It would maybe be one thing if they said it and genuinely had your best interests at heart, it’s still gaslighting as fuck but at least it would show they care to a degree. But they say it out of mockery. They don’t care about you at all, in fact they want you to fail.
Telling someone to get therapy is just an ad hominem attack when they have no good counter to your argument, it’s why it’s often used alongside “you’re gross/creepy/weird”. They don’t want you to get help, they want you to feel like shit because they can’t make a valid counter to your argument.
Societal norms and expectations are everything to normies, that’s why they are normies. Anything that doesn’t fall on the shores of their restrictive worldviews and one track ideologies is mocked and crushed with no hesitation.
Telling someone to get therapy is just an ad hominem attack when they have no good counter to your argument, it’s why it’s often used alongside “you’re gross/creepy/weird”. They don’t want you to get help, they want you to feel like shit because they can’t make a valid counter to your argument.
Societal norms and expectations are everything to normies, that’s why they are normies. Anything that doesn’t fall on the shores of their restrictive worldviews and one track ideologies is mocked and crushed with no hesitation.
