My father lives in Europe and is trying to put a lot of his estate under the names of his kids before he dies. He has a couple million dollars and if he splits it evenly among his children, I will get $1.5 million worth of assets if he gives them to us in time. I don't know if I can count on it as my dad has dementia and refuses to hire a lawyer, and he's made questionable decisions in the past and I wouldn't be surprised if I end up not getting anything at all because he blew them in bad investments. I started a bank account in the other country so my father can deposit money into it and put estate under my name, but he can also easily take money out right now. The country makes it difficult to pull money out of the country so I am talking to international estate lawyers to get an idea what I can do.
This is also when I found out how controlling and manipulative my siblings are (who live around my dad), and that they are not honest with me. They are vicious and just not decent people, and I don't look forward to trying to cooperate with them to deal with our father's assets especially since my father refuses to work with an estate lawyer. I have a feeling that my roastie sister in particular is trying to take advantage of me and become vindictive if I "step out of line". She has been very invested in trying to convince me to move to the country and even lying and exaggerating things. She has been very involved in "helping" me with my bank in the other country where dad is depositing money, and then got angry and told me "there will be no inheritance for you" if I refuse to move out of the US and into France. I wonder if there's an ulterior motive. I wouldn't be surprised if she's only "helping" me so she can steal my shit later after dad dies.
I want the inheritance because it would be stupid to walk away from it, and my dad said he worked hard to earn the money to pass onto our kids and I want to hold onto my dad's efforts and make the best out of my own life even if that means never getting laid (maybe I can pay for leg lengthening surgery). But then he is not making it easy for us and it's going to be a complicated mess if he dies and I don't get along with my siblings.
This is also when I found out how controlling and manipulative my siblings are (who live around my dad), and that they are not honest with me. They are vicious and just not decent people, and I don't look forward to trying to cooperate with them to deal with our father's assets especially since my father refuses to work with an estate lawyer. I have a feeling that my roastie sister in particular is trying to take advantage of me and become vindictive if I "step out of line". She has been very invested in trying to convince me to move to the country and even lying and exaggerating things. She has been very involved in "helping" me with my bank in the other country where dad is depositing money, and then got angry and told me "there will be no inheritance for you" if I refuse to move out of the US and into France. I wonder if there's an ulterior motive. I wouldn't be surprised if she's only "helping" me so she can steal my shit later after dad dies.
I want the inheritance because it would be stupid to walk away from it, and my dad said he worked hard to earn the money to pass onto our kids and I want to hold onto my dad's efforts and make the best out of my own life even if that means never getting laid (maybe I can pay for leg lengthening surgery). But then he is not making it easy for us and it's going to be a complicated mess if he dies and I don't get along with my siblings.
