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Story I once had a normie friend...

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He was 42, a few years older than me. Married and had kids with learning disabilities. His wife was actually nice to me and invited me for Christmas because she knew I was alone.

My friend was cheating on his wife, it happened multiple times but lately he met a foid (she got pregnant as a teen) with kids on Facebook dating and they were in a hidden relationship. Well everyone knew about it but his wife. They even went to Italy and he told his wife he was on a business trip.

Anyways this guy would always borrow money from me but never gave it back but it was like whatever, no big deal to me. So I let it go. Until one time I asked him for help putting together my new IKEA shelf and he said no and I told him he was a shitty friend because the one time I ever asked for help he said no. And he blocked me everywhere. The end
 
Shouldve told his wife about him cheating.
 
As an incel. always get revenge if you can. There's no reason for you to be nice to others.
 
Shouldve told his wife about him cheating.
I should've done that but I'm high inhib and now I don't have her contact any more. Hope she finds out though
 
Also, deserved for being nice to a sexhaver.
 
My friend was cheating on his wife, it happened multiple times but lately he met a foid (she got pregnant as a teen) with kids on Facebook dating and they were in a hidden relationship. Well everyone knew about it but his wife. They even went to Italy and he told his wife he was on a business trip
That's a big red flag giveaway, don't invest too much into relationship of cheaters, or dark-triad normies, and count on them

My lazy low-IQ friend kept borrowing money from me, i was hoping he would get back on his feet but he didn't
 
That's a big red flag giveaway, don't invest too much into relationship of cheaters, or dark-triad normies, and count on them

My lazy low-IQ friend kept borrowing money from me, i was hoping he would get back on his feet but he didn't
Ah sorry, do you still keep in touch with him?
 
He was 42, a few years older than me. Married and had kids with learning disabilities. His wife was actually nice to me and invited me for Christmas because she knew I was alone.

My friend was cheating on his wife, it happened multiple times but lately he met a foid (she got pregnant as a teen) with kids on Facebook dating and they were in a hidden relationship. Well everyone knew about it but his wife. They even went to Italy and he told his wife he was on a business trip.

Anyways this guy would always borrow money from me but never gave it back but it was like whatever, no big deal to me. So I let it go. Until one time I asked him for help putting together my new IKEA shelf and he said no and I told him he was a shitty friend because the one time I ever asked for help he said no. And he blocked me everywhere. The end
not a friend
 
Ah sorry, do you still keep in touch with him?
I haven't for awhile and i have no expectations of him to return any money, or favors

But we're on okay-ish terms and connections are hard to come by as an incel, so i haven't cut him off
 
I haven't for awhile and i have no expectations of him to return any money, or favors

But we're on okay-ish terms and connections are hard to come by as an incel, so i haven't cut him off
Understandable! Agreed about connections being hard to come by
 
He was 42, a few years older than me.
Well that was a hell of a line to begin with, if that's true then nothing more about this can hurt you anymore, you're old enough and already went through a brutal awakening regarding this scenario....
Allow me to double down

because oher than this line, I know what you're thinking of with yourself op, I know exactly the implications and I read them behind the lines better than anyone here does.
make no mistake, your words can't mask away the supressed bitterness and rage you're hiding from someone like me. you show signs of brilliance make no mistake, which is what made me interested to the point of writing all of this.
You wasted your only chance of ascension, right? or it wasn't even there? that kind and lovely female that wifed up your cheating trash friend would still choose him in a deadbeat million out of a million times over any of us here. Tell me what damaged you the most and what regrets do you have op? that you can't reach to her and tell her how terrible her piece of trash husband is? You'll surely be one good shoulder to cry on. the thing is I'm not gloating over your pains or laughing at your face if anything, I'm helping you explore, the real evil lies behind your friend who smeared salt all over your wounds for years, you took it on the chin, like me, because I can relate the most as I'm not a young teen with no experience like many of the new users you're interacting with here.
your friend? he will get to cheat on his wife and get away with it. and if he doesn't, he still gets to enjoy a young and fertile female. what are the odds would be for his wife choosing someone who has a score of an absolute zero over someone who attracts a young and fertile female just because the latter cheated? unfortunately it's nonexistent. your "friend" was never your friend, erasing you from his life because he didn't want to help you over furniture. he enjoyed the fruits of his life but that wasn't enough, he took a bite of yours too. wouldn't be surprising if he used and manipulated you. these things happen.


