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ChadIncelHelper

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We met online and talked for weeks, vibed over the smallest things, and it actually felt like something real, even though she’d never seen my face.

We went to the same school, so I knew eventually we’d run into each other, and when we finally did, she looked at me for barely a second, then turned away like I didn’t exist. After that, nothing—no texts, no replies, just silence. And as much as I tried to ignore it, I knew the reason deep down: she saw me, didn’t like what she saw, and dipped.
Is it over for me?:feelsrope:
 
She was keeping you on the backburner most likely, cut ties immediately if the energy you put out isn't reciprocated
 
We met online and talked for weeks, vibed over the smallest things, and it actually felt like something real, even though she’d never seen my face.

We went to the same school, so I knew eventually we’d run into each other, and when we finally did, she looked at me for barely a second, then turned away like I didn’t exist. After that, nothing—no texts, no replies, just silence. And as much as I tried to ignore it, I knew the reason deep down: she saw me, didn’t like what she saw, and dipped.
Is it over for me?:feelsrope:

Typical foid, shows interest in guy she talks to one moment, then later coldly moves on like it never happened and expects you to do the same. Foids are mindless soulless automaton robots with no hearts or emotions, they can't empathize and put themselves in the place of all these men they've led on for no reason and then disappointed. It really is inexcusable behavior and never gets called out despite being so pervasive. (I'm not saying guys shouldn't move on in these situations, of course they should, I'm just saying, God forbid, it should be just acknowledged more) This is why I don't bother trying anymore, I was insane ever to bother.
 
She was keeping you on the backburner most likely, cut ties immediately if the energy you put out isn't reciprocated

Fucking sociopathic behavior to have human beings "on the backburner" (or rolodex, if you will) and treat them as exploitable objects, it's literally like a video game to them jfl. As if men are just numbers and not human beings with feelings, and you can just lead them on and experiment with them and discard them like garbage the next moment.

Imagine if guys were like this as much as foids were, they wouldn't get away with it, insane the kind of things foids do that is accepted.
 
Typical foid, shows interest in guy she talks to one moment, then later coldly moves on like it never happened and expects you to do the same. Foids are mindless soulless automaton robots with no hearts or emotions, they can't empathize and put themselves in the place of all these men they've led on for no reason and then disappointed. It really is inexcusable behavior and never gets called out despite being so pervasive. (I'm not saying guys shouldn't move on in these situations, of course they should, I'm just saying, God forbid, it should be just acknowledged more) This is why I don't bother trying anymore, I was insane ever to both
My friend even gave me a picture of their conversation; there was a text showing "he's ugly"
After that happened, I started to kinda hate that foid and mostlikely try to avoid her in school

 
My friend even gave me a picture of their conversation; there was a text showing "he's ugly"
After that happened, I started to kinda hate that foid and mostlikely try to avoid her in school

She called you ugly behind your back to your friend, that's awful.

Are you still friends with him, or did he turn out to be a "friend?"
 
She called you ugly behind your back to your friend, that's awful.

Are you still friends with him, or did he turn out to be a "friend"
I don't really have many friends now, and I stopped socializing with that "friend"
 
We met online and talked for weeks, vibed over the smallest things, and it actually felt like something real, even though she’d never seen my face.

We went to the same school, so I knew eventually we’d run into each other, and when we finally did, she looked at me for barely a second, then turned away like I didn’t exist. After that, nothing—no texts, no replies, just silence. And as much as I tried to ignore it, I knew the reason deep down: she saw me, didn’t like what she saw, and dipped.
Is it over for me?:feelsrope:
i feel for you, its fucked up how superficial they are.
the moment they see your face its all over, you're an un-person now.

i had something similar happen, but it was purely platonic and yet that shit still happened to me; God forbid a subhuman have friends.
 
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i feel for you, its fucked up how superficial they are.
the moment they see your face its all over, you're an un-person now.
Exactly, I knew what will happen when she's gonna see me, she immediately stopped talking to me and I deactivated my account after that happened
 
Exactly, I knew what will happen when she's gonna see me, she immediately stopped talking to me and I deactivated my account after that happened
Its horrible when reality confirms your suspicions. I was expecting to get blocked when we met in person, and guess what? I got blocked; I need to stress that we in fact were nothing more than friends, and yet appearance still mattered enough for me to get completely cut from contact in an instant.

