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Discussion I often fantasize frequently about the life i should've had in the 2010s in my teens/early 20s, and it's often bittersweet.

Genetically Doomed

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I am now a 27 year old, and I hate being 27. You know, I don't think i'd hate it if i experienced my teens/early-mid 20s. I can't believe in just 3 years i'll be 30, and that is horrifying. I don't have much going on in my life right now. I'm NEET and trying to find a job for a year now. It's hard finding one, and I only managed to get a temp a month ago briefly and then it ended after like two weeks. I don't really much interest in anything anymore, and anything modern tends to bore me. I have a strong psychological preference for familiarity as an autistic guy, and I don't tend to become accustomed to anything modern until it finally becomes at least a few years old, and interestingly, even shit from 10 years ago can still seem futuristic to me, but not as much as it did back then. What happened to when i was a child and i didn't have a preference for familiarity? I adapted to modern trends and society in the 2000s decade. I really miss the 2000s. Shit today and in the 2010s (except the very early 2010s) is so futuristic that even 2000 seems more modern to me, and i was only a toddler.

i fantasize a lot about experiencing my teens/early 20s as a neurotypical chad. I fantasize about the following:

*Having sex with older women while being like 17. This is a common fantasy i have a lot. This would be the PERFECT way to lose my virginity. Not starting at 27 or even 22! I could've learned A LOT about sex from women in their 20s while being 17! If I ever get attracted to a 27 year old woman and fantasize about her, I fantasize about being 17 and she's 27.

*Going to university right after high school, and no community college first. The late 2010s sucked but it would've been enjoyable for me if I was a normie and didn't have a boring ass life that period of life and avoided politics. Trump's becoming president again soon though. I should've had a girlfriend, bar hopping or clubbing, raving, having a social circle of friends, and having things to do with them even on spring break or the summer, etc. I honestly wish i picked a better major, but I have learning disabilities and autism and it's hard to handle shit like Econ or something. If I were to have zero disabilities, I could've majored in anything useful.

*Having tons of memories to look back on by now, and having so many life experiences i never could achieve. People look best in their early 20s and after that, it's all downhill. At 21, i should've been having the hottest stoned sex on the planet with a 21 year old woman in public after a music festival with tons of people watching us completely interested and entertained. Everybody my age has had that kind of sex memory, and when you get older, nobody your age wants to engage in badass sex. They just will have sex without doing something badass.

*Having a high paying job.
 
don't tend to become accustomed to anything modern until it finally becomes at least a few years old
Same, we lack the hivemind that NTs have to enjoy current trends, one of the main reasons Aspies are outcasts

Having sex with older women while being like 17. This is a common fantasy i have a lot. This would be the PERFECT way to lose my virginity. Not starting at 27 or even 22! I could've learned A LOT about sex from women in their 20s while being 17! If I ever get attracted to a 27 year old woman and fantasize about her, I fantasize about being 17 and she's 27.
Do you have mommy issues ?

At 21, i should've been having the hottest stoned sex on the planet with a 21 year old woman in public after a music festival with tons of people watching us completely interested and entertained. Everybody my age has had that kind of sex memory, and when you get older, nobody your age wants to engage in badass sex. They just will have sex without doing something badass.
I dont know what kind of porn you watched but i can certainly tell you that such kind of sex is not the norm at all


But yeah, brutal read. We missed out on major developmental milestones and there is nothing we can do about it. Its over
 
Same, we lack the hivemind that NTs have to enjoy current trends, one of the main reasons Aspies are outcasts


Do you have mommy issues ?


I dont know what kind of porn you watched but i can certainly tell you that such kind of sex is not the norm at all


But yeah, brutal read. We missed out on major developmental milestones and there is nothing we can do about it. Its over
i fantasize about being 17 and with women in their 20s, not middle aged women. also, that kind of sex isn't something you see only in porn. many couples fuck in public while stoned.
 
i fantasize about being 17 and with women in their 20s, not middle aged women. also, that kind of sex isn't something you see only in porn. many couples fuck in public while stoned.
In what country do you live where thats suposedly the norm ? Maybe they fuck in the woods or something, but its not that common for couples to fuck in festivals of hundreds of people
 
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In what country do you live where thats suposedly the norm ? Maybe they fuck in the woods or something, but its not that common for couples to fuck in festivals of hundreds of peopel
I thought openly having sex was a very common thing in germany?
 
We need to end the repressions we impose on ourselves and maybe we will finally be free and find peace.
 
