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Venting I don’t know how to communicate

Lazyandtalentless

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I don’t know how to communicate. No one ever taught me how to talk to people or express myself properly when I was a kid. Now I’m an adult, and it feels like I’m just constantly struggling to connect with anyone.

Before anyone soy jumps in with “dis y u inkwell! :soy: :foidSoy:”—this isn’t a joke. When I was a kid, I was always rejected from everybody because of my looks mostly… that and being an autistic, mentally broken loser. I never had the chance to learn how to have normal conversations because no one bothered to teach me. I didn’t have role models or anyone showing me how to communicate. As a result, I grew up feeling isolated, like I was never really part of anything. Now, as an adult, I’m stuck with the consequences of never learning the basics that everyone else seems to know instinctively.
 
Yeah i never learned social skills
 
Same, no one ever taught me anything and I was always outcasted and treated like shit.
 
Yeah man I am really struggling with communication verbally nowadays. I try to speak exactly and clearly and yet nobody understands what the fuck I want or what im saying or hears me. I also don't find things funny anymore like I used to because I am depressed about being a loser at such old age. So I bore and confuse everyone and It makes me want to sit alone even more
 
I don’t know how to communicate. No one ever taught me how to talk to people or express myself properly when I was a kid. Now I’m an adult, and it feels like I’m just constantly struggling to connect with anyone.

Before anyone soy jumps in with “dis y u inkwell! :soy: :foidSoy:”—this isn’t a joke. When I was a kid, I was always rejected from everybody because of my looks mostly… that and being an autistic, mentally broken loser. I never had the chance to learn how to have normal conversations because no one bothered to teach me. I didn’t have role models or anyone showing me how to communicate. As a result, I grew up feeling isolated, like I was never really part of anything. Now, as an adult, I’m stuck with the consequences of never learning the basics that everyone else seems to know instinctively.
we all have this problem here
 

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