i created a fake world in my mind

[Deleted member 3291]

i created a fake world in my mind, i only fall asleep when i dream about myself in the world. i have been doing this since the middle of of high school around the time i had given up on trying life. 


jfl at my life

 

[ArtoriasWolf]

I miss the raiden picture

 

[sadricecel]

too mch anime

 

[Deleted member 3291]

I miss the raiden picture

times have changed

heres some more

 

[Deleted member 236]

Look up "maladaptive daydreaming".

I've been doing this for 20 years. The hour before I fall asleep is my favourite time to do it.

 

[Deleted member 3291]

Look up "maladaptive daydreaming".

I've been doing this for 20 years. The hour before I fall asleep is my favourite time to do it.

fuck, i can't even focus in class because of it. sometimes i don't even want to leave my bed because i rather day dream and i end up missing class. any fix for this or is it over.

 

[torujo]

me too

 

[ArtoriasWolf]

times have changed

heres some more

Was raiden incel if he had no dick and was 80% cyborg?

 

[Jockcel]

You have the power of God and Anime on your side, you will be fine.

 

[Deleted member 3291]

Was raiden incel if he had no dick and was 80% cyborg?

nah he was able to seduce his psychiatrist and had a kid with her

if anything he was a mentalcel from being a child soldier to having his body decapitated multiple times

 

[_incelinside]

How do u do this. Sounds like a solid cope

 

[Deleted member 1269]

How do u do this. Sounds like a solid cope

 

[nausea]

age?

 

[Deleted member 3291]

How do u do this. Sounds like a solid cope

happened during high school because i had no friends, got bullied, and had nothing to do (was to poor to afford the new game consoles)

i had nothing to do so i would literally just lay down on my bed and began day dreaming as if i had a life where i was more of a chad.

 

[Weirdcel]

I used to do that too a lot when i was a kid. The worst parts was getting so caught up in your dreamland and then having a girl take you out of it by asking if you're okay.

 

[Deleted member 3291]

age?

21

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

Look up "maladaptive daydreaming".

I've been doing this for 20 years. The hour before I fall asleep is my favourite time to do it.

Was never familiar with the term, but i've been doing this since childhood. I've had the same imaginary girlfriend since I was like 15, so half of my life at this point.

 

[Deleted member 3291]

I used to do that too a lot when i was a kid. The worst parts was getting so caught up in your dreamland and then having a girl take you out of it by asking if you're okay.

this happens to me a lot when i'm on the bus or something, because when i day dream i have a blank stare and jsut stare at something for a long time without moving my eyes. on the bus i get asked if i'm okay by random strangers then i feel all awkward and embarrassed.

 

[nausea]

imaginary girlfriend

elab?

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

elab?

What would you like to know exactly?

 

[Weirdcel]

this happens to me a lot when i'm on the bus or something, because when i day dream i have a blank stare and jsut stare at something for a long time without moving my eyes. on the bus i get asked if i'm okay by random strangers then i feel all awkward and embarrassed.

Same for me, it usually happened in the school bus. I really like looking out bus windows and just seeing everything. Cars, buildings, people, nature.

 

[nausea]

elab?

What would you like to know exactly?

if this imaginary gf is based on some real person\s

 

[Deleted member 195]

You are fine.

What you are experiencing is literally less than what 2% of the people in the U.S has. Your "dreaming" is practically invisible, so there's nothing to worry about. The only time it's "maladaptive" is if YOU feel is affecting you in a negative way.

Trust me, this was something I pondered over. This is something you will get over quite easily in the future.

 

[UncannyValley]

too mch anime

You ready?

 

[nausea]

too mch anime

You ready?

no

 

[UncannyValley]

yes

[video=youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jchmejSpZEk[/video]

[video=youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ksmwxPHVCDI[/video]

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

if this imaginary gf is based on some real person\s

Not really.

