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Serious I don't even want a gf anymore

Vodka1933

Vodka1933

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I've never had one and the companionship would be nice, but tbh the more I'm exposed to women Irl/online the more I think they're just retarded and just a waste of time and effort. Like, once you get a gf you have to constantly tend to her emotions and spend money on them with no real roi. There's a trend online where they're asking their bf/husbands "how many likes to buy _____" and it's usually some stupid bag or shoes "worth" thousands.

I think to myself, if I had a gf this would just make me block her and be by myself again. Or like I overhead some females irl talk about how her husband took her last name instead because she's the more educated one compared to him and then they all started to laugh about it. Besides sex, I really don't find females appealing anymore, I can't stand listening to them in really any setting. When I do get a gf, I'm probably gonna put bare minimum effort until she breaks up with me and I'm chilling.

Then I also watch those dating podcasts for entertainment(fnf, a little bit of whatever) and it hits even more, like these women are genuinely stupid, some of them can't even name 3 countries but have the highest standards possible all while being whores and being proud of it. It must of been nice to have been born in a time when women were decent and worth the effort.

plus we've reached this really unique time where females hate men just as much. It's so easy to see wherever you go. I even saw this video of "micro feminism" where women talk about how they're basically a bitch to random dudes in the name of feminism. Not opening the door if a man is behind them, not saying thanks, purposefully messing up their orders (food, clothes, ect). It's their way to "get back" since it's a patriarchy. I noticed this too, I went to get a coffee, the lady wouldn't even look at me and didn't say a single word besides "what do you want."
 
I think Im too damaged to have a gf anymore but I will try in Philippines come what may.
 
And you'll be too inexperienced to even have one after late twenties, most foids know what they want at that age and want to settle in without the first relationship awkwardness. Their learning time was over years ago and you'll get so many things wrong that you should've learnt in your adolescence. Foids hate being teachers to adults, they want you to know what to do based upon experience in all walks of the relationship. The ship for hanging out at the park and first times sailed a long time ago.
 
And you'll be too inexperienced to even have one after late twenties, most foids know what they want at that age and want to settle in without the first relationship awkwardness. Their learning time was over years ago and you'll get so many things wrong that you should've learnt in your adolescence. Foids hate being teachers to adults, they want you to know what to do based upon experience in all walks of the relationship. The ship for hanging out at the park and first times sailed a long time ago.
I'm gonna be me, idgaf about acclimating to her wants. She can take it or leave it, I'm def not gonna be some simp that panders to her every needs. I may have never had a gf before but I know how to act around women to not seem like some virgin. I work on myself, so it isn't obvious.
 
Im so tired of this shit world, If we cant get along maybe a nuke would be good to end it.
 
Living and dying alone doesnt sound like a better option
 
Like, once you get a gf you have to constantly tend to her emotions and spend money on them with no real roi.

That's why people say about escorts "You don't pay for the sex, you pay them to leave"
 
Women especially the older they are have expectations and they have experience.

They have experience since they were 14:
- First Teen Love
- First time sex at 14
- party in their 20s
- Multiple relationships (studies show that a 30 yo women has had 8 relationships on average)
- they have been ran through

Now they want to settle down - but theres a problem! If Chad doesnt go along she has to do it with Gerbert who never experienced these things - but she still expects him to.

Tbh I dont even know what such a women expects or how i should act towards her. But i do know that these women live in a Social Media bubble and want a instagram Lifestyle, something I cant and wont give her.
 
I don't deserve a relationship I'd just fuck it up and hurt them
 
most foids know what they want at that age and want to settle in without the first relationship awkwardness.
Is that why they divorce so much? They just only become more materialistic which is termed being "experienced". Bs redpill talk.
 
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Is that why they divorce so much? They just only become more materialistic which is termed being "experienced". Bs redpill talk.
When it comes to experience in a man, they can sense what inexperience is, too much of it gives them the ick.
 
When it comes to experience in a man, they can sense what inexperience is, too much of it gives them the ick.
Lmao! My God! Yeah sure. A guy shouldn't be blamed for a failed 'relationship' with basically a whore. Most modern foids are just that with relationships, more like situationships, in dozens before wanting to 'settle down'. Yet, when it comes to whores, we don't reserve that judgement, that they are just materialistic cunts.

Modern foids don't want relationships, they want roommates. Their too much 'experience' contradicts 'they know what they want'. That's why they have been divorcing in high numbers since the boomer days, when the boomer men experienced great success in dating, which says foids stay like whimsical children throughout their lives. Them wanting to settle down is another whimsical fit because your simple demands in a relationship will only be met with more nags the more 'experienced' she is.
 
Me too. Now, I just want to kill.
 
I do believe that every man has a bit of volcel in him now, women are just too awful and they make it obvious. And it's increasingly been like that since the 70's.
 
best greycel post so far perchance
 
Women are only decent to be around when they are in the honeymoon stage of a relationship with a man the woman perceives as being "a catch" (superior to her because she's hypergamous). That is because during this stage, the woman will do whatever it takes to hook the man in which allows for the man to get whatever he wants from the woman which has decent value for a man. This is why men who are attractive to women and who understand the game often aren't in serious relationships with women for longer than 6 months.

Simps and betabucks want serious monogamous relationships with women because the simps and betabucks know they can't get new women every 6 months so they're hoping they can just get 1 woman for the rest of their life. Unfortunately, after 6 months or so all women are going to deteriorate in quality within the relationship to the point they become a liability to the man. That's why these simps/betabucks aren't necessarily any better off than Incels in the grand scheme of things. Sure, they might have got that fun 6 months honeymoon but then they had to put up with her shit for a few years and then they get divorced raped losing half their shit. In the end, an Incel would probably be better off than the betabucks simp hiring escorts instead.

If you aren't the kind of man who can attract good looking women such that the women want to impress you by doing whatever you want then you truly have no business having anything to do with women. Incel is the path then.
 
Its all vanity and a worse Hell than being by yourself. The moment you stop giving them shit *poof they 'Gone!!
 
Remove women from existence.
Roundhouse KICK a Pregnant Slut.
Defile their lushous tempting bodies to crocodiles.

Jack Nicholson Yes GIF
 
where women talk about how they're basically a bitch to random dudes in the name of feminism
This is why I don’t see them as human. I do the same to those foids 24/7
 
Gfs are a scam. Guys who had gfs were just getting taken advantage of. Chad didn't have a gf, he had a harem.
 
I have polarized between this and wanting one for years.
 
Like, once you get a gf you have to constantly tend to her emotions and spend money on them with no real roi.
That's why people say about escorts "You don't pay for the sex, you pay them to leave"
Yes, if you're a beta cuck or low-exp. normie.

Do you think Chads, who have a gf as well as a side-piece, are spending all their time tending to their women? It's the other way around - the women do their laundry, clean their apartment, cook for them, etc. They even buy them shit.

I remember one Chad I knew in my early 20s - one of his side-pieces (he had at least two) was poor af so she couldn't buy him anything for their "anniversary". Instead she made him one of those "coupon books" - e.g. good for a bj, good for a home-cooked meal, good for a foot massage, etc. When he showed it to me he rolled his eyes because "she does that shit anyway".
 
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Yes I hate them too much and I just can't get along with them
 
Can't be blackpilled and want a girlfriend (within modern context)
That is impossible
 
The reward is that you get a sense of contentment that you are likely to pass on your genes. It really boils down to that and you will always feel "wrong" if you aren't getting such indications. The math on it is brutal now tho with the costs of dating and emotional labor etc.
 

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