There is an arabic idiom that I really like

"the water's money is for the water's, the milk's money is for the milk"

You did invest on water, you hoped so much with everything you have that maybe at one point it was milk, that it would be rewarding at one point, but here you are now, what happened? my role lies here, to show you the truth and I'll accept, contain and even calmly comfort your rage. Only the best that I can do.

I advise you to read everything I wrote carefully, much like I indulged in reading your thread, it was rewarding for me but I don't expect the feeling will be mutual.
 
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Well that was a hell of a line to begin with, if that's true then nothing more about this can hurt you anymore, you're old enough and already went through a brutal awakening regarding this scenario....
Allow me to double down

because oher than this line, I know what you're thinking of with yourself op, I know exactly the implications and I read them behind the lines better than anyone here does.
make no mistake, your words can't mask away the supressed bitterness and rage you're hiding from someone like me. you show signs of brilliance make no mistake, which is what made me interested to the point of writing all of this.
You wasted your only chance of ascension, right? or it wasn't even there? that kind and lovely female that wifed up your cheating trash friend would still choose him in a deadbeat million out of a million times over any of us here. Tell me what damaged you the most and what regrets do you have op? that you can't reach to her and tell her how terrible her piece of trash husband is? You'll surely be one good shoulder to cry on. the thing is I'm not gloating over your pains or laughing at your face if anything, I'm helping you explore, the real evil lies behind your friend who smeared salt all over your wounds for years, you took it on the chin, like me, because I can relate the most as I'm not a young teen with no experience like many of the new users you're interacting with here.
your friend? he will get to cheat on his wife and get away with it. and if he doesn't, he still gets to enjoy a young and fertile female. what are the odds would be for his wife choosing someone who has a score of an absolute zero over someone who attracts a young and fertile female just because the latter cheated? unfortunately it's nonexistent. your "friend" was never your friend, erasing you from his life because he didn't want to help you over furniture. he enjoyed the fruits of his life but that wasn't enough, he took a bite of yours too. wouldn't be surprising if he used and manipulated you. these things happen.


There is an arabic idiom that I really like

"the water's money is for the water's, the milk's money is for the milk"

You did invest on water, you hoped so much with everything you have that maybe at one point it was milk, that it would be rewarding at one point, but here you are now, what happened? my role lies here, to show you the truth and I'll accept, contain and even calmly comfort your rage. Only the best that I can do.

I advise you to read everything I wrote carefully, much like I indulged in reading your thread, it was rewarding for me but I don't expect the feeling will be mutual.
@Emba read everything, I would like your opinion too as a wizard on this entire thread.
 
Well that was a hell of a line to begin with, if that's true then nothing more about this can hurt you anymore, you're old enough and already went through a brutal awakening regarding this scenario....
Allow me to double down

because oher than this line, I know what you're thinking of with yourself op, I know exactly the implications and I read them behind the lines better than anyone here does.
make no mistake, your words can't mask away the supressed bitterness and rage you're hiding from someone like me. you show signs of brilliance make no mistake, which is what made me interested to the point of writing all of this.
You wasted your only chance of ascension, right? or it wasn't even there? that kind and lovely female that wifed up your cheating trash friend would still choose him in a deadbeat million out of a million times over any of us here. Tell me what damaged you the most and what regrets do you have op? that you can't reach to her and tell her how terrible her piece of trash husband is? You'll surely be one good shoulder to cry on. the thing is I'm not gloating over your pains or laughing at your face if anything, I'm helping you explore, the real evil lies behind your friend who smeared salt all over your wounds for years, you took it on the chin, like me, because I can relate the most as I'm not a young teen with no experience like many of the new users you're interacting with here.
your friend? he will get to cheat on his wife and get away with it. and if he doesn't, he still gets to enjoy a young and fertile female. what are the odds would be for his wife choosing someone who has a score of an absolute zero over someone who attracts a young and fertile female just because the latter cheated? unfortunately it's nonexistent. your "friend" was never your friend, erasing you from his life because he didn't want to help you over furniture. he enjoyed the fruits of his life but that wasn't enough, he took a bite of yours too. wouldn't be surprising if he used and manipulated you. these things happen.


There is an arabic idiom that I really like

"the water's money is for the water's, the milk's money is for the milk"

You did invest on water, you hoped so much with everything you have that maybe at one point it was milk, that it would be rewarding at one point, but here you are now, what happened? my role lies here, to show you the truth and I'll accept, contain and even calmly comfort your rage. Only the best that I can do.