 

[nausea]

if this imaginary gf is based on some real person\s

Not really.

so you created it by yourself without any external stimuli?

also, this fantasy involves sex or just romance? both?

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

so you created it by yourself without any external stimuli?

also, this fantasy involves sex or just romance? both?

Her facial features are similar to a girl I went to high school with that was 2 grades higher than me.  Her personality is not based on her or anyone else though.  

It's a strictly romantic fantasy.  Even when I had a sex drive I never had any sexual thoughts about her.

 

[nausea]

Her facial features are similar to a girl I went to high school with that was 2 grades higher than me

you liked this girl?

 

[Deleted member 3291]

Her facial features are similar to a girl I went to high school with that was 2 grades higher than me.  Her personality is not based on her or anyone else though.  

It's a strictly romantic fantasy.  Even when I had a sex drive I never had any sexual thoughts about her.

can relate, only had thoughts of cuddling and sleeping in bed with her.

 

[Deleted member 236]

Her facial features are similar to a girl I went to high school with that was 2 grades higher than me.  Her personality is not based on her or anyone else though.  

It's a strictly romantic fantasy.  Even when I had a sex drive I never had any sexual thoughts about her.

That's some pro shit. I never created anyone from scratch. I use real girls who I had the most fleeting of interactions with. I mostly recycle "meet cute" scenarios with these girls. Imagine talking to them, flirting etc. And doing intimate things like snuggling, holding hands, kissing, watching a movie together etc. I'm a porn addict too but that's largely a separate thing.

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

you liked this girl?

Yes. But I never spoke to her.

 

[Deleted member 236]

fuck, i can't even focus in class because of it. sometimes i don't even want to leave my bed because i rather day dream and i end up missing class. any fix for this or is it over.

I don't know. It's like any addiction. Stop doing it and focus on other things. Particularly focus on attaching to reality. Look up mindfulness. Parse all the meditation and hokey shit and get to the part that's basically training your mind to focus on the moment and the present. eg. if you're watching a movie you ask yourself questions about details of what's happening, make comments to yourself, etc. Literally out loud. Same if you're eating a meal. So you train your brain to be present and focused. I think that's the jist of it. Haven't really tried it lol but it sounds logical. The brain is plastic af and can be trained, like a muscle. 

Maladaptive daydreaming isn't recognised in psychology/psychiatry, I don't think. So you'll probably get diagnosed with schizophrenia if you see a Doctor about it (I did).

 

[nausea]

you liked this girl?

Yes. But I never spoke to her.

then I am righteous here eh?

 

[Deleted member 3291]

I don't know. It's like any addiction. Stop doing it and focus on other things. Particularly focus on attaching to reality. Look up mindfulness. Parse all the meditation and hokey shit and get to the part that's basically training your mind to focus on the moment and the present. eg. if you're watching a movie you ask yourself questions about details of what's happening, make comments to yourself, etc. Literally out loud. Same if you're eating a meal. So you train your brain to be present and focused. I think that's the jist of it. Haven't really tried it lol but it sounds logical. The brain is plastic af and can be trained, like a muscle. 

Maladaptive daydreaming isn't recognised in psychology/psychiatry, I don't think. So you'll probably get diagnosed with schizophrenia if you see a Doctor about it (I did).

just curious, any benefits for getting diagnosed. i literally cannot focus in college sometimes because i just stop paying attention and go into day dream mode. I literally only feel happy when i'm in that day dream state. Every single time i dream it;s usually always about this day dream world.

 

[Deleted member 236]

just curious, any benefits for getting diagnosed. i literally cannot focus in college sometimes because i just stop paying attention and go into day dream mode. I literally only feel happy when i'm in that day dream state. Every single time i dream it;s usually always about this day dream world.

I would.

 

[nausea]

Maladaptive daydreaming isn't recognised in psychology/psychiatry, I don't think. So you'll probably get diagnosed with schizophrenia if you see a Doctor about it (I did).

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