A Good Friend said:
This isn't Brokeback Mountain, I wasn't endeared to the fucker as much as I welcome a person that doesn't bug the living shit out of me. I've seen just a litany of godawful content, or just dickish bullying, smarminess and apathetic half-posts, also the "celebrities" and those that flock them or discuss them, "so and so mogs me" or whatever. I tend to count anybody who largely stands outside of that categorization as "not worthy of a ban."
I perfectly understand where you're coming from, we do have a lot of low IQ discussions. I hate it. This user, however, was not a quality contributor either, all the gay (?) posting was constantly getting on the nerves of the mod team. I honestly don't remember a single quality contribution that they made to this site. Maybe this user didn't bug you in particular, but they were getting a few of the users upset.
For the record, all the feelings of endearment I felt towards this user would dissipate the moment I remembered that there was (probably) a guy behind the screen.