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I haven't felt like a man for two decades due to never being seen as a man by foids

ihatelife2

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I don't feel like a man because I've never had foids be physically attracted to me as a man or acknowledged me as a man

This hurts. I'm not a troon I don't feel female either. I wish I was a man but I don't feel like one. One might say you're a man because you have a penis.

But I'm not allowed to use it so it still doesn't make me feel like a man.
 
You have pretty much just expressed the feeling of the entire forum collective sir.

Bravo. :feelsrope:
 
I don't feel like a man because I've never had foids be physically attracted to me as a man or acknowledged me as a man

This hurts. I'm not a troon I don't feel female either. I wish I was a man but I don't feel like one. One might say you're a man because you have a penis.

But I'm not allowed to use it so it still doesn't make me feel like a man.
are you a manlet or are you skinny?
 
Indeed, and worse off this makes us so vulnerable to any evil slag that wants to abuse it.
 
Indeed, and worse off this makes us so vulnerable to any evil slag that wants to abuse it.
The one thing keeping us safe is we are too ugly to even attract golddiggers or other such characters
 
it’s suicidefuel that foids have this level of control over us
 
Bro at 1st to 5th grade, i had a crush on a girl. One time she told people when im near her She doesn't consider me as a boy. Like similar to we don't consider him a man.
 
Found her instagram and jerked of to her profile pic since it was private.
 
Bro at 1st to 5th grade, i had a crush on a girl. One time she told people when im near her She doesn't consider me as a boy. Like similar to we don't consider him a man.
She was a bitch even at an early age. Sucks her Instagram is private
 
I feel the same way. Maybe I'll try geomaxing, and if that doesn't work, my only option is revenge.
 
Two decades of being treated like a non-entity because you don’t fit their sexual standards is enough to crush anyone’s sense of self. We may be men on paper, but in reality, we are like ghosts to them. That’s why we feel this way. How could anyone feel like a man — or a human being for that matter — when their entire life has been spent in isolation, ostracized from society, deemed unworthy of love and affection.
 
Two decades of being treated like a non-entity because you don’t fit their sexual standards is enough to crush anyone’s sense of self. We may be men on paper, but in reality, we are like ghosts to them. That’s why we feel this way. How could anyone feel like a man — or a human being for that matter — when their entire life has been spent in isolation, ostracized from society, deemed unworthy of love and affection.
You very eloquently explained exactly what I feel, thank you for this
 
I don't feel like a man because I've never had foids be physically attracted to me as a man or acknowledged me as a man

This hurts. I'm not a troon I don't feel female either. I wish I was a man but I don't feel like one. One might say you're a man because you have a penis.

But I'm not allowed to use it so it still doesn't make me feel like a man.
The soical institutions designed to protect us push for policy to effeminize us.
 
I'm a manchild, a pathetic humanoid wreck.
 
You guys are too hard on yourselves. When you die you can get a new body. So it's safe to say, if you just try to be nice and positive, you can get a girlfriend in the afterlife. I mean whose turn would it be really other than an incel who never got to have a girl be interested in him? You should try to be nice but obviously the girls are so cruel that it's hard to remain positive. I'm not suggesting you should be nice to a girl who is hurting you. But I believe firmly in God. These girls and Chads are evil evil. The Muslim scriptures say Heaven is mostly poor people- that's us- and Hell is MOSTLY WOMEN.
 
Don’t worry, they’ll remember to see you as a man when they go on about “male privilege” and “kill all men” and whatnot.
 
Its hard being in a man's body while having the mentality and life experience of a child still :feelsbadman:
 
I just wish so much with all my heart i could wake up a chad and feel like "The man" Next to me would be a naked GF and a villa with a swimming pool, It would be so amazing, Pizza, Friends, Gaming, Sportsbar, Etc, Just hanging out and going home to plow the wife.

Sadly im an incel...
 
When I was alone at the university in girls group, they weren't shy about talking to each other about their female shit as if I wasn't there.
 
When I was alone at the university in girls group, they weren't shy about talking to each other about their female shit as if I wasn't there.
I walk past girls daily and i hear talks about guys all the times, Oh hes a 3 oh hes a 6 oh hes a 10, Oh have you tried tinder? They also say "Oh i fucked this and that guy" Like nobodys listening, I also saw 2 stacies sharing a joint in a busy street like nobodys watching LMAO.
 
I just wish so much with all my heart i could wake up a chad and feel like "The man" Next to me would be a naked GF and a villa with a swimming pool, It would be so amazing, Pizza, Friends, Gaming, Sportsbar, Etc, Just hanging out and going home to plow the wife.

Sadly im an incel...
Me too :feelscry:
 
I walk past girls daily and i hear talks about guys all the times, Oh hes a 3 oh hes a 6 oh hes a 10, Oh have you tried tinder? They also say "Oh i fucked this and that guy" Like nobodys listening, I also saw 2 stacies sharing a joint in a busy street like nobodys watching LMAO.
They don't hide their nature around us because they think that we have no one to tell about it or that no one will believe us anyway.
 
