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It's Over I envy college/universitycels

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College and university is for many the last opportunity to ascend, as it is a warm environment to meet girls your age.

At 28 years old, I don't have that luxury anymore. My only opportunities are dating apps and cold approach, both of which I've tried for almost a decade with zero success.

If you're a youngcel in college or university, please make the most of it. Your future self will regret it if you don't. I know many of you think it is futile to try ("if you have to try it's over") but do it nonetheless (without getting yourself arrested :forcedsmile:). At worst, you'll have confirmation that it is over and can tell yourself that at least you've tried.
 
I tried to and failed, if u been losing in life as a teen, ur gonna lose even at early 20s, but yes i do agree at least try
 
no it’s probably just being surrounded by chads every day on campus who are douchebags
 
I get what you mean but I don’t envy them at all if they’re genuine incels. College/uni will always be the most miserable years of our lives
 
If you're a youngcel in college or university, please make the most of it. Your future self will regret it if you don't. I know many of you think it is futile to try ("if you have to try it's over") but do it nonetheless (without getting yourself arrested :forcedsmile:). At worst, you'll have confirmation that it is over and can tell yourself that at least you've tried.
Trvke. I've lost my dating phobia only a year ago, but i was long after college.
I assume, that curing mental damage from highschool or earlier is paralising cels during college, so they're making it trough as ultra social inhin.
 
Hats off to you. More than half of the people here haven't even tried.
True, ik many decent looking guys who have insane potential, but all they do is neet all day dont try at all, ik its hard for the average man but its best to try, even if u fail at least when ur older u will not be mad at yourself and say "ohh damn i wish i tried"
 
Tried in my first year of it and nothing came from it. Honestly I think I might even regret trying in the first place because my inhibition has been the worst it's ever been going forward from that. I initially thought I would be a university ascender and that I would be able to make up for my school years during it but it never happened. Maybe in another life.
 
Opportunities alone are meaningless. Right now, in the modern age, we have more opportunities and possibilities around us than at any other time in human history but we see so many people LDARing and suicidal. So opportunity alone isn't enough; you have to be innately worthy enough to grab hold and make use of those opportunities. An incel at a nightclub has just as much opportunity to succeed as a beggar is at a luxury car dealership.
 
if they’re genuine incels
Exactly. But as ascension stories on this forum prove time and time again, many here are low-tier normies or even normies who simply never tried and expected foids to approach them :forcedsmile:
 
Tried in my first year of it and nothing came from it. Honestly I think I might even regret trying in the first place because my inhibition has been the worst it's ever been going forward from that. I initially thought I would be a university ascender and that I would be able to make up for my school years during it but it never happened. Maybe in another life.
I envy those who still have hope of ascension. Even if it's delusion I was way more motivated in life back when I had hope.
 
Exactly. But as ascension stories on this forum prove time and time again, many here are low-tier normies or even normies who simply never tried and expected foids to approach them :forcedsmile:
Yeah too true

foids approaching is a luxury only chad has. To expect them to approach you is sheer delusion
 
Tried in my first year of it and nothing came from it.
At the very least you have confirmation. If you can't ascend in a warm environment, it is 100% over.
 
gl meeting foids as a stemcel
 
gl meeting foids as a stemcel
Good point, I didn't even consider this as a STEMcel myself. You indeed won't find many foids in these fields, and those who are there are usually insufferable.
 
I have been in university for 7 years on and off.

I would say high school would be the last place for the average incel to ascend. Universities are hellholes, and hypergamy is on giga-steroids. I lived in the dorms for four out of those seven years and it was extremely blackpilling. You will see the ugliest and fattest women with HTNs. All of the MTNs and LTNs are practically incels who are rotting, and I am talking about seeing this from as far back as 2018.

At least in high school too I would have some women who would at least try to be nice to me if my existence was acknowledged. In university, I have legitimately received disgust signals from every other woman who I would be around. From ewing to pointing and laughing. I shower daily and I wear cologne and deodorant and I wear nice clothes. Women in university literally refused to talk to me and I would outright, in some situations, have to go out of my way to ask the professor to either reassign me in group projects or force them to communicate with me. I wish I was making this shit up.

