Serious I never know what to say and I think it's a big reason for why I have no friends.

[Coyote Cooch]

I realize a foid won't ever fuck me because of the way I look, but I often wonder why I don't even have friends. then yesterday a male coworker was trying to make conversation with me while we were driving to a job site, and I felt so fucking retarded (tbf I am) because I never know how to respond to people. I never have anything interesting to say (that they would care about at least), I'm not funny, I'm not clever, I'm just fucking autistic and boring. I'm where conversations go to die, and I'm starting to think that's a big reason why normies (and other potential incels irl) don't try to be friends with me. but I have no idea how to change that.

 

[SewerGoat]

Don't know what to suggest since i also struggle with this sometimes. I can tell you one thing though: When i am drunk i say interesting stuff. I think getting over your inhibition may help, though without alcohol.

 

[Kent88]

friends are overrated

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

You could talk 24/7 and still not make a single friend
Normies only care about having a gf, money and material things

 

[AdPajeetIncel]

friends

friendship is coping, what we need is a sexfoid

 

[AdPajeetIncel]

You could talk 24/7 and still not make a single friend
Normies only care about having a gf, money and material things

I mean I'm not a normie but I think the similar way, All I need is enough money and a foid

 

[Coyote Cooch]

Don't know what to suggest since i also struggle with this sometimes. I can tell you one thing though: When i am drunk i say interesting stuff. I think getting over your inhibition may help, though without alcohol.

sometimes I wonder if it's not inhibition so much as I'm just not an interesting or clever person.

 

[Coyote Cooch]

You could talk 24/7 and still not make a single friend
Normies only care about having a gf, money and material things

yeah I guess you're right.

 

[Coyote Cooch]

friends are overrated

I feel like if I had at least one then maybe life wouldn't be so painful, or at least I'd be distracted from the pain for a minute here and there. maybe I wouldn't feel so pointless and worthless. or at least not to the same degree.

 

[Coyote Cooch]

friendship is coping, what we need is a sexfoid

but I'll never have a sexfoid. friends are at least something I can maybe have. and yes, to cope.

 

[Kent88]

I feel like if I had at least one then maybe life wouldn't be so painful, or at least I'd be distracted from the pain for a minute here and there. maybe I wouldn't feel so pointless and worthless. or at least not to the same degree.

Make friends with someone who isn't a normie if you really want a friend.

Normies aren't worth the time, or effort.

With that said;

I in the past year have made over 5 friends with non normies in real life but they all either don't message me anymore or whenever I ask them if they want to meet up again they will say maybe then never respond to me

I think about them everyday and they probably haven't thought about me in weeks

but if you want to temporarily make life less painful go for it

 

[MoroccanFarmer]

U are probably too neurodivergent. Its normal for people with (including me) to have problem to find even one or two good friends.

 

[Coyote Cooch]

but if you want to temporarily make life less painful go for it

yeah that's really all I'm aiming for at this point.

 

[Coyote Cooch]

U are probably too neurodivergent. Its normal for people with (including me) to have problem to find even one or two good friends.

yeah. I guess I just feel like other neurodivergent people still tend to get together and form some friendships with others like them. I just don't connect with anyone.

 

[MoroccanFarmer]

yeah. I guess I just feel like other neurodivergent people still tend to get together and form some friendships with others like them. I just don't connect with anyone.

Most neurodivergent people are distanced towards everyone, beacause they were laught at and ridiculed by others when they showed general commections to them.

 

[Wolnir]

You've got to learn to talk about boring shit because that's what small talk is.

 

[Chirag gupta]

Same here, man. I haven’t had a single friend since I was 13

 

[Spiteful Mutant]

Yep, I feel the exact same way. I think you simply have to grow indifferent to it past a certain age.

 

[Coyote Cooch]

You've got to learn to talk about boring shit because that's what small talk is.

yeah, I just don't know how, it's like I'm just too brain dead for it.

