It's Over I am physically unable to have sex

[VitaminS]

I will try to make this as brief as possible without going into too much detail. Physically, I am unable to have sex. I have a issue in my kegel muscle which can not be fixed. Its essentially seizure-like spasm in my kegel muscle and surrounding area. I also have POIS (Post Orgasmic Stress Syndrome), which is a rare illness in which orgasm causes severe and debilitating symptoms. I know 'POIS' may sound fake to a lot of you, probably because of the strange nature of it, but I can assure you it is real and not some psychological thing which most people assume it is. I'll drop the link to the main POIS forum down below incase it peaks some ones curiosity jfl. The main symptoms I suffer is muscle fatigue, muscle weakness, muscle twitching, migraine, headache-like feeling in my eyes, congestion, slight nausea, puffiness in the face, dry skin, emotional symptoms, brain fog, flu-like symptoms, and other insignificant ones that are most likely just effects of the main underlying symptoms. These symptoms are severe for 2-3 days before slowly declining over the period of usually a week and a half. There is very limited research on POIS, some doctors have researched it, put out reports, etc., but most research and info comes from the people. These two conditions mixed together is unbearable. Strong libido and abstinence gave me consistent nocturnal emissions ever since puberty, so I would randomly wake up with these symptoms and forced to suffer through them. To combat this, I made removing any sexual feeling a goal of mine. Through hard discipline, I was able to look at woman without emotion and solely with logic. Removing all physical beaty and sexual aspects of the modern-female... what was I left with? Mostly decadence. While men are driven by logic, females are driven purely by emotion which from an outside perspective is disgusting and frustrating to bear witness to. I do not care for females and see them as a cancer to the modern man if not regulated.
Yes, I have tried every 'cure' and seen numerous doctors for both of my conditions. Nothing has worked. You can suggest something but there is a 99% chance I have already tried it.

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I live without the capacity for love. I am ashamed of my condition, it has always made me feel emasculated and less of a man.

 

[gattsu]

Sounds like your only solution would be castration.

Sorry about your condition man. This world isn't fair.

 

[VitaminS]

Sounds like your only solution would be castration.

Sorry about your condition man. This world isn't fair.

Many with this condition have gotten a vasectomy and posted about it on various forums. It did not work for any of them.

 

[Balding Subhuman]

I've been wondering if I have POIS too. I'm a big proponent of nofap but maybe its only because my body reacts negatively to orgasming and others won't experience the "benefit" of abstaining. If I fap I feel tired, weaker and even my throat gets sore. Sometimes my muscles get sore too. Also I've noticed that even my chances of getting sick seem to increase after orgasm, but it could be just coincidence. Its definitely not a mental thing but physical and very real. Maybe its related to prolactin and somehow POIS patients can't deal with it.

Guess we're doomed either way. One of the only copes for incels is porn and masturbation and we can't even do that without paying the toll

 

[ADHD_cel]

Brutal

 

[VitaminS]

Brutal

At least I have this community now ever since I recently landed. I have lived in isolation my entire life. Now I have somewhat meaningful human contact, and people to share my struggles with.

 

[VitaminS]

I've been wondering if I have POIS too. I'm a big proponent of nofap but maybe its only because my body reacts negatively to orgasming and others won't experience the "benefit" of abstaining. If I fap I feel tired, weaker and even my throat gets sore. Sometimes my muscles get sore too. Also I've noticed that even my chances of getting sick seem to increase after orgasm, but it could be just coincidence. Its definitely not a mental thing but physical and very real. Maybe its related to prolactin and somehow POIS patients can't deal with it.

Guess we're doomed either way. One of the only copes for incels is porn and masturbation and we can't even do that without paying the toll

Porn and masterbation are hell for me, even if I did not have POIS I would stay away from these degeneracies regardless. I am not sure the route cause of my individual case, but it starts slight symptoms even at the secreation of sexual fluids ex any form of horomonal stimulation. You would know if you had POIS. Try abstaining for a extended duration.

Do you know how long your symptoms last? They could very well just be common sides from masturbation.

 

[Antisocialloner]

It's over

 

[VitaminS]

It's over

“I was damned to my role. I was condemned before my first cries of life. The world is my prison. I will rule it or die.”

This is what I live by.

