will consume your mind and make it wander endlessly. And every failure, depending on its magnitude, is like being fed ipecac.

 

[EthnicelNL]

You're better off escortcelling.

There are femoids on tinder who have had more dick than some prostitutes im sure.

 

[Ser0]

tinder ye

 

[mylifeistrash]

girls who MESSAGE my chadfish first even ghost him

if you have to message a girl first, you've lost. it's over.

 

[jet112]

a word of advice, don't use tinder.
use a locally made dating app, there is a chance you can land a black woman (i did get a like from a black woman but i didn't follow up)

 

[latinoincel]

correction

"every normie"

depends on which country / city you live in, some places are easier to have matches even being incel.

 

[Deleted member 8499]

I'd say try to angle and light fraud a bit, not too much because then they are gonna see you and leave.
There is not much you can do anyways because appearance is all that matter and you either have it or not.

 

[Cleftcel]

Try cyanide instead

 

[heroinfather]

when average guys dont get matched and an incel thinks hes gonna have luck

this guy fell for the meme

 

[masterwizard]

What do you look like @fukmylyf? Too many normal looking guys here make the lowest IQ lowest effort Tinder profile possible, and then conclude its over because they don't have stacies jumping on their dick from a rooftop.

3 autistic selfies in your dark bedroom is simply not going to cut it on the most competitive dating market that has ever existed in human history.

Even the chad profiles (your competition) are now fairly high effort. High quality pictures (often photoshoot quality), pictures of them travelling in interesting places etc. If the Chadlites are having to be that competitive, then that should tell you something.

 

[Deleted member 6329]

Hope you don't mind that chicks

 

[SlayOrDie]

Make it playfull/flirty, dont talk about anything serious like 'what do you study? what do you do for fun? did you have a nice weekend? blah blah' nobody cares about boring shit like that. Just joke about everything, send GIPHY's, Chicks LOVE giphy's, make random jokes. Once u've exchanged some messages you make it a bit more serious aswell, but never get too serious. Ask her what she studies, then make a joke about it, etc. something like that.

 

[Getlooksordie]

Make it playfull/flirty, dont talk about anything serious like 'what do you study? what do you do for fun? did you have a nice weekend? blah blah' nobody cares about boring shit like that. Just joke about everything, send GIPHY's, Chicks LOVE giphy's, make random jokes. Once u've exchanged some messages you make it a bit more serious aswell, but never get too serious. Ask her what she studies, then make a joke about it, etc. something like that.

meanwhile chad just messages "let´s fuck" and she tells him her lifestory while the average guy gets one word answers or gets ghosted with your questions.

 

[SlayOrDie]

meanwhile chad just messages "let´s fuck" and she tells him her lifestory while the average guy gets one word answers or gets ghosted with your questions.

Yeah, Tindergame sucks hard. U act like a clown to try to score a date, it's shit. Real life is easier I guess due to less competition, but as a NEET who sits in his room all day I only do tindergame. I've tried the: 'let's fuck' as first message with a lot of different girls, but no success with that.

 

[Felix97]

Had tinder for a while and it brought me nothing but pain and rejection. Still a kissless Virgin but now with even lower self esteem.

Deleted it now

 

[Deleted member 2798]

Make it playfull/flirty, dont talk about anything serious like 'what do you study? what do you do for fun? did you have a nice weekend? blah blah' nobody cares about boring shit like that. Just joke about everything, send GIPHY's, Chicks LOVE giphy's, make random jokes. Once u've exchanged some messages you make it a bit more serious aswell, but never get too serious. Ask her what she studies, then make a joke about it, etc. something like that.

I'm already sort of intuitively aware of this, but I've been doing everything exactly wrong, damn. Probably why I lose foids left and right. I just don't know if I can fake that sort of braindead bullshit.

 

[Anti_]

Don't use tinder, you're better off using grindr and looking for a tranny. Chads are the only people who get any use out of that app.

 

[SlayOrDie]

Legit thought I was about to escape inceldom, but it was a scam. FUarkkkkk

I'm already sort of intuitively aware of this, but I've been doing everything exactly wrong, damn. Probably why I lose foids left and right. I just don't know if I can fake that sort of braindead bullshit.

I still feel like a cringy retard whenever i make jokes like that and send random giphy's but legit it's what girls like. Being flirty/NT is just cringy, gotta accept it and play the game lmao.

 

[Deleted member 2798]

I still feel like a cringy retard whenever i make jokes like that and send random giphy's but legit it's what girls like. Being flirty/NT is just cringy, gotta accept it and play the game lmao.

I feel like a dumbass even saying "lol". I suppose I should go all in on this fucked up, degrading game if I'm going to play it at all though.

If I ever get rid of my account, I'll probably just spam everyone "dtf?" or "it's over for sub-8 males in the West tbh tbh".

 

[_incelinside]

girls who MESSAGE my chadfish first even ghost him
.

Lol this. Even if you get matches good luck holding a foids attention tinder is 100 times harder than real life. Unless you are chad you will probably have to take her out on a date and you can't be autistic.

Maybe im wrong so you should still try at least though since you are decent looking. Make sure to use NT pictures

 

[Getlooksordie]

even if you get a reply it´s guaranteed she´s talking with atleast 20 different guys simultaniously.

 

[Deleted member 60]

Lol this. Even if you get matches good luck holding a foids attention tinder is 100 times harder than real life. Unless you are chad you will probably have to take her out on a date and you can't be autistic.

Maybe im wrong so you should still try at least though since you are decent looking. Make sure to use NT pictures

honestly I just want to know if I'm attractive enough to get matches. People on this site are always saying it's the ultimate test

You're better off escortcelling.

There are femoids on tinder who have had more dick than some prostitutes im sure.

no doubt, I'm not looking to LTR these sluts.

 

[Deleted member 2798]

honestly I just want to know if I'm attractive enough to get matches. People on this site are always saying it's the ultimate test

Even if you start out with only this aim, you'll be impelled further probably. Until consummation, it never seems like enough.