I blamed my dad for being socially isolated

[thallium0000]

As my dads friends offered me to join a soccer youth club they rum where i could have built live lomg friends but he didnt let me go and said i would be introduced to drugs and bad things ( now i know its sex).
Most these ppl in the youth club are still friends till this day as i pree on the facebook page made a whilr ago and they still i activities.

I argued that im bad at social interaction as he has few friends and not attending this group made me socialise less from 10-20 i spent all my time alone in my room or with my cousins playing games. I blamed my shit social skills on him and he flipped. Mostt of the guys that went are social butterflies and at least have a friend group and social value.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

As my dads friends offered me to join a soccer youth club they rum where i could have built live lomg friends but he didnt let me go and said i would be introduced to drugs and bad things ( now i know its sex).
Most these ppl in the youth club are still friends till this day as i pree on the facebook page made a whilr ago and they still i activities.

I argued that im bad at social interaction as he has few friends and not attending this group made me socialise less from 10-20 i spent all my time alone in my room or with my cousins playing games. I blamed my shit social skills on him and he flipped. Mostt of the guys that went are social butterflies and at least have a friend group and social value.

How did your dad reply when he flipped? I wouldn’t have let him get away with that even if he flipped and kept telling him how he fucked me over.

 

[thallium0000]

How did your dad reply when he flipped? I wouldn’t have let him get away with that even if he flipped and kept telling him how he fucked me over.

He doesn't believe that fucked me over in anyway his too proud and narcy to admit his mistake. His old skl and too narcy

 

[buried_alive]

I agree with you OP. Your father fucked you over and did lasting damage on your life. The most important thing to do as teenagers is to socialmaxx because the teen love pill is one of the most brutal there is. Coming back from this is really difficult and your adulthood will be an eternal uphill battle.

His excuse for not letting you go to things is just something controlling, helicopter, narcissistic parents do. A teenage boy should do shit, experience the world and socialmaxx.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

He doesn't believe that fucked me over in anyway his too proud and narcy to admit his mistake. His old skl and too narcy

I would just stop talking to him and move out until he admitted his mistake. Until you live under his roof, you have no power.

 

[Friezacel]

I would just stop talking to him and move out until he admitted his mistake. Until you live under his roof, you have no power.

Narcs would rather die than admitting a mistake

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Narcs would rather die than admitting a mistake

He can die alone then if that’s what he wants.

 

[7zyzz7]

You can improve your social skills with practice like anything other skill.

 

[thallium0000]

You can improve your social skills with practice like anything other skill.

Yh but im a social outcast n have like 0 friends

 

[CantEscapeYourFate]

My parents did the same thing. They come from a poor and chaotic country, so when they moved to America they never let me leave the house even though it was perfectly safe to do so, and as I result I never got to develop social skills.

 

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[coping_manlet]

Kill your dad bro

 

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