You know, one of the coping and adapting mechanisms below avarage to ugly young men have is being very friendly.
I would say this is a defeated-male symtom. They know that they are not in the top hierarchy or even in the middle and they know they are weak.
The defeated male becomes very calm, friendly and never strikes back when someone strikes him. He becomes very emphatic, supporting people that are in need. Maybe he joins an organization that helps people in need.
He uses his friendliness to show that he is not any harm, that he is a "voice of reason" (lol noone listens to him) and that he thinks his emphaty and friendliness will get him some friends and women.
But in the end, his genetic sucks, he will always be in the bottom hierarchy and he will enter his 20s as a virgin.
In the end, he understands that he is useless in the human hierarchy and tries to cope it with stupid interests like magic the gathering or MMOs like WoW.
Normies will just say "get a life, go out and talk to women" to people who spend their whole life playing WoW but they do not get it. In WoW, the person gets to play a character that can enter a hierarchy. The character is not an ugly mess but a strong, muscular orc that marshes thru Ashenvale enemy territory making night elf women take off their shoes, flock him and put their pristine elven toes on his face, meanwhile the night elf male normies cries in desperation but they know if they get near the orc male, they'll just be beheaded by his sword, Thunderfury, blessed blade of the windseeker, and just become statistic in the PvP rank system and overall SMV, they stand no chance (in the game ofcourse). The true chad experience.
He gets to be the cool orc rogue, destroying dps meters and killing virgin gnomes while his friends laugh (the chad bullying a virgin experience). He gets to have a respectable position in a raid group or a pvp group, making him have a place in the hierarchy, unlike IRL when he is at the bottom (the chad getting picked first in the sport team experience).
He gets to become an officer, a true leader and he gets to lead people (the chad attractiveness aura experience). The game gives the experience a lonely man wants, like being respected, having friends and getting to become something cool.
I have heard people say that games like WoW completely destroys a mans social skills, but that is usually not true. His social skills are destroyed because he had no place in the hierarchy at school in the age where hormones raises and people start mating with eachother. He becomes very lonely, and in worst cases, bullied. That is what ruined his life, WoW is just there to fill the needs.
I am not saying that gaming is good. I have a better idea: save money for plastic surgeries but sadly depression just completely destroys the body system and takes away all the energy to even try.
Some men becomes passive and isolated. Some men do plastic surgeries and if that is a success and if the base body is good, they lose their virginity. Some men just snaps crying in youtube videos or worse.
Some harmless looking virgin males actually become friends with women in hope to one day become loved. They defend women, they get rejected by women, they see women pick the other guys and in the end they rope themselves. Usually low testosterone white males or asians from what I have seen online. Arab men in my experience becomes blackpilled earlier and just goes around telling other people that it is all over instead of giving people false hope like asian masculinity and gets the saint status.