It's Over I have reached the volcel stage of wretchedness.

[thePhantom]

So a few days ago the thing that happens a couple of times per year happened: My angle-frauded pictures on Tinder got me a date. The match and I had both mentioned that we were looking for "buddies" to do stuff with, so I thought I might be friendzoned from the very start, but I still knew that I should try my best. Then the date comes, it turns out that she heightmogs be pretty badly (also, it seems that she is disappointed upon seeing me, but I'm to autistic to tell for sure), and my resolve completely melts away. I turn into friend-mode, the "date" ends up pretty fun, and we hang out again. Now the window of opportunity for trying anything outside of the friendzone is definitely closed though. Of course, the chance that she was interested in something more and that my autistic brain would manage to navigate that kind of social maze was very slim. By taking the coward's way out I most likely saved myself yet another humiliation. Yet, if I don't seize those small opportunities, it's definitely over. I'm that proverbial dog chasing cars – on the rare occasions that I catch them, I have no idea what to do. And it seems this dog has been run over by so many cars now that it won't even try anymore.

 

[Deleted member 12355]

eh, defeatism is cowardly. If I could pursue women, that's all I'd be doing. Of course, there's a finite line between actively pursuing women and becoming friendzoned, the latter probably more likely in your case. But still, there is a chance, and if you fail to take it I doubt you'll be able to forgive yourself when that fateful day of the rope comes
There is no worse feeling than that of regret. Call me whitepilled, but I firmly believe that it's retarded to give up after the second encounter

 

[thePhantom]

eh, defeatism is cowardly. If I could pursue women, that's all I'd be doing. Of course, there's a finite line between actively pursuing women and becoming friendzoned, the latter probably more likely in your case. But still, there is a chance, and if you fail to take it I doubt you'll be able to forgive yourself when that fateful day of the rope comes
There is no worse feeling than that of regret. Call me whitepilled, but I firmly believe that it's retarded to give up after the second encounter

Well I agree My philosophy compels me to try as much as I can, but like suicide, it seems I can't bring myself to do it at this point.

 

[Angry_runt]

A social life is at least a step in the direction of ascending, and having a foid friend is a step towards having a social life. Accumulate friends, go to gatherings and sooner or later you're bound to find a blind insane girl willing to give you a shot.

 

[Deleted member 14490]

You definitely should at least pursue, otherwise you're complete correct in your characterization of yourself as a volcel. I can't even get dates. You're also at least somewhat NT if you can function properly on a date with a girl tbh, I'd probably just autismo my way out within a few minutes of arriving.

 

[thePhantom]

A social life is at least a step in the direction of ascending, and having a foid friend is a step towards having a social life. Accumulate friends, go to gatherings and sooner or later you're bound to find a blind insane girl willing to give you a shot.

That's how I try to rationalize it! Fun fact: before I spent work on my profile (frauded my pictures basically), I got almost no matches who would respond. When I at last got a match and a conversation, I was overjoyed – until I discovered that the girl was literally blind. JFL.

You definitely should at least pursue, otherwise you're complete correct in your characterization of yourself as a volcel. I can't even get dates. You're also at least somewhat NT if you can function properly on a date with a girl tbh, I'd probably just autismo my way out within a few minutes of arriving.

Thanks, maybe I'll try something after all, for my conscience if nothing else. Just hanging out casually with a single person is the easy mode of social interaction, though. In the romantic area I'm clueless.

 

[Deleted member 14490]

That's how I try to rationalize it! Fun fact: before I spent work on my profile (frauded my pictures basically), I got almost no matches who would respond. When I at last got a match and a conversation, I was overjoyed – until I discovered that the girl was literally blind. JFL.

Thanks, maybe I'll try something after all, for my conscience if nothing else. Just hanging out casually with a single person is the easy mode of social interaction, though. In the romantic area I'm clueless.