When you go to university as an incel, you will get a first hand experience on why Elliot Rodger snapped. If you stalked through my posts on here, a good chunk of the ones from 2018-2020 are full of rage.

Sidenote: One of the weirdest fucking things is that when it came to the virginity conversation with my roommates, they told me they would help me get laid, and then the ones who said that would just disappear off the face of the Earth because of some circumstance or another. I am talking like, this happened to at least 1 or 2 people within the three out of my four sets of (in a dorm, I would have three other) roommates that I had. I genuinely feel like at this point that there are external Sorosian forces preventing me from at least getting to have sex.
 
I get what you mean but I don’t envy them at all if they’re genuine incels. College/uni will always be the most miserable years of our lives
Exactly. I don't envy universitycels at all. At most you should envy university chads and normies.
 
I have been in university for 7 years on and off.

I would say high school would be the last place for the average incel to ascend. Universities are hellholes, and hypergamy is on giga-steroids. I lived in the dorms for four out of those seven years and it was extremely blackpilling. You will see the ugliest and fattest women with HTNs. All of the MTNs and LTNs are practically incels who are rotting, and I am talking about seeing this from as far back as 2018.

At least in high school too I would have some women who would at least try to be nice to me if my existence was acknowledged. In university, I have legitimately received disgust signals from every other woman who I would be around. From ewing to pointing and laughing. I shower daily and I wear cologne and deodorant and I wear nice clothes. Women in university literally refused to talk to me and I would outright, in some situations, have to go out of my way to ask the professor to either reassign me in group projects or force them to communicate with me. I wish I was making this shit up.

When you go to university as an incel, you will get a first hand experience on why Elliot Rodger snapped. If you stalked through my posts on here, a good chunk of the ones from 2018-2020 are full of rage.

Sidenote: One of the weirdest fucking things is that when it came to the virginity conversation with my roommates, they told me they would help me get laid, and then the ones who said that would just disappear off the face of the Earth because of some circumstance or another. I am talking like, this happened to at least 1 or 2 people within the three out of my four sets of (in a dorm, I would have three other) roommates that I had. I genuinely feel like at this point that there are external Sorosian forces preventing me from at least getting to have sex.
This is insanely brutal, sorry you had to go through that :feelsrope:Where do you live if I may ask?
 
Good point, I didn't even consider this as a STEMcel myself. You indeed won't find many foids in these fields, and those who are there are usually insufferable.
a sea of scrawny chinks and jeets, I dissolve in the masses
 
This is insanely brutal, sorry you had to go through that :feelsrope:Where do you live if I may ask?
I'm from Texas but moved to the Midwest US for college.
 
I'm from Texas but moved to the Midwest US for college.
The US is truly fucked. I'm from Western Europe and I worked on an open-source project with this low-tier normie who did manage to ascend in university. So maybe it's still possible here, although that was like 5 years ago so maybe the situation changed for the worse.
 
I'm 26 and I never tried, it never began with my genetics.
 
Focusing on studies or chase femoids, it's like, risking getting kicked out of there quicky, and have good money wasted on it afterwards.
 
I'm 26 and I never tried, it never began with my genetics.
A self-described 3/10 5'6 dude from here just recently ascended. So maybe you should try just to have the confirmation.
 
Focusing on studies or chase femoids, it's like, risking getting kicked out of there quicky, and have good money wasted on it afterwards.
I don't recommend outright approaching foids at uni, that's indeed a surefire way to get kicked out. Rather you should get closer to them organically for lack of a better term, and then ask them out eventually. This can work for non-autistic normies. As a recent .is ascension shows, I don't think many here are nearly as ugly as they claim.
 
