I saw someone say they asked out one person and quit thats just fucking retarded. I've asked out many people all throughout my life and got rejected each time so I have a big enough pool to know if I am an incel or not you guys don't.
Serious I feel like you shouldn't post here until you ask out 15+ people
Why bother? Women show me ZERO IOIS, and their body language around me displays fear. I'll save myself the heartbreak.
you sound bluepilled
that's not possible for me op, the moment i walk towards a woman and invade her """""safe space""""", she'll divert far away from me
Girls should ask me out
If you haven't tried very much, you can't really be incel tbh. Failing perpetually despite repeated attempts is what makes one incel. "My crush said no ;-;" people can gtfo, honestly.
girls at my school wouldn't even look at me when we were in groups together 
and would give me 1 word answers
and would give me 1 word answers
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If I ever got an IOI I'd definitely approach, but it's literally never happened so.... until that day happens I'll never approach a woman. If you approach and it goes wrong it's a fucking travesty. She will remember your ugly face for the next few weeks and cringe every time she re-imagines the scenario when you forgot your place on the food-chain and approached her.
Approaching as an ugly guy is seen as harassment - remember that. You'll not only scare her, but you may get the police called on you, dead srs.
Approaching as an ugly guy is seen as harassment - remember that. You'll not only scare her, but you may get the police called on you, dead srs.
what if you guys just dont notice it also you guys may be holding yourself back by being pussies. i have had hurtful things said to me after getting rejected but i still kept trying but now i know im hopeless but at least i tried
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I'm too retarded to even know how to approach. That on top of being ugly would label me a creep.
Asking women out can have serious consequences, both socially and to self worth. My last oneitis, if I had asked and got rejected, would've essentially gotten me kicked out of the church/school group. I would've been too demoralized to even get out of bed. I used to get upset if I even said something stupid around her.
JFL at approaching women in 2018 tbh tbh
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I am a pussy, 100%. I am not willing to take the risk to approach. The possible cons (social humiliation that lives with you for the rest of your days), are worse than the possible pro's. I'd rather have my arms chopped off than be socially humiliated, it's literally the worst feeling in the world.
what self-worth do you have left just do cold approaches you have nothing to lose. when you ask out a lot of girls and you finally come to the conclusion that you cant get them you can be content in the fact that you tried. i am content in that fact partially, i might start hitting on black girls but if i dont im going to asia to have sex. you shouldnt give up hope because if you do you might as well an hero
What if you're an aspie?
No, I will be peppered sprayed or cops called on me has happened before.
so you are a mentalcel (volcel)
I never had a chance anyway.its all pointless. How am I a mentalcel for trying?
Mentalcels are not volcels. I know that some memelords here will try and convince of that, but it's not true at tall. Legit Aspergers/autism is arguably worse than being short.
No. The writing was always on the wall.
The majority of guys on this website are mentally ill enough to expect women to be low-inhibition and high enough in masculine, dominant energy to approach THEM in a ballsy way, lead the conversation and then fuck THEM.
Why in the hell should you approach if you know that you're ugly? One can learn from the mistakes of others.
The blackpill is that it happens to Chad all the time. Approaching is not masculine. Stop coping.
@Kokoro
Why should you give todays whores more and more validation by asking them out?
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Yeah. This is the pill that destroyed any motivation I had for persuing women
"just approach girls bruh"
top lel
top lel
If you mass approach like a retard you deserve to be incel and charged for sexual assault.
id say 10+ is reasonable to call it quits.
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I will not ask them out if a woman is interested she will show clear signs of that and and I will be able to pick up on it because I'm not aspie
There's a big difference between a girl who likes you but is too shy to ask you out, and a girl who finds you unattractive. Learning how to tell this difference can save you from a lot of unnecessary pain and social embarrassment.
By that logic you can never be incel, because someone will always 1-up you with the number of girls they've asked out.
Also try shaving and showering boyo
Agree.
You should get rejected by as many 1-2/10 as you can manage before considering yourself an incel. Even if foids hate your presence and its completely obvious, if you have no serious reason to not do it (like severe deformity or deep schizofrenia), you SHOULD do it. Being an incel is hell, and this place should be litteraly your last resource.
You should get rejected by as many 1-2/10 as you can manage before considering yourself an incel. Even if foids hate your presence and its completely obvious, if you have no serious reason to not do it (like severe deformity or deep schizofrenia), you SHOULD do it. Being an incel is hell, and this place should be litteraly your last resource.
JFL at cold approaching as an incel.
Women will show whether they're attracted to you or not.
This.
I'm pretty sure talking to females and becoming "friends" with them is more productive than just asking a random stranger to go out with you. If you're friendzoned then it's over.
so if i walk up to 15 random girls in the mall and cold approach them and they all say no I'm a truecel? seems arbitrary.
I'm speaking as a mentalcel who has no idea how attractive he is really but has had horrible luck on many dating sites and very few matches, many ending in instances of ghosting and just general shadiness from females online, i have to say 10 is far too many
My "friends" once tried to set me up. The girl they set me up was literally one of the ugliest girls I've ever seen in real life. She had these small, brown teeth, sickly pale skin with freckles, the gross kinda ginger that is more orange than red, weird proportioned body with no hips and hunched back. Oh, and she had some legit mental problem, like learning disability, takes the short bus tier. She had zero interest in me. None. She had no problem hopelessly chasing after the chadlite in our social circle though who she knew would never be with her as he slept around with everyone he could.
I think the fact people thought that this was the level of female appropriate to match me with says it all, much less the fact that female didn't agree.
I think the fact people thought that this was the level of female appropriate to match me with says it all, much less the fact that female didn't agree.
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I cant even imagine how i would seriously ask a female out. Such scenario would stress me out about as much as finding a hitman to kill sb.
Also as others already said, asking out itself should be mere formality like putting your signature on a contract when both parties long know they will do business together
Also as others already said, asking out itself should be mere formality like putting your signature on a contract when both parties long know they will do business together
Between the years of 2006-2012 i approached around 300 women and was never given a real number, only fake. Thats how i ended up finding puahate in 2011.
Legit, Im barely keeping it together without being outright rejected, Id go ER after asking the first girl out and getting told off
Its very dangerous what youre suggesting OP
Legit. I would sperg out so fucking hard. I'd honestly start drinking heavily.
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You act like modern women are not low inhibition sluts who have no problem being almost naked in public and having sex in public restrooms. Thinking that party girls are shy maidens is top cuckoldry.
I am in my mid 20's and i do not recall asking out a single woman in my life. Why? Because i know when someone is interested in me and i know when someone is attracted to me which never really happens. I think i experienced it twice in my life and it was always with 40+ year old whores who i am not remotely attracted to.
Right now i am unemployed so it is pointless for me to ask anyone out.
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then im a mentalcel only asked out 10 girls, why bother approaching knowing that it will always end in failure
I've never asked a girl out because i am ugly, selfaware and also very shy.
I didn't know you were an O.G.
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