I went to a Latin club by myself, I've been taking dance classes, and a bachata song came on. I asked the prettiest Latina girl to dance. I went into close dance position and I noticed that she kept looking at my eyes. So I just went for it and leaned in. And she kissed me! A lot! That was the first kiss of my life. We were making out of the dance floor off and on for about a half hour. I didn't care who saw! She was going all out, and she even grabbed me by the head and neck to kiss me harder. If she has something, I have it too now but I don't care. I was pulling her warm, soft body close to mine. It felt great!
Then I messed up by saying that we should go to her place or my place. She said that she has to go meet up with her friend (female friend). Then she didn't dance with me anymore, she said she just wanted to dance with her friend. But before she went to dance with her friend, I asked her for her phone number and she gave it to me. I don't know any PUA techniques but I know I messed up.
When I left the club, I started walking and a group of 4 girls started talking to me. They asked me why I didn't dance with them, I said I didn't see them. They made small talk for 30 seconds until they reached their car and I was too stupid to not get any of their phone numbers, but I told them where I would be dancing tomorrow night.
No sex, but I kissed and made out with a woman. That counts as ascending, right? I have been gymmaxxing and I wore my nicest clothes. Also, I spoke Spanish (self-taught second language) with every Latina I interacted with. So I had to take dance classes to learn to dance, I had to gymmaxx, I had to buy nice clothes, and I had to teach myself an entire language, and all of that was just to get kisses. It's hard for us, but we can ascend.
