Story I am offically done trying to do the impossible: get a gf

[Braincels_boyo]

I always had crushes on girls that looked like me. I always thought they liked me back. My bluepilled brain always asked why I not talk to them.

Rejections after rejections.

After taking the blackpill, my world view changed.

Why all the girls loved hanging out wirh 'the cool guys'. They were not much cooler than me, but they were tall and handsome.

All the looks my crushes would give to the tall hot guys walking into class...

Soul-crushing.

Now I know the truth. I am free. I used to go to the gym 3 times a week, study hard, make friends and maybe even get a gf.

I used to wear cologne, try to be interesting and funny,...

Now, I don't care anymore. Why make the effort when women couldn't hate me/ignore me more?

I still like women as friends but they won't even let me be friends with them. I don't smell, I don't talk like an idiot, I am not annoying. I am pretty normal.

Is it really all just my looks? I never had problems making male friends, but females just showed me the first time they see me that they want nothing to do with me and I feel ashamed and want to leave as soon as possible. It's just an effect I have, even when I dress well and try to have a good haircut.

I will try to cope with you guys and find other interests. I gave women so much love but they just do not want to share it with me.

I can't cope with the one being out there, bros.

 

[azakhan]

Is it really all just my looks?

When it comes to women, yes.

 

[TheMinimalist]

Welcome.

 

[Glast]

Is it really all just my looks?

Shouldn't even be a question.

 

[Deleted member]

I never had problems making male friends

then you are not ugly and are in fact likely to be above average.

 

[AlwaysLawRoute]

Welcome mate.

 

[Deleted member 18214]

Lol at thinking you have ANY chance of getting a gf, you are competing with millions of men. You should be at least an 8/10 to consider having a gf. Women can just go on tinder as you know and get any man they want so why would they want anything to do with you? I am sure girls you like have other dudes that like them not just you. Its BRUTAL but it is the way it is and we cannot do anything about it. All we can do is cope.

 

[FinnCel]

Chad will pump and dump them once

 

[WizardofSoda]

Oh darn, one less sub 8/10 guy out there that we can make fun of for attempting to ascend by lifting heavy objects, spending money on expensive clothing and jestermaxxxing.

 

[Cheezecel]

Your looks are everything. Everything you do and experience is dictated by them. Even bees and other animals will react to you differently depending on your looks.

JFL when not even mosquitoes will spare me at night my mother should have roped me to a tree when she had the chance to

 

[Deleted member 15737]

Yes, it is all looks. If you are “lucky”, they might lower their looks standards in their late 30’s after they have had 50+ dicks in them. You have to be rich and want to raise other men’s kids though, and let her fuck Tyrone when she wants.

then you are not ugly and are in fact likely to be above average.

You would know

 

[Deleted member 1252]

The blackpill is a one-way street. It will simultaneously set you free but also crush your soul.

You can now do anything you want, but nothing is worth doing.

 

[Sparrow's Song]

Eventually, you will start to put your hood up and head down and whenever you hear a foid voice, all you can hear is "It's Over".

 

[Terranigma]

then you are not ugly and are in fact likely to be above average.

that's just mentalcel coping. Men aren't as superficial as women and accept ugly men as friends as long as they are NT. Of course there might be some ribbing about being the odd one out (ugly and girlfriendless) from time to time, but, overall, men will accept you. This only counts for 100% men groups though, add a single foid and it will spoil the bunch.

 

[Deleted member]

that's just mentalcel coping. Men aren't as superficial as women and accept ugly men as friends as long as they are NT. Of course there might be some ribbing about being the odd one out (ugly and girlfriendless) from time to time, but, overall, men will accept you. This only counts for 100% men groups though, add a single foid and it will spoil the bunch.

that's just pride, thinking us men are beautiful angels who only go for personality. no one likes truly ugly people, partly because of the halo effect and partly because they know that being seen in public with them is a very good way to decrease their social status. you're just privileged and cannot relate, really.

 

[Apati]

that's just mentalcel coping. Men aren't as superficial as women and accept ugly men as friends. Of course there might be some ribbing about being the odd one out from time to time, but overall men will accept you. This only counts for 100% men groups though, add a single foid and it will spoil the bunch.

Yes they are. In fact the majority of normies are so desperate for pussy (just look at landwhale tinder experiments jfl normies want to fuck those things) and because of that nearly everything they do is for approval for pussy. Since females think bad of them if their social group have a ugly male they avoid ugly males as well. Thats one of the reason the ugly kid in class are often bullied by normies.

 

[redditrapist]

I used to have lots of crushes, as well. I used to hope that at least one would like me back! But to no avail!

 

[Terranigma]

no one likes truly ugly people, partly because of the halo effect and partly

I disagree. There's been plenty of blackpill science that proves that men are able to go beyond purely looks. For example 4/10 men are willing to settle with their looksmatch when considering foids. Men are way superior to foids in this regard.

In any case, I've been part of many different groups of men which makes me very confident about my insights into male friendships. To be very clear: Men will absolutely bully and reject autists and retards who can't respect the rules and social etiquette. But as long as you don't act above your station you will be accepted.

Foids on the other hand will try their hardest to eject any ugly men from their social circles, even at the outskirts.