How tall are you bro and what rating would you give her

 

[thePhantom]

How tall are you bro and what rating would you give her

I'm 5'9, she was like 5'11 and 7-8/10. By some margin the best looking girl I've had some sort of date with too, which adds to the intimidation.

 

[Deleted member 14490]

I'm 5'9, she was like 5'11 and 7-8/10. By some margin the best looking girl I've had some sort of date with too, which adds to the intimidation.

>7-8/10

JFL, yet another fakecel identified. Bro, I'd be happy to get with a 3. You need to lower your standards significantly if you haven't been getting "quality" matches.

 

[thePhantom]

>7-8/10

JFL, yet another fakecel identified. Bro, I'd be happy to get with a 3. You need to lower your standards significantly if you haven't been getting "quality" matches.

I'd be happy with a 3/10 too; I'm not "discarding" any opportunities with uglier girls. In fact, one of the experiences that crushed me was pursuing this 3/10 girl for weeks before going for the kiss and being utterly humiliated. What I'm saying is that this one girl is so clearly out of my league that I'm not even sure how to try. Like, do I close my eyes the next time I meet her, go up on my toes to try to kiss her ( ) and pray I don't get slapped?

 

[Deleted member 14490]

I'd be happy with a 3/10 too; I'm not "discarding" any opportunities with uglier girls. In fact, one of the experiences that crushed me was pursuing this 3/10 girl for weeks before going for the kiss and being utterly humiliated. What I'm saying is that this one girl is so clearly out of my league that I'm not even sure how to try. Like, do I close my eyes the next time I meet her, go up on my toes to try to kiss her feelskek and pray I don't get slapped?

Well good luck boyo, you had an experience that 99.99% of this forum will never have.

 

[IsolationHurts]

A social life is at least a step in the direction of ascending, and having a foid friend is a step towards having a social life. Accumulate friends, go to gatherings and sooner or later you're bound to find a blind insane girl willing to give you a shot.

This is not bad advice. If you end up being his friend, tell her how much you suck as a human being in general. Maybe she pityfuck you (like Fontaine was) or introduce you to any of her female friends.

7-8/10

How? Why? What? ??? WHAT????

 

[Deleted member 14490]

This is not bad advice. If you end up being his friend, tell her how much you suck as a human being in general. Maybe she pityfuck you (like Fontaine was) or introduce you to any of her female friends.

How? Why? What? ??? WHAT????

Link to Fontaine's acsension?

 

[thePhantom]

Sorry for coming off as spoiled. But I think that it's actually not more "difficult" to match with a 7-8 than 3-4 because of the juggernaut law. Like I said, I've been harshly rejected by much worse looking girls, and the couple of matches per month that I do get seem to be fairly evenly spread along the looks spectrum.

 

[IsolationHurts]

Link to Fontaine's acsension?

I think that he deleted the post in which he confessed to have ascended. Im not really sure. But you have these:
https://incels.is/threads/why-im-leaving-this-forum.81827/
https://incels.is/threads/my-ascension-was-a-larp.82422/

 

[Deleted member 14490]

I think that he deleted the post in which he confessed to have ascended. Im not really sure. But you have these:
https://incels.is/threads/why-im-leaving-this-forum.81827/
https://incels.is/threads/my-ascension-was-a-larp.82422/

Ok thanks bro

 

[thePhantom]

Friendzone confirmed SEA or rope.
It is this kind of shit that destroys me. The way the rejections repeat themselves in laughably predictable patterns, until your capacity to act with confidence or feel any kind of hope in general is ground to dust.

 

[Deleted member 6470]

I can't imagine the struggle of having a date.
Must be difficult to be you at 5'9.
slayers.is

 

[thePhantom]

I can't imagine the struggle of having a date.
Must be difficult to be you at 5'9.
slayers.is

How the fuck does a date help me if I just get friendzoned anyway? It just serves to twist the knife, and I can now look forward to a few weeks of worse depression than I had before.