 

[Coyote Cooch]

Same here, man. I haven’t had a single friend since I was 13

mogs me for ever having a friend

 

[Coyote Cooch]

Yep, I feel the exact same way. I think you simply have to grow indifferent to it past a certain age.

yeah I guess so.

 

[Lo3e]

start small even corny cringe icebreaks u can find online

 

[Freixel]

It's all about pretending to be a normie to blend in with them; you have to copy their way of talking. I did it in high school.

 

[Wolnir]

yeah, I just don't know how, it's like I'm just too brain dead for it.

Watch normie tv and sports

 

[Rezecel]

Same here, man. I think it’s because I LDAR too much. All I do is watch random videos on YouTube, and I feel like the more I avoid talking to people, the less I want to talk to them. It’s a vicious cycle.

And when I do try to talk to normies or anyone really, they tend to realize I’m not like them, so they basically stop caring about me really fast.

Most people fascinate me because I really don’t understand how they can talk to someone else for hours on end.

 

[EndraCel0]

I can have conversations with people, but the moment a girl enters, my mind goes blank, gosh I wish they could disappear

 

[Dead End]

sometimes I wonder if it's not inhibition so much as I'm just not an interesting or clever person.

Probably both. I can't talk well to my coworkers or people I am not highly familiar with (I feel very slow and lost in conversation with them), but I can talk to my parents a lot better, probably because I have more confidence around them, have a better idea to how they will react to what I say, and am able to discuss topics with them that I couldn't in conversation with strangers.

 

[Neurotic]

I can’t do the small talk shit nigga that shit is so cringe

 

[Aliocha braska]

friends are overrated

Are you okay

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

I realize a foid won't ever fuck me because of the way I look, but I often wonder why I don't even have friends. then yesterday a male coworker was trying to make conversation with me while we were driving to a job site, and I felt so fucking retarded (tbf I am) because I never know how to respond to people. I never have anything interesting to say (that they would care about at least), I'm not funny, I'm not clever, I'm just fucking autistic and boring. I'm where conversations go to die, and I'm starting to think that's a big reason why normies (and other potential incels irl) don't try to be friends with me. but I have no idea how to change that.

Does your colleague like sportsball?
Then find out something about his favorite team and talk to him about it.
Generally, ask questions, show interest. Normies like that sort of thing.

 

[Saint Nigger]

I realize a foid won't ever fuck me because of the way I look, but I often wonder why I don't even have friends. then yesterday a male coworker was trying to make conversation with me while we were driving to a job site, and I felt so fucking retarded (tbf I am) because I never know how to respond to people. I never have anything interesting to say (that they would care about at least), I'm not funny, I'm not clever, I'm just fucking autistic and boring. I'm where conversations go to die, and I'm starting to think that's a big reason why normies (and other potential incels irl) don't try to be friends with me. but I have no idea how to change that.

I literally have the same situation

 

[Kan>Foids]

I realize a foid won't ever fuck me because of the way I look, but I often wonder why I don't even have friends. then yesterday a male coworker was trying to make conversation with me while we were driving to a job site, and I felt so fucking retarded (tbf I am) because I never know how to respond to people. I never have anything interesting to say (that they would care about at least), I'm not funny, I'm not clever, I'm just fucking autistic and boring. I'm where conversations go to die, and I'm starting to think that's a big reason why normies (and other potential incels irl) don't try to be friends with me. but I have no idea how to change that.

Memorize sportsball crap. Indulge their idiotic ramblings about their favorite clan of ball throwing cavemen, and you'll make plenty of normie friends. They'll probably be boring morons, but that's genuinely the best advice I can give you.

 

[Coyote Cooch]

Memorize sportsball crap. Indulge their idiotic ramblings about their favorite clan of ball throwing cavemen, and you'll make plenty of normie friends. They'll probably be boring morons, but that's genuinely the best advice I can give you.

it really does sound like this is the only thing to talk about with normie men.

 

[Kan>Foids]

it really does sound like this is the only thing to talk about with normie men.

Trust me. I'm in my mid 30's and that's the only subject the simpletons can understand. You don't like or care about their silly yard games, you might as well not exist.