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I hate faggots so much

No, because if you read my further posts on the matter you will see that I state the difference between gay men and women within the context of their relationship to incels is that the rise in male virginity rates in young men has come about as a result of increased access to high quality men (through online dating) that has enabled the proclivity of female sexual selectivity to gravitate towards the higher quality men, at the price of exclusion for the lower quality men, as evidenced by the fact that before the social customs imposed on humanity at the dawn of civilisation only 1 in 17 men was able to pass on his genes with a woman.

In other words; it can be said that this trait within female psychology is one of the reasons that inceldom is on the rise, so despite the fact I think hate is cope and I try to avoid being emotionally beholden / triggered by anyone, I can rationally see the the causal connection between hating women and being an incel because it is a facet of female psychology that has directly lead to a decrease in quality of life for these men.

However, it doesn’t make sense to me that someone who isn’t gay (or greatly deluded about gays) would hate them because unless you are a self-hating closeted gay man yourself then it is unlikely that the behaviour, or psychology of gay men will directly impact your quality of life or your perception of your own pride / identity.
This is absolute giga bullshit imagine thinking that something has to directly affect you to have a opinion about LMFAO also most people on this forum are against faggots etc so by your logic basically everyone here is a closeted faggot, YOU are the one that is stereotyping with your 'people that dislikes faggots are faggots' nonsense
 
No, because if you read my further posts on the matter you will see that I state the difference between gay men and women within the context of their relationship to incels is that the rise in male virginity rates in young men has come about as a result of increased access to high quality men (through online dating) that has enabled the proclivity of female sexual selectivity to gravitate towards the higher quality men, at the price of exclusion for the lower quality men, as evidenced by the fact that before the social customs imposed on humanity at the dawn of civilisation only 1 in 17 men was able to pass on his genes with a woman.

In other words; it can be said that this trait within female psychology is one of the reasons that inceldom is on the rise, so despite the fact I think hate is cope and I try to avoid being emotionally beholden / triggered by anyone, I can rationally see the the causal connection between hating women and being an incel because it is a facet of female psychology that has directly lead to a decrease in quality of life for these men.

However, it doesn’t make sense to me that someone who isn’t gay (or greatly deluded about gays) would hate them because unless you are a self-hating closeted gay man yourself then it is unlikely that the behaviour, or psychology of gay men will directly impact your quality of life or your perception of your own pride / identity.

OK, if I'm understanding you correctly, your argument is that hating women and hating gay men are different because the hate for females is rooted differently - sexual selection behaviour - and therefore different.

That's all well and good. However, it doesn't give explanatory power to the more general idea of secretly loving or being the thing you hate, of which "hate of homosexuals by men" being one such thing. Reframing the hate of something as a deflective outward projection is a classification by psychologists to make sense of the behaviour within their own models and shoehorn it into something manageable for "therapy," so that when a patient reveals that they really hate something the psychologist convinces them that they in fact deeply love that same thing.

It's an illogical perversion of something superficially straightforward, which has multiple reasons, none of which are generalizable. Yes, it's true that of the set of "men who hate homosexuals" there exists some who are outwardly deflecting that hatred because of self-loathing and identity management, as a form of ego protection.

That, however, is not the case generally. Most people who hate something hate it for various other reasons, none of which are that they are secretly like the thing in question. Lumping them all together is intellectually lazy.
 
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This is absolute giga bullshit imagine thinking that something has to directly affect you to have a opinion about LMFAO also most people on this forum are against faggots etc so by your logic basically everyone here is a closeted faggot, YOU are the one that is stereotyping with your 'people that dislikes faggots are faggots' nonsense
Someone’s triggered, calm the fuck down. I never said ‘everyone,’ did I? I merely stated in my original post that ‘the more virulently (implying genuine anger) you hate them, the higher probability (not certainty) you are one,’ which is true. If someone spends all day getting genuinely angry and worked up about the idea of gays fucking each other, they are probably gay themselves. I never said you can’t have an opinion on something that doesn’t affect you, of course you can, but if you are going to get angry over it (like ironically you now are) then you have more than an opinion, you have a genuine emotional connection to it, which is a strange thing to do to for something that doesn’t even affect you in any way.

Jesus Christ, I am so tired of people interpreting what I say in the most binary way possible when I leave so much room for further context and nuance. Apparently the rate of autism on this forum is much higher than the survey suggests.
 
meh I dont rly "hate them" what I said is there agenda tbh
 

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