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Discussion I Personally Dislike “Reaching Out” To People

StoryOfMyLaugh

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I’ve always heard sympathy go around and people say “Reach Out whenever you need me!” Or whatever. I personally vow to never “Reach Out” to any of my family or whomever whenever i’m suffering or whatnot, either because I don’t want to or subconsciously I know they wouldn’t give a fuck and probably ignore me—which i’m not mad at in anyway, that’s justifiable, and I would very likely do the same to anybody who tries to Reach Out to me.

I’d rather suffer in silence and mind my own business than need 50 people attempting to persuade me into a different mindset.
 
It’s all fake normie empathy bullshit
 
I got sick and tired of putting in 99% of the effort and cut off like 90% of people i used to deal with
 
reaching out to people only makes my situation worse
 
‘Reaching out’ never changes anything for people like me.
 
Will reaching out to people make foids desire me……

Exactly, no point
 
I don't reach out to anyone (except on this site)

why would I? irl normies don't give a shit about me
 
Yes, I'm much the same. Growing up, I never even told my parents about most problems in my life. I can't fully articulate why, but I feel immensely averse to doing so. I don't want to talk to them, and it feels like an erosion of privacy, at least that's part of it. Obviously, reaching out to anyone else is out of the question.
 
No normie fuck will be able to help anyway, I don't need some useless "compassion", and they won't ever give me anything actually useful because it will probably be "weird", anyway.
 
If they truly cared they would reach out to you every now and then. Even if they were just acquaintances.

It's like saying "let's get together sometime" to politely reject their presence.
 
They don't actually want you to reach out and burden them with your problems. They just say it by way of social convention.
 

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