Now, if you ask the other party what you're going to hear is a whole lot of reasons that were somehow only an object of botherment after seeing my form.
 
Its horrible when reality confirms your suspicions. I was expecting to get blocked when we met in person, and guess what? I got blocked; I need to stress that we in fact were nothing more than friends, and yet appearance still mattered enough for me to get completely cut from contact in an instant.

Now, if you ask the other party what you're going to hear is a whole lot of reasons that were somehow only an object of botherment after seeing my form.
:feelscry:
 
i feel for you, its fucked up how superficial they are.
the moment they see your face its all over, you're an un-person now.

i had something similar happen, but it was purely platonic and yet that shit still happened to me; God forbid a subhuman have friends.

Yes exactly, foids go out of their way to shun guys unnecessarily. As far as why, my best theory is because it's part of hypergamy for them, they don't want to socially help other guys and go out of their way to decrease their chances of social success by not even being friendly or willing to associate with them, because hypothetically if they were better the guy's chances with other women would go up which would hurt their hypergamy.

In a nut-shell I think this is why foids are so generally self-absorbed and selfish and see everything in terms of self-benefit, as this guy explained here.
 
Yes exactly, foids go out of their way to shun guys unnecessarily. As far as why, my best theory is because it's part of hypergamy for them, they don't want to socially help other guys and go out of their way to decrease their chances of social success by not even being friendly or willing to associate with them, because hypothetically if they were better the guy's chances with other women would go up which would hurt their hypergamy.

In a nut-shell I think this is why foids are so generally self-absorbed and selfish and see everything in terms of self-benefit, as this guy explained here.
Its about hierarchy, I'm generalizing but they verily see ugly guys as a species below them, as dalits who transgress merely by speaking to their holiness.
 
Its about hierarchy, I'm generalizing but they verily see ugly guys as a species below them, as dalits who transgress merely by speaking to their holiness.

It's unconscious and immediate of course, but the whole reason they care about the social hierarchy is they are threatened by guys they see below them as having more of a chance as at least in their minds this decreases their chances with the men they want.

Though to be clear like the guy I linked to the reply of said, while rejection is unconscious immediate and innate, foids go well out of their way to be horrible to men past that to an inexcusable degree. Ultimately this is mindless too hence my characterization is accurate, but I wanted to clear that up.
 
Damn that's painful. Yeah sorry dude what a bitch but got to ignore and move on.

Go for a hike, read a new book, work out and lift weights, join a club. You're bound to meet new people and will find your person.



:feelsclown::feelsclown::feelsclown::feelsclown:
 
Damn that's painful. Yeah sorry dude what a bitch but got to ignore and move on.

Go for a hike, read a new book, work out and lift weights, join a club. You're bound to meet new people and will find your person.



:feelsclown::feelsclown::feelsclown::feelsclown:
Thanks for the awesome ideas
 
Don’t care GrAY
 
Fucking sociopathic behavior to have human beings "on the backburner" (or rolodex, if you will) and treat them as exploitable objects, it's literally like a video game to them jfl. As if men are just numbers and not human beings with feelings, and you can just lead them on and experiment with them and discard them like garbage the next moment.

Imagine if guys were like this as much as foids were, they wouldn't get away with it, insane the kind of things foids do that is accepted.
You're not alone having these thoughts. It’s staggering how normalized it’s become for women to keep men on the backburner, treating them as disposable options, it is sick to the core, hence this entire fucked up system needs to be nuked, like i mentioned earlier in the response to a thread of Stupid clown. The sheer level of emotional detachment required to maintain that kind of behavior borders on sociopathic. It really highlights how rigged the dating game is when the numbers are so brutally stacked against you.
Modern dating feels less like genuine connection and more like a kid in a candy store for those cunts: endless options and everything discarded the second it loses its shine. The imbalance is exhausting, and it’s no wonder so many men are just opting out entirely.
Worthless bottom of the barrel and mentally ill whores
 
Just wait for the rope stage
 
My friend even gave me a picture of their conversation; there was a text showing "he's ugly"
I'm sorry you went through that, yea women are picky prostitutes.
Anything sub Highy-HTN or chadlite is instant no for them
 
Waiting for redditors to say that you aren't telling the full story :feelsclown:

Because no way a woman could be awful like this :soy: :foidSoy:
 

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