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I dont have parents no more, How do i cope?

Lonelyus

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Yesterday i had an argument with my parents about irl in person about my looks and autism, I said i have wish you never made me, They are not responding anymore over text, My father is a psychopath that sadly isnt any better, We argued alot me and mom because she thinks its all about personality, I got mad and raised my voice.

Are they disowning me now for lashing out for being a blackpilled subhuman?

Also i avoided terms such as blackpill, Redpill, Bluepill.

My parents are aging fast theyre around 64 and life expectancy is 78.

If they dont looksmaxx me or whatever its over for me forever, I am a 24 year old subhuman and im now on my own, Luckily i got NEETbuxx and if i need to move someday imma save up a bit of cash for the moving trucks because im sure now as my whole family is avoiding me i guess im gonna NEET alone without the social suppoet system i never had

I was told, Were not weak in this family

pull yourself together (Pull yourself by the bootstraps)

Ive mentioned time and time how my subhumanity is a hinder for success and that connections are made thru socializing/looks.


My parentd are not replying to my texts anymore and its been 12 hours and im sure theyre awake by now.

Should i move out of the state and find a new place? Now as im all alone and dont have parents anymore because they now hate me and ignore me, Or just give the silent treatment back umtil i hear from them?
 
Yesterday i had an argument with my parents about irl in person about my looks and autism, I said i have wish you never made me, They are not responding anymore over text, My father is a psychopath that sadly isnt any better, We argued alot me and mom because she thinks its all about personality, I got mad and raised my voice.

Are they disowning me now for lashing out for being a blackpilled subhuman?

Also i avoided terms such as blackpill, Redpill, Bluepill.

My parents are aging fast theyre around 64 and life expectancy is 78.

If they dont looksmaxx me or whatever its over for me forever, I am a 24 year old subhuman and im now on my own, Luckily i got NEETbuxx and if i need to move someday imma save up a bit of cash for the moving trucks because im sure now as my whole family is avoiding me i guess im gonna NEET alone without the social suppoet system i never had

I was told, Were not weak in this family

pull yourself together (Pull yourself by the bootstraps)

Ive mentioned time and time how my subhumanity is a hinder for success and that connections are made thru socializing/looks.


My parentd are not replying to my texts anymore and its been 12 hours and im sure theyre awake by now.

Should i move out of the state and find a new place? Now as im all alone and dont have parents anymore because they now hate me and ignore me, Or just give the silent treatment back umtil i hear from them?
Most parents know what a disaster they have brought into the world.
I think it's better to just leave or just live with your parents but never discuss it with them.
Secretly they know that you are subhuman but they don't want to admit it because it hurts too much.
I don't even talk to my mother about such topics anymore because I know that she knows what the world is like and she just won't admit it.
 
Yesterday i had an argument with my parents about irl in person about my looks and autism, I said i have wish you never made me, They are not responding anymore over text, My father is a psychopath that sadly isnt any better, We argued alot me and mom because she thinks its all about personality, I got mad and raised my voice.

Are they disowning me now for lashing out for being a blackpilled subhuman?

Also i avoided terms such as blackpill, Redpill, Bluepill.

My parents are aging fast theyre around 64 and life expectancy is 78.

If they dont looksmaxx me or whatever its over for me forever, I am a 24 year old subhuman and im now on my own, Luckily i got NEETbuxx and if i need to move someday imma save up a bit of cash for the moving trucks because im sure now as my whole family is avoiding me i guess im gonna NEET alone without the social suppoet system i never had

I was told, Were not weak in this family

pull yourself together (Pull yourself by the bootstraps)

Ive mentioned time and time how my subhumanity is a hinder for success and that connections are made thru socializing/looks.


My parentd are not replying to my texts anymore and its been 12 hours and im sure theyre awake by now.

Should i move out of the state and find a new place? Now as im all alone and dont have parents anymore because they now hate me and ignore me, Or just give the silent treatment back umtil i hear from them?
try to survive somehow without a lot of discussions.
 
Your first mistake (not blaming you here) was thinking you could talk about those things with 60 years old...

Their minds and expectations about what to do in the dating world, are from when movies were black and white. Your father would unironically tell you that laying your coat on the ground for a girl to walk on would win her heart. That's how backwards and completely ignorant they are of the current dating world as a man.
just give the silent treatment back umtil i hear from them
They probably just don't want to talk about this topic or are just mad or whatever... Report back to us with whatever happens, if you want.

Try to let things calm down.
 