I advise you to read everything I wrote carefully, much like I indulged in reading your thread, it was rewarding for me but I don't expect the feeling will be mutual.
Thank you brother for reading and for the response. Yep, it is indeed too late for me, though it never began and I just always had hope. Even now I'm still going to try going back on dating apps because what else can I do...no, my friend's wife wouldn't have been into me...he was really handsome when he was younger, not bad looking now despite the wrinkles around his eyes. And then there's me, that women never look at. I just try to get through day after day. How about you?
 
Thank you brother for reading and for the response. Yep, it is indeed too late for me, though it never began and I just always had hope. Even now I'm still going to try going back on dating apps because what else can I do...no, my friend's wife wouldn't have been into me...he was really handsome when he was younger, not bad looking now despite the wrinkles around his eyes. And then there's me, that women never look at. I just try to get through day after day. How about you?
You're welcome, I expected you would lash out in response but you proved to have a high level of understanding.

I see myself living without trying because I don't see myself trying anymore, I may not be old as you as I'm just 28, but I do see that I already have nothing left to try or fix. What is left for me now is what you lived in the past 10 or so years, as I'll most likely experience more of these stories like the one we talked about, it is what it is.
 
You're welcome, I expected you would lash out in response but you proved to have a high level of understanding.

I see myself living without trying because I don't see myself trying anymore, I may not be old as you as I'm just 28, but I do see that I already have nothing left to try or fix. What is left for me now is what you lived in the past 10 or so years, as I'll most likely experience more of these stories like the one we talked about, it is what it is.
I understand, it's really disturbing as the years passed with no change and there isn't a point in trying, you're right, I'm just too scared to fully face the fact that it's over.
 
@Emba read everything, I would like your opinion too as a wizard on this entire thread.
I have invested in water, and water purification devices.

And cheese. Lots of cheese.
 
I have invested in water, and water purification devices.

And cheese. Lots of cheese.
And your investments should made you cheddar in return. give cheese and get cheese
 
I had a normie "friend" a little while ago too. He ended up getting obsessed with black culture; rap music, marijuana, all of that nonsense.

He used to be in a constant high, from shrooms, marijuana or whatever he was on. Recently he ended up going semi-schizo and drawing on himself with ink because he wanted to be connected to nature gods or something like that.
Pretty scary to be around though
 
I had a normie "friend" a little while ago too. He ended up getting obsessed with black culture; rap music, marijuana, all of that nonsense.

He used to be in a constant high, from shrooms, marijuana or whatever he was on. Recently he ended up going semi-schizo and drawing on himself with ink because he wanted to be connected to nature gods or something like that.
Pretty scary to be around though
Wow that's pretty wild
 
He was 42, a few years older than me. Married and had kids with learning disabilities. His wife was actually nice to me and invited me for Christmas because she knew I was alone.

My friend was cheating on his wife, it happened multiple times but lately he met a foid (she got pregnant as a teen) with kids on Facebook dating and they were in a hidden relationship. Well everyone knew about it but his wife. They even went to Italy and he told his wife he was on a business trip.

Anyways this guy would always borrow money from me but never gave it back but it was like whatever, no big deal to me. So I let it go. Until one time I asked him for help putting together my new IKEA shelf and he said no and I told him he was a shitty friend because the one time I ever asked for help he said no. And he blocked me everywhere. The end

Should've destroyed his life but revealing the truth to his wife.
 
He was 42, a few years older than me. Married and had kids with learning disabilities. His wife was actually nice to me and invited me for Christmas because she knew I was alone.

My friend was cheating on his wife, it happened multiple times but lately he met a foid (she got pregnant as a teen) with kids on Facebook dating and they were in a hidden relationship. Well everyone knew about it but his wife. They even went to Italy and he told his wife he was on a business trip.

Anyways this guy would always borrow money from me but never gave it back but it was like whatever, no big deal to me. So I let it go. Until one time I asked him for help putting together my new IKEA shelf and he said no and I told him he was a shitty friend because the one time I ever asked for help he said no. And he blocked me everywhere. The end
Damn! Sorry to hear this..

When he never returned the borrowed money from you, that alone is a major red flag of what he truly is! He showed his true colors when he declined to help you with your furniture!
 
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I had a normie "friend" a little while ago too. He ended up getting obsessed with black culture; rap music, marijuana, all of that nonsense.

He used to be in a constant high, from shrooms, marijuana or whatever he was on. Recently he ended up going semi-schizo and drawing on himself with ink because he wanted to be connected to nature gods or something like that.
Pretty scary to be around though
Damn! This is wild!
 

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