I would never be gay, even as a desperate kissless virgin, I find it repulsive. I think for those with a lower disgust tolerance, homosexuality is a cope for being incel.
Wouldn't someone able to cope that way have a HIGHER disgust tolerance?
Your low tolerance for disgust is why your disgust helps protect you.
Their high tolerance for disgust is what leaves them vulnerable to degeneracy.
Sometimes disgust and fear are good things which prevent us from trying stupid bullshit.
That's why all the gays are ugly soyboy effeminiate people, they are so far off from getting a girl that they turn to other men.
I would only say 'most' not all. Plus it doesn't need to be all three, any one in excess crippling their vagina chances is what leads them down this dark path.
I don't think it explains all patterns though. Inability to put penis into vagina might explain why people try to put their dicks into other stuff but now how you get shit like guys who prefer to be fucked up the ass and or suck cock not even as some equivalent exchange to get it in return.
I spoke with one gay that told me the only reason he """realized""" he was gay was because he could not get a girl no matter how hard he tried, he was a kissless virgin. He thought "what if i just go for guys?" and experimented a bit with friends. He was so desperate for a kiss with his incel friend that they ended up making out and having a shower together. That's when he "Realized" he was gay. He told me he thought of women the whole time he did this though. If many gays are like him, homosexuality is a cope for incelism.
I mean, you could both partly be right.
From your reasonable perspective - he found something easier to achieve and rationalized "this is what I always wanted all along, deep down" as a cope so he didn't feel like he was settling because admitting you're settling for something lesser hurts (ie "I prefer bologna to steaks, it has nothing to do with bologna being the only thing I can afford regularly")
From his perspective though - maybe he views his failure to get pussy as partly from his own lack of 'enough effort' or 'not being genuine' (ie buying into "it's not the women's fault it's YOURS incel" narrative) and since he doesn't think of himself as a lazy person, figures the lack of effort is not due to lack of discipline but due to lack of interest.
What I don't really understand is how these guys make the jump from "maybe I lacked interest" to "that lack of interest is because I prefer cock and am a homosexual"
Lack of interest can stem from all kinds of crap. Low libido is a common symptom of depression, for example. Just because you're not jumping on grenades in a futile pursuit for pussy doesn't mean you must want cock.
I sometimes wonder if there's such a stigma about male depression that guys would rather think of themselves as closeted homosexuals because they don't want to acknowledge they may experience persistant depression stemming from discrimination they lack control over.
Maybe they view it as somehow empowering like "if I happen to be a homosexual then I may feel confident and happy and achieve society milestones like relationships".
There's basically just disgust society shows towards celibate men who are persistently sad that I think some men go into a manic search for identity and find all kinds of weird shit to fill that void to regain a sense of pride in themselves.
Ultimately that manifests in the gays having "pride" parades. I don't think they do that so much because they stopped having pride on "discovering" they were gay, but that they already lacked pride in themselves long before "discovering" this and are subconsciously acknowledging this is the truer struggle they face which they can't bring themselves to confront.
I'm not saying thisi s true 100% of the time or anything (maybe there are some legit cock cravers but I think they're a minority among a minority) but it seems like it would be your usual explanation for 90-99% of so-called gay men.
I sometimes wonder if this is part of why I flock to subcultures and bravely dive into shit loli anime lolis and ponies and /monster/ etc because I get a sense of pride and control out of it. Maybe I have an inherent preference for such things or maybe I don't and they just happen to be a natural route for my angst to explore alternatives to normy culture which disgusts me.
Always good to be humble and explore alternate options about what moves you.