Your first mistake (not blaming you here) was thinking you could talk about those things with 60 years old...

Their minds and expectations about what to do in the dating world, are from when movies were black and white. Your father would unironically tell you that laying your coat on the ground for a girl to walk on would win her heart. That's how backwards and completely ignorant they are of the current dating world as a man.

They probably just don't want to talk about this topic or are just mad or whatever... Report back to us with whatever happens, if you want.

Try to let things calm down.
Yeah ok, Im going to have pizza with my sister later today so ill focus on that.

I'll tell you if they finally decide to reply

I guess i still have a sister tho but we barely talk because they live far away.
 
Your first mistake (not blaming you here) was thinking you could talk about those things with 60 years old...

Their minds and expectations about what to do in the dating world, are from when movies were black and white. Your father would unironically tell you that laying your coat on the ground for a girl to walk on would win her heart. That's how backwards and completely ignorant they are of the current dating world as a man.

They probably just don't want to talk about this topic or are just mad or whatever... Report back to us with whatever happens, if you want.

Try to let things calm down.
The coat thing is kinda cucked but i guess thats what they think, I did mention i scrolled on tinder for years and also tried to flirt with girls i also said they find me creepy, I showed them a pic of chad and told them about hypergamy, Ive had mom admit hypergamy exist before so i think theyre just denying what i say.
 
Your first mistake (not blaming you here) was thinking you could talk about those things with 60 years old...

Their minds and expectations about what to do in the dating world, are from when movies were black and white. Your father would unironically tell you that laying your coat on the ground for a girl to walk on would win her heart. That's how backwards and completely ignorant they are of the current dating world as a man.
or that you should take a dance class.
They think they're still living in the 50s.
Most women don't care how well someone can dance or how nice they are.
For foids, all that matters is how hard Chad chokes her during doggy style.
 
Yeah ok, Im going to have pizza with my sister later today so ill focus on that.

I'll tell you if they finally decide to reply

I guess i still have a sister tho but we barely talk because they live far away.
Yeah, try to forget about that while you are hanging out with your sister.

See what happens later. Just again, never talk about that subject again with them

I have one of those "You are literally the most handsome man on planet, I bet girls really like you" type of family (Not my parents), and I give them no reply.

I could tell them that every fucking girl younger/my age feels nothing about me, and I have been called horrible things about my appearance. But they will just fall back to "You shouldn't listen to what others say".

You have to know when not to engage sometimes.
 
or that you should take a dance class.
They think they're still living in the 50s.
Most women don't care how well someone can dance or how nice they are.
For foids, all that matters is how hard Chad chokes her during doggy style.
Basically. They are that naive.
The love, dating, hook up world is bleak for men right now, specially sub-5s.

Good hearted men are being thrown to the sidelines. That doesn't matter anymore.
 
The coat thing is kinda cucked but i guess thats what they think, I did mention i scrolled on tinder for years and also tried to flirt with girls i also said they find me creepy, I showed them a pic of chad and told them about hypergamy, Ive had mom admit hypergamy exist before so i think theyre just denying what i say.
Probably. Or are uncomfortable with giving harsh truths to their son.

Or again, are just ignorant. "Being a gentleman is all that matters", mentality...
 
Most parents know what a disaster they have brought into the world.
I think it's better to just leave or just live with your parents but never discuss it with them.
Secretly they know that you are subhuman but they don't want to admit it because it hurts too much.
I don't even talk to my mother about such topics anymore because I know that she knows what the world is like and she just won't admit it.
bluepilled normies sucks, they can't admit brutal reality and live with rose-coloured glasses
 
Yeah, try to forget about that while you are hanging out with your sister.

See what happens later. Just again, never talk about that subject again with them

I have one of those "You are literally the most handsome man on planet, I bet girls really like you" type of family (Not my parents), and I give them no reply.

I could tell them that every fucking girl younger/my age feels nothing about me, and I have been called horrible things about my appearance. But they will just fall back to "You shouldn't listen to what others say".

You have to know when not to engage sometimes.
I am usually calm and stoic but 4 years of rage where ive been supressing my emotions finally came out, But yeah imma try and forget them for now, Trying to teach them about looks was a bad idea, Mom knows hypergamy exists but refuses to talk about it, Mom has also said you can talk about anything with me, Ok so i finally fucking did after not doing that, Talk about anything i guess not... Im only told to pull myself together or shiiet like that, My parents never teached me how to cope in life just stuck me infront of the telly, Both of them, They are separated and someone else is with my mother now, He is mad at me too i presume, Its weird how despite the information being infront of them they will deny it, Its just like communism ideological subversion, You can take a man to the gulag but he will still deny it, This brainwashing happened for 3 generations in america during the cold war by the soviet russians to control american politics and we see alot of it today the goal is demoralization of the youth to weaken the enemy which was america.
 