 

[Praph]

I have something similar. When i have an orgasm, i get a burning sensation in my penis, and prostate which feels like a cystitis. So an extreme burning sensation/pain which is unbearable. This lasts for hours. Docs cant find anything. Its probably cum going back into the bladder.
Have ED too, and due to my anxiety and somatoform disorder, sex is way too affecting on my nervous system, its like a marathon for me. Im unable to have sex or enjoy sex.
I never heard about Post Orgasmic Stress Syndrome, but it sounds like it fucking sucks big time. Everything that prevents you from having or enjoying sex fucking sucks.

You could try Trauma Release Exercises, maybe it helps
Good luck

 

[VitaminS]

I have something similar. When i have an orgasm, i get a burning sensation in my penis, and prostate which feels like a cystitis. So an extreme burning sensation/pain which is unbearable. This lasts for hours. Docs cant find anything. Its probably cum going back into the bladder.
Have ED too, and due to my anxiety and somatoform disorder, sex is way too affecting on my nervous system, its like a marathon for me. Im unable to have sex or enjoy sex.
I never heard about Post Orgasmic Stress Syndrome, but it sounds like it fucking sucks big time. Everything that prevents you from having or enjoying sex fucking sucks.

You could try Trauma Release Exercises, maybe it helps
Good luck

I do not have ED, something I would consider worse. I get kegel spasms during stimulation which leads me to last on average 2-7 seconds. At one point, as an ignorant kid, I could ejaculate just from watching something pornographic without any stimulation.

I feel for you, we both are victims of genetics, and the chemicals in our parents bodies from their ungoverned lifestyles and ignorance. Me and you my friend, are victims of circumstance. We did not initiate this, or ask for it.

 

[NorwoodVictim]

Life is fucking unfair, just nuke this shit

 

[never began]

I will try to make this as brief as possible without going into too much detail. Physically, I am unable to have sex. I have a issue in my kegel muscle which can not be fixed. Its essentially seizure-like spasm in my kegel muscle and surrounding area. I also have POIS (Post Orgasmic Stress Syndrome), which is a rare illness in which orgasm causes severe and debilitating symptoms. I know 'POIS' may sound fake to a lot of you, probably because of the strange nature of it, but I can assure you it is real and not some psychological thing which most people assume it is. I'll drop the link to the main POIS forum down below incase it peaks some ones curiosity jfl. The main symptoms I suffer is muscle fatigue, muscle weakness, muscle twitching, migraine, headache-like feeling in my eyes, congestion, slight nausea, puffiness in the face, dry skin, emotional symptoms, brain fog, flu-like symptoms, and other insignificant ones that are most likely just effects of the main underlying symptoms. These symptoms are severe for 2-3 days before slowly declining over the period of usually a week and a half. There is very limited research on POIS, some doctors have researched it, put out reports, etc., but most research and info comes from the people. These two conditions mixed together is unbearable. Strong libido and abstinence gave me consistent nocturnal emissions ever since puberty, so I would randomly wake up with these symptoms and forced to suffer through them. To combat this, I made removing any sexual feeling a goal of mine. Through hard discipline, I was able to look at woman without emotion and solely with logic. Removing all physical beaty and sexual aspects of the modern-female... what was I left with? Mostly decadence. While men are driven by logic, females are driven purely by emotion which from an outside perspective is disgusting and frustrating to bear witness to. I do not care for females and see them as a cancer to the modern man if not regulated.
Yes, I have tried every 'cure' and seen numerous doctors for both of my conditions. Nothing has worked. You can suggest something but there is a 99% chance I have already tried it.

Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome (P.O.I.S.) - Index

Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome (P.O.I.S.) - Index

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I live without the capacity for love. I am ashamed of my condition, it has always made me feel emasculated and less of a man.

Jesus christ that is BRUTAL. One of the most heart-wrenching posts in this site. Welcome 2023cel

 

[Balding Subhuman]

Do you know how long your symptoms last? They could very well just be common sides from masturbation.

Muscle aches and sore throat typically last under 24 hours but fatigue can last for multiple days. I feel more energetic though if I abstain for longer, say like 2 weeks.

 

[sneed (not chuck)]

Brutal

It's over

 

[VitaminS]

Just lift bro.