When I was alone at the university in girls group, they weren't shy about talking to each other about their female shit as if I wasn't there.
That's not because you're ugly

That's just how females are. Confidence to the gills because everyone treats them like royalty

And this never changes the rest of their life.

Kill females. Kill simps. Burn society to the ground.
 
Life of every manlet, you just spectate
 
Found her instagram and jerked of to her profile pic since it was private.
Based this is what I always do when I get mad over a foid. Either this or straight up sending a picture of my erect penis to them using my alt accounts if their profile isnt private
 
Based this is what I always do when I get mad over a foid. Either this or straight up sending a picture of my erect penis to them using my alt accounts if their profile isnt private
Take a picture of you cumming onto their photo and send it to them. They will kill themselves that an inkwell thought of them
 
I am remedied of that pretty easily by spending any time in pubic. I saw five holes out today as I got my prescriptions. 2/5 were chunky fat, 1/5 obese, 2/5 were barren old hags over 40 and the three younger, who were all under 25, each had nose rings. The only young guy was some deformed looking wide hip normie with shiny blond hair who was getting attention from the second fattest hole under 25. There is no way I would do some primal battle with that normie for any of those decrepit holes. My sadness is for my situation, but I don't blame myself for these circus universe circumstances.
 
Take a picture of you cumming onto their photo and send it to them. They will kill themselves that an inkwell thought of them
Sending coom tributes is one of my hobbies, but most females seem to enjoy them.
 
I am a lifelong framecel, sometimes it is brutal seeing others at work carry heavy shit with ease :feelsbadman:
 
Two decades of being treated like a non-entity because you don’t fit their sexual standards is enough to crush anyone’s sense of self. We may be men on paper, but in reality, we are like ghosts to them. That’s why we feel this way. How could anyone feel like a man — or a human being for that matter — when their entire life has been spent in isolation, ostracized from society, deemed unworthy of love and affection.
This.
 
Your thinking patterns truly disturb me and i don't mean that to be mean
 
Can you explain what you mean? I'm not offended
If you keep thinking like this you would probably eventually end up in a deeper hole than you already are and ought to do yourself harm in the process
 
I feel more like a boy than a man, at 5'4/1.62m and 50kg. I'm very skinny, don't know how to socialize, and have zero romantic experience. From an age perspective, I feel extremely old. I can barely cope I'm almost 30. But I also feel like 15. I also look closer around 20
 
You're being castrated and made impotent. Emasculated. Unseen. I was never treated like a man either, and my dad even joked about putting me on growth hormones when I was like 8 years old but never went through with it, and uses me like a verbal punching bag while he treasures my two siblings who are normal height and frame. If we were dogs, they would've killed me as a runt of the litter. They kind of did.

Being a man and feeling like a man isn't just about having the pepe, we all fucking know it takes more than that, and it's not enough that you call yourself a man, it relies on other men and women who decide if you're a man or not and treat you like such.
 
Better than being beat for failing to “fulfill your gender role” ask me how I know :feelsugh:
Actually don’t because I don’t wanna talk about it :feelsbadman:
 
If you keep thinking like this you would probably eventually end up in a deeper hole than you already are and ought to do yourself harm in the process
Do you have specific advice to stop thinking about this or like this? This is how I feel, I'd love to stop feeling this way but I don't know how. I'm open to advice and trying your suggestions

I feel more like a boy than a man, at 5'4/1.62m and 50kg. I'm very skinny, don't know how to socialize, and have zero romantic experience. From an age perspective, I feel extremely old. I can barely cope I'm almost 30. But I also feel like 15. I also look closer around 20
We have very similar heights
You're being castrated and made impotent. Emasculated. Unseen. I was never treated like a man either, and my dad even joked about putting me on growth hormones when I was like 8 years old but never went through with it, and uses me like a verbal punching bag while he treasures my two siblings who are normal height and frame. If we were dogs, they would've killed me as a runt of the litter. They kind of did.

Being a man and feeling like a man isn't just about having the pepe, we all fucking know it takes more than that, and it's not enough that you call yourself a man, it relies on other men and women who decide if you're a man or not and treat you like such.
I'm really sorry about your father...
Better than being beat for failing to “fulfill your gender role” ask me how I know :feelsugh:
Actually don’t because I don’t wanna talk about it :feelsbadman:
If you ever do want to talk about it, we're listening.
 
Do you have specific advice to stop thinking about this or like this? This is how I feel, I'd love to stop feeling this way but I don't know how. I'm open to advice and trying your suggestions


We have very similar heights

I'm really sorry about your father...

If you ever do want to talk about it, we're listening.
I would try ketamine if i was you, it would rewire your thinking patterns and help u gain new insights
 

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