Ask me about my opinions on women and joos
- Apr 9, 2022
My biggest takeaway from reading Houellebecq is that the source of my boredom and suffering isn't necessarily just due to my inability to attract women. Rather, it's because I am being oppressed by a social system that is inherently anti-life and has destroyed the value and meaning in relationships, and this is the cause of my inceldom."That's precisely what's so extraordinary about you: you enjoy giving pleasure. Offering your body as an object of pleasure, giving pleasure unselfishly: that's what westerners don't know how to do anymore. They've completely lost the sense of giving. Try as they might, they no longer feel sex as something natural Not only are they ashamed of their own bodies, which aren't up to porn standards, but for the same reasons they no longer feel truly attracted to the body of the other. It's impossible to make love without a certain abandon, without accepting, at least temporarily, the state of being in a state of dependency, of weakness. Sentimental adulation and sexual obsession have the same roots, both proceed from some degree of selflessness; it's not a domain in which you can find fulfillment without losing yourself. We have become cold, rational, acutely conscious of our individual existence and our rights; more than anything, we want to avoid alienation and dependence; on top of that, we're obsessed with health and hygiene. These are hardly ideal conditions in which to make love."
When I think about what I want in a relationship, honestly I don't really think about looks at all. I want a girl whose happiness depends on my existence. I want a girl who is willing to give herself completely to me. But in our atomized society, where relationships are shallow and superficial, that requires a leap of faith that just isn't possible. I think it just opens people up to getting hurt.
Think about this. If you find a girl who is willing to date you, what are the chances that she is even considering a long term serious relationship? What are the chances that she doesn't have previous sexual partners? These are the reason so many marriages don't last. Foids just can't make a commitment. Then you think about all the different people and institutions foids are giving themselves too, that have an influence on her. She will have had an education. She will probably have a job and a boss (you are a cuck if your foid has a male boss). She will be allowed to participate in political activities. She will probably be on social media. That shit is so cucked. A foid should exist only for you, and you should have total control over what outside influences shes allowed to be exposed to. Like 99% of "relationships" I don't even consider to be relationships. Most marriages are just cohabitation with someone you fuck and are kinda friends with. They definitely don't have love.
Houellebecq suggests that this is why so many white dudes are SEAmaxxing. Because their own countries fucked up their sexuality with liberalism and so they have to go to poor countries that have managed to preserve sexuality because they are less liberal. Where the foids are actually capable of love and are willing to be submissive housewives to guys who aren't gigachads. You used to be able to get an arranged marriage and the culture would ensure she's not damaged goods and is devoted to you. Everybody got it. Now you have to go to a third world shithole for it. I don't know if it's really worth it for me to go try to find this with some noodlewhore. I'm starting to accept that what I want just doesn't exist, and that I need to get used to being alone.