Probably. Or are uncomfortable with giving harsh truths to their son.

Or again, are just ignorant. "Being a gentleman is all that matters", mentality...
My stepdad has a just be nice and say hi mentality, All that has gotten me is "Who are you" Or being bullied.
 
Probably. Or are uncomfortable with giving harsh truths to their son.

Or again, are just ignorant. "Being a gentleman is all that matters", mentality...
Maybe the harsh truth, Mom did ackowledge irl like maybe 4-6 or so months ago i mention hypergamy mom said that she knows its there but didnt take the convo any further when i mention it.

Maybe they know im ugly and dont want to hurt me idk
 
It happens with me a lot, I just learned not to bring stuff like this into conversation anymore. I just know for myself that it won't help, but, I can't handle it too, because I need to say what I feel inside, they just don't want to listen
 
It happens with me a lot, I just learned not to bring stuff like this into conversation anymore. I just know for myself that it won't help, but, I can't handle it too, because I need to say what I feel inside, they just don't want to listen
So they have given you the silent treatment before too because you tried to vent to your family which in the old days before modern civillization would actually care about you but now as were independant we may be on our own?
 
Maybe the harsh truth, Mom did ackowledge irl like maybe 4-6 or so months ago i mention hypergamy mom said that she knows its there but didnt take the convo any further when i mention it.

Maybe they know im ugly and dont want to hurt me idk
Probably.
I know my grandma and aunt know that I'm not actually handsome.
If I was, I would be like literally all my cousins and everyone else in the family.

Married with kids.

Saying you are ugly would not only supposedly make you feel bad, but it would make them feel bad as well. So they don't say it.
 
Probably.
I know my grandma and aunt know that I'm not actually handsome.
If I was, I would be like literally all my cousins and everyone else in the family.

Married with kids.

Saying you are ugly would not only supposedly make you feel bad, but it would make them feel bad as well. So they don't say it.
Hit me with the truth but dont comfort me with a lie, Being an ugly man sucks, My other sister not this one, Can vent to my parents about anything, When i do im just told that im wrong, For example i tell them i have troubles making friends, Just get out there, When my sister has trouble with friends my parents listen and give advice on how to solve it, I think they like and care about my sister more.
 
Hit me with the truth but dont comfort me with a lie, Being an ugly man sucks, My other sister not this one, Can vent to my parents about anything, When i do im just told that im wrong, For example i tell them i have troubles making friends, Just get out there, When my sister has trouble with friends my parents listen and give advice on how to solve it, I think they like and care about my sister more.
Is the expectations of being a man, that don't exist for your sisters. Again, they are old timers.

They are from a time when men had to be stoic and pull themselves from their bootstraps.

But now that we are past this unironically anti-men sentiment, and men have been revealed to struggle and have feelings like human beings, we don't do what your parents do anymore (We do actually, this was me talking in a "should be" way, not how it is. Even younger generations treat men like that).
 
Hit me with the truth but dont comfort me with a lie, Being an ugly man sucks, My other sister not this one, Can vent to my parents about anything, When i do im just told that im wrong, For example i tell them i have troubles making friends, Just get out there, When my sister has trouble with friends my parents listen and give advice on how to solve it, I think they like and care about my sister more.
Women are cuddled. Men aren't. Is that simple. Again, old timer mentality, that is still very much alive today.
 
Women are cuddled. Men aren't. Is that simple. Again, old timer mentality, that is still very much alive today.
I guess im just gonna go back to eating my sandwitch play cod and shut the fuck up while letting my emotions eat me from the inside, Study by us govt says loneliness is as bad as smoking 15 cigarettes a day,so if you calculate days of loneliness since it started and x it with 15 cigarettes you will know how many invisible cigarettes you have smoked.
 
Women are cuddled. Men aren't. Is that simple. Again, old timer mentality, that is still very much alive today.
Its over, The world is anti men yet were being pushed to be men yet we are not allowed to be men so how am i supposed to be if im shamed for being a man but told to be a man?
 
Dang your parents are old
 
Your parents had you way too late
 
Old thread, Irrelevant now, I managed to get back on OK terms with them.
 

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