 

[PHp]

Is it really all just my looks?t

Yes

When it comes to life, yes.

FTFY, try getting a job as a subhuman 2/10 male. I can say that for 3.5/10 males it is already pretty horrible, just imagine the daily hell sub 3 souls must face.

 

[jerrycan dan]

no one likes truly ugly people, partly because of the halo effect and partly because they know that being seen in public with them is a very good way to decrease their social status.

as if all dudes think like this lmao
maybe in your shame-based shithole culture they do but not somewhere populated by human beings instead of 85 iq monkeys, if you can't get male friends it's cause you're autistic or have some other mental illness, in your case probably extreme ER-tier narcissism
not everybody in the West thinks of themselves as a personal brand and is constantly trying to market themselves either

 

[Deleted member]

as if all dudes think like this lmao
maybe in your shame-based shithole culture they do but not somewhere populated by human beings instead of 85 iq monkeys, if you can't get male friends it's cause you're autistic or have some other mental illness, in your case probably extreme ER-tier narcissism
not everybody in the West thinks of themselves as a personal brand and is constantly trying to market themselves either

lookism is part of human nature and does not change from culture to culture. everyone hates ugly people. you really do sound like one of those morons who say stuff like "middle eastern females are conservative and hates sluts, go for them".

 

[jerrycan dan]

lookism is part of human nature and does not change from culture to culture. everyone hates ugly people. you really do sound like one of those morons who say stuff like "middle eastern females are conservative and hates sluts, go for them".

You have never hung around an ugly person for long enough and enjoyed it? Whores are gonna be whores ofc but men have brains and are somewhat self aware of failo.

 

[Deleted member]

You have never hung around an ugly person for long enough and enjoyed it?

i have never "hung out" with anyone in my life, ugly or otherwise.

 

[tweak]

Once you realize the reality of the blackpill you enter a void which you cannot escape from, you are here to stay. Unless you're fucking fakecel of course then gtfo.

Even if you’re a fakecel (EG: capable of being a betabux) the BlackPill makes you essentially unable to love a woman. You know she’s deep down craving a real chad.

 

[Terranigma]

i have never "hung out" with anyone in my life, ugly or otherwise.

You can literally join any male dominated activity group and say "Hello, I'm so-and-so and very interested in X. Can you tell me more about it?!" They will hang out with you and enthusiastically tell you about their favorite hobby. Just expect to get thrown out or beat up if you're a fraud and not actually interested.

 

[jerrycan dan]

i have never "hung out" with anyone in my life, ugly or otherwise.

I am a diagnosed autist and even I had friends in primary school, you are telling me the ~30% of men who are sexless in the USA and Anglosphere because of hypergamy are all friendless? If being an incel meant you had no friends these people wouldn't be swarming anime conventions together and playing magic the gathering to cope. This isn't because you're a manlet prettyboy, it's something else
get brain back from real medic who lobotismus u

 

[Cheezecel]

Even if you’re a fakecel (EG: capable of being a betabux) the BlackPill makes you essentially unable to love a woman. You know she’s deep down craving a real chad.

It's not just craving a chad. She will consciously or subconsciously do EVERYTHING she can to sabotage you if you are not chad. From withdrawing sex to fucking all your male friends to killing her own children just to spite you. Just because you lack the looks for her to respect you.

 

[Deleted member]

You can literally join any male dominated activity group and say "Hello, I'm so-and-so and very interested in X. Can you tell me more about it?!" They will hang out with you and enthusiastically tell you about their favorite hobby.

"enthusiastically" if you're good looking, maybe. more likely is that they'll stand around like a penis lacking a sleeve and give you retarded one-word replies.

I am a diagnosed autist and even I had friends in primary school, you are telling me the ~30% of men who are sexless in the USA and Anglosphere because of hypergamy are all friendless? If being an incel meant you had no friends these people wouldn't be swarming anime conventions together and playing magic the gathering to cope. This isn't because you're a manlet prettyboy, it's something else
get brain back from real medic who lobotismus u

i have had friends in elementary as well. i refer to "real", adult life.

 

[Orkcel]

then you are not ugly and are in fact likely to be above average.

You think so? I

 

[jerrycan dan]

i have had friends in elementary as well. i refer to "real", adult life.

Yeah you have mental issues then
I do too but it doesn't apply to all inkels

 

[Deleted member]

Yeah you have mental issues then
I do too but it doesn't apply to all inkels

or maybe it's because i'm 5'2"...

 

[jerrycan dan]

or maybe it's because i'm 5'2"...

worst case scenario tall people would keep you around to jestermaxx for them, unless of course you had brain problems

 

[Orkcel]

then you are not ugly and are in fact likely to be above average.

This might be true within reason, the fact that I had ricecel friends growing up who would game with me I don't think precludes me from being an incel. I grew up in a large city with a large school so it was hard not to meet at least a few other fellow autists.

 

[LitVirgin]

Its funny how the mainstream media makes it seem like the easiest natural thing to do is get a gf but we just cant seem to crack the code for some reason.

 

[Reize]

Having a crush is a good way of crushing yourself.

It's like wanting to touch the sky