at the risk of sounding like an IT-fag, i actually don't think a 13/14 year old is more attractive than an 18 year old or even a 16 year old. Post-pubescent girls are more attractive than pubescent girls in my opinion. Girls tend to finish puberty at ages 15-17 and at 12-14, they actually are still developing secondary sex characteristics. i'm pretty sure most men find an 18 year old more attractive than a 14 year old or 13 year old.
most men do find 15-17 year olds attractive sometimes and I find them attractive sometimes, too. it's very common. i can find a 14 year old girl attractive but it's usually when they look old for their age, like a 14 year old who looks 20. 14 year olds who look younger I might find attractive but less attractive than older-looking 14 year olds. when girls get to 15-17, that's when they look like they could be 21 or 22. i don't understand how a 13 year old is hotter than an 18 year old. while many here prefer a 13 year old, I actually think post-pubescent teens and young adults are more attractive. i think at ages 15-25, women are most attractive. 13 year old girls often still have braces, tiny breasts and are tiny. when they get to 15-17 they are post-pubescent.
i've read studies about men being attracted to minors. all studies unanimously agree that men find post-pubescent teens sexually attractive. NO study questions that at all. but hebephilia? it's more complicated. Some studies show that men find girls most attractive at 14 or that men do think middle school girls are hot, but some studies show that this isn't as common as ephebophilia. it's something to have a debate over. but men are definitely attracted to post-pubescent teens. that is a proven fact.
one study shows that 16% of men are hebephiles and 82% of men are ephebophiles/teleiophiles. (ephebophilia is an attraction to post-pubescent teens and teleiophiles are attracted to young adults. hebephiles are attracted to pubescent kids. just remember in order to be a hebephile, you need to have a primary or exclusive attraction to pubescent kids. i think men find older teens more attractive than 13 year olds.
as a guy still hoping to find someone someday, i actually feel weirded out by the idea of sex with a 13 year old. i cannot go after 13 year olds to stop my inceldom. i wouldn't be interested in a 13 year old. i am in college and i don't mind dating a 21 year old girl who has had sex before. if that cured my inceldom, i'd be okay with it.