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Story I can no longer pretend that being a cog in the system will fix my inceldom

Hevel

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I grew up believing that if you work hard, you'll get everything you want. At least, that's what my parents, teachers, and older people told me, and I believed it. Now I'm at an age where it's embarrassing not to have reached certain milestones.

I was doomscrolling in my room when I got the hardest left hook you can get from the BP.

It was a video from a classmate who was making a crappy vlog with his girlfriend. Nothing special, normie shit, but when I went to his profile and saw that he was married to her, it hit me harder than usual. Then I remembered the junkie classmate who told me he was planning to get married.

How can they expect us to work when society excludes us from our lowest desires?

I tolerated a lot at work because I thought I'd get what everyone else got, but now I see with my eyes wide open that wasn't even a requirement.

I can't keep pretending there's something out there for me. I can see several therapists and psychologists, but they can't implant experiences into our minds and remove the bad ones.

I just want to ldar. That should be my right if I can't have a good life.
 
I can see several therapists and psychologists, but they can't implant experiences into our minds and remove the bad ones.
Exactly. I did therapy for 3 years. The guy basically just tried to gaslight me, bagatelize my experiences and rejected every single scientific paper that wouldn't support his rainbow fantasy world.
 
Exactly. I did therapy for 3 years. The guy basically just tried to gaslight me, bagatelize my experiences and rejected every single scientific paper that wouldn't support his rainbow fantasy world.
Unfortunately, I have to go there, otherwise they will cancel my neetbux. They plan to send me to a facility so I have a "daily schedule." Sometimes I wish people would be honest and say it's a labor camp.
 
Exactly. I did therapy for 3 years. The guy basically just tried to gaslight me, bagatelize my experiences and rejected every single scientific paper that wouldn't support his rainbow fantasy world.
Therapy is the biggest horse crap I have ever heard of, YOU are paying another human to gaslight you with high education level tactics ( that everyone knows ) and if you are in the wrong they will just suck you dick because you pay them. Either way its full of shit and not worth the money, if it actually helps then I believe you could've solved your issues without it.
 
It truly is unfair that we are expected to work and get nothing good in life
 
if it actually helps then I believe you could've solved your issues without it.
and also "The more things change, the more they stay the same" ~frenchfag
 
We were lied to, lad.

The only option is do enough to survive and quit this rigged game as much as you can.
 
I can see several therapists and psychologists, but they can't implant experiences into our minds and remove the bad ones.
Yeah don't waste your time with that.
I just want to ldar. That should be my right if I can't have a good life.
If NEETbux is an option then you should take it.
 
The only option is do enough to survive and quit this rigged game as much as you can.
I'm even too tired for this, man. I never thought it would hit me this hard when people I've worked with for eight years say they're afraid of me. I don't know how I'm supposed to look for a new job knowing I only have two options: accept that normies will treat me badly, or fight back and risk losing my job again.
 
I just want to ldar. That should be my right if I can't have a good life.
I could cope if i could ldar for the rest of my life guaranteed
 
Therapy is the biggest horse crap I have ever heard of, YOU are paying another human to gaslight you with high education level tactics ( that everyone knows ) and if you are in the wrong they will just suck you dick because you pay them. Either way its full of shit and not worth the money, if it actually helps then I believe you could've solved your issues without it.
Therapy may work for already successful in life people.
 
The system is designed to make you a cog in the system without giving you anything. Always been like that.
 

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