No point approaching when u are REAL incel
 
No point approaching when u are REAL incel
I agree, but how do you know you're a real incel if you've never tried? Sure, if you're fat or have a visibly disfigured face, then it's clear as day. But I'm claiming that many guys on this forum have a completely wrong perception of themselves. Like the self-proclaimed 3/10 guy who recently ascended :forcedsmile:
 
I agree, but how do you know you're a real incel if you've never tried? Sure, if you're fat or have a visibly disfigured face, then it's clear as day. But I'm claiming that many guys on this forum have a completely wrong perception of themselves. Like the self-proclaimed 3/10 guy who recently ascended :forcedsmile:
You don't need to try to see how normies react to you tbh
 
University would be torture as an incel. Living in poverty, hard work inside a dorm surrounded by sexhavers, sex noises, parties, weed smell and occassional animalistic behavior from others, having to work shitty jobs on vacations or during the school, if you get one in the first place. I used to ask girls out quite a lot when I was in school, always rejected. Those university foids fuck unemployed chads who drink and do drugs or those who come from a rich family, drive fancy cars in school instead of using public transport.

However as a chronic NEET I would recommend education if you have energy left for it and pick carefully what you will study so you could afford nice copes, freedom and HR whores couldn't ruin your life by keeping you out from employment
 
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A self-described 3/10 5'6 dude from here just recently ascended. So maybe you should try just to have the confirmation.
Mogs me, I have zero chance
 
FBI-chan, brother, I turned 31 in July, and I'm still in college because I haven't managed to write my final thesis in five years, for various reasons. When I say that out loud, I feel like an absolute loser. No need to confirm that for me.

This week, the winter semester started at my university, which is when the large majority of new students start. I feel like I'm cosplaying being a student among them. I can't even properly cosplay being a student among other students close to graduation because most of them are a few years younger than me.
 
Well, many foids are taken already, even ltb. And you can try only if you're really mentally strong
 
One of the weirdest fucking things is that when it came to the virginity conversation with my roommates, they told me they would help me get laid, and then the ones who said that would just disappear off the face of the Earth because of some circumstance or another. I am talking like, this happened to at least 1 or 2 people within the three out of my four sets of (in a dorm, I would have three other) roommates that I had. I genuinely feel like at this point that there are external Sorosian forces preventing me from at least getting to have sex.
I can't even fathom bothering to interact with anyone at University—let alone 'opening up to them' about more personal things like my inceldom. It just seems rather tiring. Even if I was unfortunate enough to have to live in a dorm, I'd just stay shut in my room and never speak to any of my roommates, as much as I could help it, at least. I'm not sure how you even brought yourself to put up with that.
 
I have to admit, i didn't try that hard to get a GF when i was a college student

Because i was ugly, had defeated and depressed mental state when i entered my 1st year, well into 2nd year

And i don't fancy college foids anyways, they are so roastie and cruel

I did try to ascend with highschool JBs many times though, but it didn't work
 
university nuked my already dogshit life to completely irrecoverable levels
 
I never tried. I have social anxiety I think, a lot of times I want to say something but I just can't talk. It happens sometimes even with my family members. I calm myself with the idea, that even if I managed to get a date, I can't talk about anything, so for me it's true that my personality is the issue. I also can't hold eye contact, despite practicing it a lot.
 
College and university is for many the last opportunity to ascend, as it is a warm environment to meet girls your age.

At 28 years old, I don't have that luxury anymore. My only opportunities are dating apps and cold approach, both of which I've tried for almost a decade with zero success.

If you're a youngcel in college or university, please make the most of it. Your future self will regret it if you don't. I know many of you think it is futile to try ("if you have to try it's over") but do it nonetheless (without getting yourself arrested :forcedsmile:). At worst, you'll have confirmation that it is over and can tell yourself that at least you've tried.
I don't
 
Exactly. I don't envy universitycels at all. At most you should envy university chads and normies.
I hate uni chads more then i hate foids. I hate them very much but my hatred for chad knows no bounds.
 
College and university is for many the last opportunity to ascend, as it is a warm environment to meet girls your age.

At 28 years old, I don't have that luxury anymore. My only opportunities are dating apps and cold approach, both of which I've tried for almost a decade with zero success.

If you're a youngcel in college or university, please make the most of it. Your future self will regret it if you don't. I know many of you think it is futile to try ("if you have to try it's over") but do it nonetheless (without getting yourself arrested :forcedsmile:). At worst, you'll have confirmation that it is over and can tell yourself that at least you've tried.
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College and university is for many the last opportunity to ascend, as it is a warm environment to meet girls your age.

