Lv99_BixNood
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I grew up reading romance novels starting at 8 (let's goooooo, 90s parenting!). I was reading erotica by 12. I "discovered" my body the summer I turned 9. I knew what it felt like, I knew how to get myself there, I understood the exact mechanics of how it's supposed to work.
And just like we all do growing up, I heard the jokes about women faking orgasms and not really liking sex. I was aware it was an issue. And I understood that by faking an orgasm, I would be shooting myself in the foot.
Then I had sex. It was nothing like the books and the advice and the stories I'd heard from friends. I knew that what was written was highly romanticized and curated to deliver a specific and usually unattainable experience. But it was nothing like what I was told.
It was nothing like in my romance novels, the men weren't 7 foot tall gigachads with 14 inch cocks so I couldn't orgasm