Serious I blame PUA as much as women for all the lost years

[Getlooksordie]

During my teens/20s I spent all my time approaching women, learning routines, working on my personality, being a good conversationalist, etc...

I was so stubborn it took me years to realize that there is zero correlation between all that and getting women.

So much time wasted that I should have spent on plastic surgery/steroids instead.

Now I´m almost 30 and have to go all out with everything.

 

[Fontaine]

Never took the PUA stuff seriously but I blame them for their tough guy outlook, "just man up" and cold showers, when in reality if you're depressed or lethargic you need to go see a doctor asap for your clinical depression. Self-discipline only takes you that far.

 

[Mainländer]

I resent PUA because I used to kick myself so hard thinking it was all my fault that I wasn't fucking gorgeous women on a daily basis. I was approaching and all but thought I should be doing 100 times more effort or something. It was simply never enough.

That "everything depends solely on your attitude and effort" shit is toxic as fuck for an ugly male.

But I don't have PUA completely. It was PUA that brought me to the "redpill" side of things that ended up evolving to the blackpill. I also had some good experiences mass approaching with large groups.

 

[Actually Autistic]

I too fell for the PUA cult in my early 20’s. I was convinced that if I self developed I’d live a happy, free lifestyle full of travel and hot sex. I remember going to local Daygame meetup groups, sarging out entire malls, getting rejected countless times.

Every girl I approach would walk away within 30 seconds. Every number I got made excuses as to why she can’t meet.

Despite massive socialization, the free lifestyle didn’t come either. Guys I met by going out didn’t want to help me find a better job so I can travel.

All in all, you’ve got nothing to gain from the PUA culture. Even “wingmen” are sociopaths who lie and talk behind you.