At 28 years old, I don't have that luxury anymore. My only opportunities are dating apps and cold approach, both of which I've tried for almost a decade with zero success.

If you're a youngcel in college or university, please make the most of it. Your future self will regret it if you don't. I know many of you think it is futile to try ("if you have to try it's over") but do it nonetheless (without getting yourself arrested :forcedsmile:). At worst, you'll have confirmation that it is over and can tell yourself that at least you've tried.
Yeah broski I have no chance, the competition is out of this fucking universe in one of my classes yesterday for laboratory there were alot of attractive females but I was literally surrounded by chads who mogged me in every way you can think of height, face, etc..

I even tried to talk to a female and I swear to god she didn't even respond, she giggled and quickly walked away and then was laughing with her freinds.
 
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after 3 months of university i can conclude that i have no chance at ascension here, or anywhere else for that matter.
 
Yeah broski I have no chance, the competition is out of this fucking universe in one of my classes yesterday for laboratory there were alot of attractive females but I was literally surrounded by chads who mogged me in every way you can think of height, face, etc..

I even tried to talk to a female and I swear to god she didn't even respond, she giggled and quickly walked away and then was laughing with her freinds.
after 3 months of university i can conclude that i have no chance at ascension here, or anywhere else for that matter.
That's so brutal, I'm sorry guys :(
 
To the nonuniversitycel it may seem like universitycels have it better but we really do not. It is significantly more brutal since we are in our primes but completely ostracized by society and rejected by women. Women begin to form harems around chads and you will be mogged to oblivion and be a live witness to the lives you are missing out on. Because of our generally higher iqs we are able to be more cognitively flexible and adapt to the challenges of life. It is more brutal, but at the same time, we are able to mentally claw through it to be able to build skills, which is something that is good for anyone. The best thing that will come from university is confirmation that it is over and can tell yourself that at least you've tried.

College and university is for many the last opportunity to ascend for many, but not for incels. If you are actually incel, if you arent at least average iq, which many cels arent due to our poor genetics, then it will be hell on earth for you. You will be constantly demoralized while trying to build skills and credentials. IQ doesnt matter unless you are in the extreme upper echlons(genius level) where you can somehow capitalize on social mistakes done by normies, profit off them and make money, and somehow pull off ascension. Because most extremely high iq ppl are generally MTN and up, that's really rare and if they do exist (incel/truecel super-genius) they won't find them on this forum since they won't be incels and somehow was able to capitalize on life.
 
I have been to college and have an advanced degree. While I was no longer being followed by an aide, unlike high school, being the moderately-popular "smart" guy did not help me at all from a romantic standpoint as I was still considered "damaged" by the girls I knew somewhat well. Basically, I was the guy people went to for help with studying or information on random topics, but I was basically a curiosity akin to a sideshow exhibit as nobody wanted to get involved with somebody who was "nuts" and took medication to function for a rather serious mental disorder.

After I got my Master's, I tried to contact my old friends from when I was an undergrad, and they basically all washed their hands of me as my former friend circle had retroactively decided that they needed to "cut contact with the crazy guy" they knew in school despite their insistence that "I hadn't done anything wrong" but "This is the way it has to be for somebody like you."

I couldn't find anything that wasn't gig or contact work related to my field after school, so I ended up in a job that has nothing to do with my intended career.

While I enjoyed college and my area of study, it was not worth the amount of student loan debt I am still paying off and most people do not end up working in their respective fields after college. Plus, I was hampered by the same issues that are largely responsible for my inceldom in college that I was in high school, namely, people do not want to get involved with somebody with a severe psychiatric problem that they cannot really hide.

The only difference is that people in college tried to be more polite about why they did not want to get in a relationship with me and many tried to be sympathetic, but the answer was still "No."
 
A self-described 3/10 5'6 dude from here just recently ascended. So maybe you should try just to have the confirmation.
cope he is probably betabuxxing, no girlfriend for your face.
 

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