Venting I have a new oneitis

[fokusin]

Having oneitis = cuck

 

[CosmicSerialKiller]

Holy shit, that's hard to fathom. Tragic.

Yeah, I guess.

Biggest joke of all is, she's with a statusmaxxed/moneymaxxed old fat guy. I mog this guy, I shit you not.

 

[foidslayer4ever]

Before you ever like a foid again go to female dating strategy and search by top all time or year, this will make sure you never simp to rapemeat

 

[foidslayer4ever]

Having oneitis = cuck

Happened to all of us

 

[CosmicSerialKiller]

How did you get over the first?

 

[Sir Silentium]

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[CosmicSerialKiller]

Don't worry bro. After enough time, you just stop thinking about it so much.

 

[Sir Silentium]

Don't worry bro. After enough time, you just stop thinking about it so much.

I really hope so, but since August 2025 i've tried to stop and I can't.

My experience with Parasocial Infatuation / Oneitis

I will keep it as brief as I can, only stating the most important parts so the story makes sense. At the start of August, I saw a short-form video of a girl on instagram reels. She looked very pretty and a bit like someone I used to know, but a much better looking version. I clicked on her...

incels.is

 

[VλREN]

she died in a motorcycle crash

 

[D. B. Gooner]

I need a new one to stalk.

 

[CosmicSerialKiller]

I really hope so, but since August 2025 i've tried to stop and I can't.

My experience with Parasocial Infatuation / Oneitis

I will keep it as brief as I can, only stating the most important parts so the story makes sense. At the start of August, I saw a short-form video of a girl on instagram reels. She looked very pretty and a bit like someone I used to know, but a much better looking version. I clicked on her...

incels.is

I read your post, and damn, it's pretty brutal man.

One thing that has always worked for me, is engaging in many, many copes. So many copes that you no longer have time to ruminate, and your brain is otherwise occupied.

Also, even if you can't be with your oneitis, just know that the fantasy is yours, and no one can ever take that away from you.

 

[Sir Silentium]

I read your post, and damn, it's pretty brutal man.

Thank you for reading. This is just the tip of the iceburg too, less than 10% of what I could have mentioned.
I didn't even start on how it affected by job opportunities and practically changed the course of my life.

One thing that has always worked for me, is engaging in many, many copes. So many copes that you no longer have time to ruminate, and your brain is otherwise occupied.

So true, the only time I was really thinking about it less was when I was working flat out 16 hour days building my house in Vanuatu. I was so preoccupied my brain just didn't account for her.

Also, even if you can't be with your oneitis, just know that the fantasy is yours, and no one can ever take that away from you.

True, but what exactly do you mean by this?

 

[ihatelife2]

Are you going to ask her out?

 

[LeFrenchCel]

*sigh*

 

[Giracel]

days building my house in Vanuatu

You actually live there? Over for Vanuatucels

 

[Giracel]

I ended up being so obsessed that I found out her school, suburb, parents, friends, siblings, vacation destinations, practically everything that was available online. Around this time I was also granted access for her private profile on instagram. I was stuck going over her posts there for hours.

I looked at the other post you linked & relate to some of it, such as this part. Although she was someone I saw initially IRL, followed by the online research.

(I would go into more detail about what I found and how I found it, but I don't want to risk being too specific)

 

[GrAYnigger]

The only real oneitis any man should have is his 2D anime waifu.

 

[Giracel]

The only real oneitis any man should have is his 2D anime waifu.

It is better tbh because she will never leave or reject you

 

[Onyx]

I need a new one to stalk.

 

[FuckYou]

@Oneitiscel humble this nigga.

 

[CosmicSerialKiller]

So true, the only time I was really thinking about it less was when I was working flat out 16 hour days building my house in Vanuatu. I was so preoccupied my brain just didn't account for her.

Exactly. Quiet the mind to dull the pain.

True, but what exactly do you mean by this?

What happens to oneitiscels, it is real and means something. We have felt love, and it cannot be altered or taken away by another. We alone decide how we interact with that love gone wrong, and you can do anything you want with it.

Even if your perception of your oneitis differs greatly from reality, it doesn't really matter. Be depressed, use her as wankfuel, love her from afar. Do whatever you will.