I have an autism diagnosis but it’s not the reason I’m Incel

[Actually Autistic]

For normies reading my thread who think it’s personality that makes us Incel let me tell you this:

Apps/online dating is the ultimate Judgement Hammer that decides if women finds you attractive or not. Maybe 100 years ago, there was a plausible deniability of looks theory because of the IRL nature of how people met back then. Circa 2000, it was a logical argument to say “she rejected you because you show lack of confidence in the way you slouch and avoid eye contact” or similar BS. You could not Prove or disprove it.

But now girls can judge a guy by his face pics. No social skills involved.

Me a man with aspergers has no problem setting up dates when I catfish as an attractive guy, how come I cannot set dates with my own pictures? My autistic personality and how I communicate remains the same because it’s ME texting the girls regardless of whose pics I use. Under a face that isn’t mine, I can easily date slim women.

Social skills is a meme when it comes to dating. They matter for life but not for dating

 

[Ritalincel]

girls can judge a guy by his face pics. No social skills involved.

 

[Deleted member 14866]

girls can judge a guy by his face pics. No social skills involved.

 

[Insomniac]

I've found that girls can quite easily tell there's something wrong with me. I don't think my autism is all that noticeable usually but it is around them.

I do agree that looks are king but being socially retarded is the final nail in the coffin. Over for me.

 

[Cuyen]

Face>everything else

 

[ldargoblin]

Some normies just can't cope with this fact. They're hopeless.

 

[Deleted member 1042]

Social skills are important if you are ugly or if you want to take a relationship past the initial screening process.

 

[Actually Autistic]

Social skills are important if you are ugly or if you want to take a relationship past the initial screening process.

Social skills matter for taking a woman who preselected you initially from tinder, into a relationship. You’ll not get dates with slim girls if you’re ugly autism or not. Look at @catfishman23, he is obviously not normal but girls find his defective personality cute when he uses a more attractive guy

It it abnormal to cold approach women. It’s not socially expected for people to meet by a man cold approaching

 

[Deleted member 1042]

It it abnormal to cold approach women. It’s not socially expected for people to meet by a man cold approaching

This is partly why PUA and general cold approach "just talk to her, bro" advices have been so foreign to me. Most ppl make friends because of shared interest combined with proximity and existing social networks (looks is still important baseline here). Romance isn't so different from this, imo.

 

[thePhantom]

Why not both? Getting a date is like completing level one of the getting laid game. I'm sorry to break it that there are several more levels to go through before you beat the game.

 

[Cuyen]

Why not both? Getting a date is like completing level one of the getting laid game. I'm sorry to break it that there are several more levels to go through before you beat the game.

 

[Michael15651]

Why not both? Getting a date is like completing level one of the getting laid game. I'm sorry to break it that there are several more levels to go through before you beat the game.

 

[Ritalincel]

Why not both? Getting a date is like completing level one of the getting laid game. I'm sorry to break it that there are several more levels to go through before you beat the game.

 

[AncapFAG]

Some normies just can't cope with this fact. They're hopeless.

 

[Deleted member 15752]

FACE >>>>>>>> EVERYTHING IN YOUR LIFE.