In a century without purpose nor meaning, and in a life of isolation and decadence, I create meaning, though insignificant, but meaning none the less, through the time spent in the iron temple. There, I am the sculptor, the artist, I am my own stone slab. Without this heavy and unmoving piece of art I have forged for myself and of myself, nothing would bound me to life. Without the primordial need for strength, I would have ended my existence long ago. There is no heavier weight to bear then the weight of death and dread.
Thanks for the advice jfl

 

[VitaminS]

Muscle aches and sore throat typically last under 24 hours but fatigue can last for multiple days. I feel more energetic though if I abstain for longer, say like 2 weeks.

The good news is you do not have POIS, and if you did, this would be the lightest and least severe case I have ever seen. This is just a reaction due to various possible causes. Could be serotonin or hormonal levels fluctuating with orgasm. I suggest doing more research.

 

[Misogynist Curry 卐]

Never began for POIScels.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Shit man
Hard to cope with that

 

[darkdungeon]

Keep jacking off until you're immune

 

[Fierycel]

I'm sorry

I don't see how I can help you

Certainly if you think I should appreciate jacking off more I'm never doing that

I'm just too horny right now

 

[Dokes]

U should take on Andrei Chikatilo modus operandi as he replaced his ability of unable to maintain a erection with a knife stabbing and slashing his victims to death

 

[VitaminS]

Wow, have you just read 'The Birth of Tragedy'?

Most recent books I read were ‘Heavy Duty’ by Mike Mentzer and the Diary of a Wimpy Series for probably the 100th time jfl

 

[VitaminS]

U should take on Andrei Chikatilo modus operandi as he replaced his ability of unable to maintain a erection with a knife stabbing and slashing his victims to death

I am able to maintain an erection. The kegel problem causes severe PE. Up to seven seconds max fml

 

[VitaminS]

"Heavy Duty" is your ideal but the "Diary of a Wimpy Kid" series is your reality.

I would say both are my realities. I like to read things that resonate with me. I am in a way, a large and rippling Gregg Heffly

 

[VitaminS]

That sounds like an oxymoron.

All bodybuilding has done for me was transform a piece of shit into a bigger piece of shit. My physique can not fix my face, mind, or physical condition.

 

[Pajeetsingh]

I will try to make this as brief as possible without going into too much detail. Physically, I am unable to have sex. I have a issue in my kegel muscle which can not be fixed. Its essentially seizure-like spasm in my kegel muscle and surrounding area. I also have POIS (Post Orgasmic Stress Syndrome), which is a rare illness in which orgasm causes severe and debilitating symptoms. I know 'POIS' may sound fake to a lot of you, probably because of the strange nature of it, but I can assure you it is real and not some psychological thing which most people assume it is. I'll drop the link to the main POIS forum down below incase it peaks some ones curiosity jfl. The main symptoms I suffer is muscle fatigue, muscle weakness, muscle twitching, migraine, headache-like feeling in my eyes, congestion, slight nausea, puffiness in the face, dry skin, emotional symptoms, brain fog, flu-like symptoms, and other insignificant ones that are most likely just effects of the main underlying symptoms. These symptoms are severe for 2-3 days before slowly declining over the period of usually a week and a half. There is very limited research on POIS, some doctors have researched it, put out reports, etc., but most research and info comes from the people. These two conditions mixed together is unbearable. Strong libido and abstinence gave me consistent nocturnal emissions ever since puberty, so I would randomly wake up with these symptoms and forced to suffer through them. To combat this, I made removing any sexual feeling a goal of mine. Through hard discipline, I was able to look at woman without emotion and solely with logic. Removing all physical beaty and sexual aspects of the modern-female... what was I left with? Mostly decadence. While men are driven by logic, females are driven purely by emotion which from an outside perspective is disgusting and frustrating to bear witness to. I do not care for females and see them as a cancer to the modern man if not regulated.
Yes, I have tried every 'cure' and seen numerous doctors for both of my conditions. Nothing has worked. You can suggest something but there is a 99% chance I have already tried it.

Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome (P.O.I.S.) - Index

Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome (P.O.I.S.) - Index

poiscenter.com

I live without the capacity for love. I am ashamed of my condition, it has always made me feel emasculated and less of a man.

If having kids is not an option for you, then you can consider castration, it will eliminate all sexual desires.

 

[Pajeetsingh]

Many with this condition have gotten a vasectomy and posted about it on various forums. It did not work for any of them.

Vasectomy does not work, you have to get rid of the balls itself.

 

[funnybunny]

Sorry to hear that
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