In what country do you live where thats suposedly the norm ? Maybe they fuck in the woods or something, but its not that common for couples to fuck in festivals of hundreds of people
Nah I’m sure people at music festivals have fucked in public
 
I am 28 as well and it's fucking hell, more when you missed the chance to enjoy things that are only possible in your youth, especially young love. I have a shitty job for the moment, and everyday I have to endure seeing young people enjoying the life I never could.

The only thing going for me are my little personal projects, that maybe one day will make me rich or at least could make a living from them. I hope to overcome the longing for all what I never had and raise above society.
 
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I'm 10 years older and do the same. I'd love to even go back to your age. If you weren't blessed with looks, 27-37 can be much better than you 16-26, as a male. Provided you take care of yourself and have decent income.
 
Okay and where is the proof of all the wild sex you see on festivals ? If it would really happen as often you would say, it would have been recorded by everyone and should be easily findable online
 
I do the same thing bro. Honestly life in middle school was a thousand times better than high school and college and now.
 
Okay and where is the proof of all the wild sex you see on festivals ? If it would really happen as often you would say, it would have been recorded by everyone and should be easily findable online
They probably were never caught. People have sex after music festivals all the time I’m sure there’s stories you can look up

People have adventurous sex memories
 
They probably were never caught. People have sex after music festivals all the time I’m sure there’s stories you can look up

People have adventurous sex memories
You just said that tons of people watched them having sex
 
I'm 10 years older and do the same. I'd love to even go back to your age. If you weren't blessed with looks, 27-37 can be much better than you 16-26, as a male. Provided you take care of yourself and have decent income.
in my late 20s, my chances are plummeting.
 
I am 28 as well and it's fucking hell, more when you missed the chance to enjoy things that are only possible in your youth, especially young love. I have a shitty job for the moment, and everyday I have to endure seeing young people enjoying the life I never could.

The only thing going for me are my little personal projects, that maybe one day will make me rich or at least could make a living from them. I hope to overcome the longing for all what I never had and raise above society.
the worst part about missing out on your youth is that you cannot make up for it with age.
 
I am now a 27 year old, and I hate being 27. You know, I don't think i'd hate it if i experienced my teens/early-mid 20s. I can't believe in just 3 years i'll be 30, and that is horrifying. I don't have much going on in my life right now. I'm NEET and trying to find a job for a year now. It's hard finding one, and I only managed to get a temp a month ago briefly and then it ended after like two weeks. I don't really much interest in anything anymore, and anything modern tends to bore me. I have a strong psychological preference for familiarity as an autistic guy, and I don't tend to become accustomed to anything modern until it finally becomes at least a few years old, and interestingly, even shit from 10 years ago can still seem futuristic to me, but not as much as it did back then. What happened to when i was a child and i didn't have a preference for familiarity? I adapted to modern trends and society in the 2000s decade. I really miss the 2000s. Shit today and in the 2010s (except the very early 2010s) is so futuristic that even 2000 seems more modern to me, and i was only a toddler.

i fantasize a lot about experiencing my teens/early 20s as a neurotypical chad. I fantasize about the following:

*Having sex with older women while being like 17. This is a common fantasy i have a lot. This would be the PERFECT way to lose my virginity. Not starting at 27 or even 22! I could've learned A LOT about sex from women in their 20s while being 17! If I ever get attracted to a 27 year old woman and fantasize about her, I fantasize about being 17 and she's 27.

*Going to university right after high school, and no community college first. The late 2010s sucked but it would've been enjoyable for me if I was a normie and didn't have a boring ass life that period of life and avoided politics. Trump's becoming president again soon though. I should've had a girlfriend, bar hopping or clubbing, raving, having a social circle of friends, and having things to do with them even on spring break or the summer, etc. I honestly wish i picked a better major, but I have learning disabilities and autism and it's hard to handle shit like Econ or something. If I were to have zero disabilities, I could've majored in anything useful.

*Having tons of memories to look back on by now, and having so many life experiences i never could achieve. People look best in their early 20s and after that, it's all downhill. At 21, i should've been having the hottest stoned sex on the planet with a 21 year old woman in public after a music festival with tons of people watching us completely interested and entertained. Everybody my age has had that kind of sex memory, and when you get older, nobody your age wants to engage in badass sex. They just will have sex without doing something badass.

*Having a high paying job.
i do this too. I wonder how my life would of been if i was a teen way back in the day but then i realize it would of been the same shit
 

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