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Hello everybody, This might be an obscure first post, but I have been lurking here for few months and didn’t feel the need to register as I likely didn’t had anything important to say and contribute that other users haven’t already said. I have red many posts and I agree with many of the points made on the forum, but this is not why I am here. Also this wont be your usual “help me idk if she is interested”, the scenario I have for you is one thats quite obscure and it revolves on a 15 year old friendship with a childhood female friend who I spent almost every day outside with. Ever since COVID she’s been in her pathetic femcel arc, she is a KHHV loser who never had a relationship and is with absurdly high standards. When we were 14 I once asked her out, as a joke to which she neglected it so I havent tried since and didn’t care a lot. This case is however not about me, to give some background context I registered on few dating apps to try them out despite the massive amount of negative reviews. I was rejected 3 times and got frustrated and deleted the apps, but she got… I guess inspired? and also went to try the apps, at least Tinder. She put on her bio that is not looking for anything serious and only for friendship material despite complaining how lonely she is, And of course you can guess what happened, many guys messaged her, but that one person stuck to her, He seems like a serious chill guy, smart and invested, and they hung out like twice I think. Last week she asked me for advice how to turn him down with “i dont want things to go in that direction honestly xdxd”, to which I got really triggered. I didn’t respond anything and ignored out of frustration. Complains for loneliness, goes on Tinder, and still will turn down a chill guy. As much as I want to say I appreciate our almost 15 year old friendship I seriously despise this foid behavior. And the guy, I could strike up convo with him as I know what he looks like and where he is around usually in this town but it will be weird and stalkery, I don’t know if I should warn him about but he WILL get hurt eventually.. And it is hard to let go of a childhood friend as I have literally decades of memories, I have no idea what to do, as much as I want to throw a blind eye on this I also want her to get a major lesson for being this delusional. If you’re going to comment anything stupid don’t even say it, it is heated up enough here, and for those who will say “ooouuuhhh you want it for you someones jelly” No I am not, I don’t wanna sound fakecel with this but I have already gotten rejected anyway, plus this behavior seriously turns me off, will it be nice? Yes I guess cause I know her very well, but I cannot do this. I want to spread awareness and give her the reality check, Justice shall be served.
