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Venting I feel like I don't belong anywhere I go.

Ahriman

Ahriman

Some men, just wanna watch the world burn...
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I've always been an outcast, never felt like I fit in any sort of group. I see all types of people finding their place, their group. Like the emos, the jocks, the nerds, the druggies in High school. But never for me, I'm just drifting between places, putting up a fake personality to seem like I'm accepted. I've been trying really hard to join some sort of discord server with like minded people, but they end up being all normies, or bunch of edgy teenagers. It is truly over. I miss the Discord server we had, but of course it got nuked because everyone hates us. I guess I'll always be alone, and unfit to be anywhere. Being mixed race makes that reality even worse, I don't feel at home with any race ethnic group either as I may look like that ethnic group the most, but I was raised to act and talk like the other...
 
Have you tried going to Comicon to see if you fit in there?
 
So you'll be fine here
 
i want to start my own movement. i've never felt like i belong anywhere
 
Are your parents freaking out about it?
Idk about my dad since he's not at home anymore but my mother is kinda freaking out.

I said it in another thread but my sister was supposed to go out several nights ago, and my mom said no bc she feared sth bad would happen to my sister.

It didn't affected me much atm ngl :feelscomfy:
 
I am convinced that I am my own kind and no one else will understand me. I deeply resonate with you.
 
Part of the problem is that to find others like you, you need to signal openly who you are. If everyone looks at others for the right signals but no one is sending any, like minded individuals won't recognize each other even if they meet.
But the more abnormal you are, the lower the return on investment. Openly signaling who you are when you are not like most people will earn you more hurt and rejection and only extremly rarely will there be any reward for the risks you take by showing your true nature to the world.
If you wanna try, I can give you my discord and we can see if anything connects us, though I make no promises and I'm probably gonna ghost you if the vibes don't align.
 
Same here. Except for my (extended) family as a kid
 
R u an autistcel?
I have assburgers but I don't think people notice it
Part of the problem is that to find others like you, you need to signal openly who you are. If everyone looks at others for the right signals but no one is sending any, like minded individuals won't recognize each other even if they meet.
But the more abnormal you are, the lower the return on investment. Openly signaling who you are when you are not like most people will earn you more hurt and rejection and only extremly rarely will there be any reward for the risks you take by showing your true nature to the world.
If you wanna try, I can give you my discord and we can see if anything connects us, though I make no promises and I'm probably gonna ghost you if the vibes don't align.
Just by the way you talk I can already tell you we are not compatible. I am also bipolar so I will have periods where I act like a man child, back to being aloof and cold.
 
This is why i'm against race mixing. IR couples don't think about the identity issues their bastard offspring will face
Me too, all race mixed people feel like they don't really belong anywhere. Identity crisis. Where am I from who are my people etc.
 
I have assburgers but I don't think people notice it

Just by the way you talk I can already tell you we are not compatible. I am also bipolar so I will have periods where I act like a man child, back to being aloof and cold.
I'm a bit differend in text compared to in person, and I match both in terms of diagnosis and personal experience, though if you found a home in an older discord you already found one more place with people like yourself than I have. Still probably best to trust your intuition on those types of questions.
There should be like a short, optional personality test on here that helps you find your subgroup within incels.
 
Relatable, it's very hard for me to talk to anyone. It seems like everywhere you go, you need to accept their persona to be welcomed into the club. Something that not all of us can do.. Probably because we are giga autistic.
 
I've always felt like that, I tried going to a bar the other night and got pressed by some drunk boomer for being a weirdo, I am very quiet and it fills normies with rage when I struggle to socialise with them.
 
Was i born to be a loner? Or did society and psychopath normies fucked us all up?
 
I've always been an outcast, never felt like I fit in any sort of group. I see all types of people finding their place, their group. Like the emos, the jocks, the nerds, the druggies in High school. But never for me, I'm just drifting between places, putting up a fake personality to seem like I'm accepted. I've been trying really hard to join some sort of discord server with like minded people, but they end up being all normies, or bunch of edgy teenagers. It is truly over. I miss the Discord server we had, but of course it got nuked because everyone hates us. I guess I'll always be alone, and unfit to be anywhere. Being mixed race makes that reality even worse, I don't feel at home with any race ethnic group either as I may look like that ethnic group the most, but I was raised to act and talk like the other...
Im an alien
 
same , i always feel out of place everywhere and among everyone , which is why i like the saying ''no reason to stay is a good reason to go''
 
I feel you brocel,unfortunately there's always people like us even outcast can't relate to, closest people I can be with is my family but we can't relate due to different factors, do you have family to hang with? It'll make you feel better.
 
I've always been an outcast, never felt like I fit in any sort of group. I see all types of people finding their place, their group. Like the emos, the jocks, the nerds, the druggies in High school. But never for me, I'm just drifting between places, putting up a fake personality to seem like I'm accepted. I've been trying really hard to join some sort of discord server with like minded people, but they end up being all normies, or bunch of edgy teenagers. It is truly over. I miss the Discord server we had, but of course it got nuked because everyone hates us. I guess I'll always be alone, and unfit to be anywhere. Being mixed race makes that reality even worse, I don't feel at home with any race ethnic group either as I may look like that ethnic group the most, but I was raised to act and talk like the other...
Very relatable.

I tried to fit in in a lot of different places but can never fit in. I went to places I thought I had similar intrest. I went to anime groups, gaming groups, etc, etc... I fit in nowhere, outcast among outcasts. Its over.

Eventually I stopped going anywhere, now I dont rly have any friends or social groups for the last 5 years I just rot in my house and daydream a lot.
 
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