Am i being deluded?

[rory]

She thinks your gay, shes trying to get you as a best friend. Thats all.

Gay?!! Why

 

[xmiserablesoul]

I’m mainly the one who initiates conversations with her first. She has never once hit me up with a random “hey” or “hru”. It’s always me who does that.

trust me, if she was actually interested then she would have have

 

[over_department]

I managed to get her snapchat

Stopped here get out fakecel

 

[Aquiline]

I have a crush on this girl. She’s in my uni classes and i see her in person 2 times a week. I managed to get her snapchat because she added me and my friends to a group on there.

I’m mainly the one who initiates conversations with her first. She has never once hit me up with a random “hey” or “hru”. It’s always me who does that. Yet again I have only known her for less than a month and just this week got her snapchat. At most she sends me a snap first, then I’m the one who starts a conversation.

I think she’s a slow burner because now she seems to be more comfortable with me. Shows her face etc.

She did show some clear signs that she was interested in me. Basically S tier signs if you saw wheat waffles video. She stares at me, only knew my name, tries to get my attention in person. But online it just seems so different.

Perhaps, she is just busy most of the time unlike me who does LDAR most of the day. Anyways the thing is I know she is attracted to me facially but the question is why am i still a virgin and why does it seem like she doesn’t like me.

I did remember when i was sitting by myself, i heard her and her friend talking. One of them was talking about missing their “ex”. If it was her, i would move on asap because I can easily foresee what would happen. But i don’t know if it’s her, it’s just a possibility.

She said she likes mature guys, so I started a conversation with her today about a rather serious topic. “What do you want to achieve in 5 years”. She answered it, “to be successful” and when i asked her more about it, she explained rather coldly, “im busy now”. For context, its 9:00pm on a Friday.

What do I do? Shes on my mind 24/7 and I can’t help it. Shes a Persian MTB

No, dude. "Oh, what if this what if that, she showed SOME signs but I'm always the one initiating...!"

If she is not CLEARLY into you, don't bother. The fact you're always the one initiating is a bad sign, and the fact she has singled you out a tiny bit is even worse. It just shows she's using you as a backup option/something to feed/leech off of emotionally before finding the next Chad/as a supplement to him. I've been through this bullshit before, to the point where I was overthinking and driving myself mad, and so I speak from experience. She's not interested. Block her, ghost her, and move on, for your own sake. Please, if you can, stalk her online and see if you can find her boyfriend/Chad, and then compare yourself to him. You will understand what I am talking about.

 

[Aquiline]

Then what am i doing wrong

Nothing. You are looking wrong.