TallCelFag
30, autistic, 3/10 face, 2 months sober
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Having money vs being chad is what’s being discussed here. I can the see the appeal to both in different ways tbh
THIS IS THE BIGGEST COPE THREAD I HAVE EVER SEEN JFL.
I wish I was like you man. my mental issues would go awayI'm not coping, I'm probably just more of a sexual sadist, I've never gotten the hype of "being desired", never cared for it, and when a whore has a smile on her face, its less arousing to me than when she has a more "genuine" expression of indifference or disgust
Like I said, this could very well be some kind of mental adaptation brought about by my inceldom, but I'm not forcing myself or coping, I like hookercelling way more than I would like dating
"Masculinity-lite" I like that.Another point I have to make is that mindset is due to socialization not biology, so it can be changed
If you go back far enough in human history, men didn't really care about this shit, and yet they carried on having happy lives, they did not care about being desired, they just took what they wanted and enjoyed it
So you have to ask yourself why is it they could do that but many men today can't, and the reason is because masculinity as a concept has been feminized, and men today are raised with the cultural values of "masculinity lite"
A feminine value system has been infused into the male code of conduct and the male value system, and its being amplified as time goes on, pretty soon it will be a norm for men to wear makeup and worry about things like what colours makes their eyes look better, just watch and see
This is not masculine thinking at all, the men of the past were hunters and warriors, everything was about conquest, battle and claim. Your wife was gifted to you or claimed by you, she was to learn to love you and if not that respect you, not choose to marry you because "muh rigid jaw line" lol
Yeah me too. I wish I could adopt this Blkpillpress emotionless mentality. But unfortunately I'm naturally cucked and need love and affection. I think we could all access this emotionless mentality and restore the true masculinity within us. But years of socialization will make it hard to do that.I wish I was like you man. my mental issues would go away
I dont believe in hollywoood romantic love, however I do need intimacy and caring, cuddle and so on. Like you say, its probably a mental disadaptation from my part as I never had love from my family, I allways was alone and bullied, and I like younger woman. Actually real teens (under age).
So everydday i strugle to sleep cause I need to feel tenderness from a young foid, that like you said, its a contradiction in itself because I know such a think does not exist.
They did damege me so much, that now I really want to beat them and I have strong anger issues towards them and I have to stay away from them for my own safety so on...
Ovbiously the way my brain hardwired all the things about sex and foids was trully unadaptative for todays real soyceity. Not to mention I have some skin problem wich make me more needy to have intimacy, raw sex, someone who takes care during the ation and so on...
PS: I never ever wanted to be a fucking chad. they are the dumbest most shallow being on the planet, just llike the foids, Cannot understand why some people wnat to be like them. i just want my stoled years of sex and intimacy back
There are things I will always be jealous of no matter what and this is one of themI've never really gotten this obsession with being desired, I don't care about being desired because I don't want to be the individual that is acted upon, I want to be the actor (the subject not the object), I want to be the one that is controlling, that is dominating, that is owning, etc, its way more enjoyable