My mom is an arrogant doctor. Like 5 weeks ago I had to go to my moms workplace and I met some of her colleagues. Fast forward to a few days ago mom says "BTW My colleague *random name* said you were as handsome as an angel, she just doesn't like the long hair"
For context I haven't had a haircut in 10 months.
My mom is clearly making up people to get me to cut my hair short, I'm not crazy for thinking that right? Why would she only bring it up 5 weeks later.
She used to gaslight me like this my entire childhood, calling me handsome when I was a tubby, ugly outcast at school. I used to binge eat sweets, like I'd eat up to 500g of chocolate in one sitting. When I was tubby and wanted to become healthier I'd start refusing to eat any sweets, and then my mom would be like
"Go buy yourself sweets" ->
"Are you sure you don't want them?" -> "Okay then buy them for me"
and then she'd leave the sweets I "bought for her" at the kitchen counter where I'd see them any time I'd want to eat lunch. And ofc I'd relapse every single time. I developed such an addiction that in my uni days I'd eat a 1kg tub of ice cream in one sitting sometimes multiple days in a row.
She's a fat fuck and has always wanted me to be a fat fuck too, she's not only an enabler but a temptation too. She also forced me to take an ungodly amount of antibiotics when I was sick once for a month straight. Completely nuked my gut, I'm unable to digest any food that isn't meat, everything else breaks me out really bad. And it also led to a lot of hair loss. She's the reason I hate doctors, she'd force me to be unhealthy and if I ever questioned it shed say things like "I'm a doctor what do you know about health." She's very low iq too.
Luckily I haven't eaten candy in over a year now and am in best shape yet, too bad my face and hair have already been ruined and I missed out on at least trying to get a gf in HS or uni.
For context I haven't had a haircut in 10 months.
My mom is clearly making up people to get me to cut my hair short, I'm not crazy for thinking that right? Why would she only bring it up 5 weeks later.
She used to gaslight me like this my entire childhood, calling me handsome when I was a tubby, ugly outcast at school. I used to binge eat sweets, like I'd eat up to 500g of chocolate in one sitting. When I was tubby and wanted to become healthier I'd start refusing to eat any sweets, and then my mom would be like
"Go buy yourself sweets" ->
"Are you sure you don't want them?" -> "Okay then buy them for me"
and then she'd leave the sweets I "bought for her" at the kitchen counter where I'd see them any time I'd want to eat lunch. And ofc I'd relapse every single time. I developed such an addiction that in my uni days I'd eat a 1kg tub of ice cream in one sitting sometimes multiple days in a row.
She's a fat fuck and has always wanted me to be a fat fuck too, she's not only an enabler but a temptation too. She also forced me to take an ungodly amount of antibiotics when I was sick once for a month straight. Completely nuked my gut, I'm unable to digest any food that isn't meat, everything else breaks me out really bad. And it also led to a lot of hair loss. She's the reason I hate doctors, she'd force me to be unhealthy and if I ever questioned it shed say things like "I'm a doctor what do you know about health." She's very low iq too.
Luckily I haven't eaten candy in over a year now and am in best shape yet, too bad my face and hair have already been ruined and I missed out on at least trying to get a gf in HS or uni.
