View: https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/1diz7f4/to_the_girl_engaged_to_my_husband/
Every time there's a story like this where the woman paints the man as a monster you can bet there's more to it since women virtually never admit fault in their own behavior. What do you think her husband's side of the story is? He may have had a good reason to initiate divorce.
Notice the tactical framing of the post
"Oh, you're a victim too young lady!" -- why do women argue this way? They're never direct or honest about what they actually mean. Nor do they seem to have any perception that they were once the younger woman chasing older Chads and rejecting men their age who lacked the status and wealth of somewhat older men.
You know why young women don't care? They aren't victims, they're just in their hyper desired window and they leverage that without even thinking about it to get who they perceive to be the best option. Then years later women get enraged that men go for younger women (something they themselves took advantage of in their time) -- and ... blame men for it.
I hate posts like these because they're dishonest (e.g. She's hurt that she was rejected for someone else more desirable -- so just say that) and there's always more to the story than they let on. Without fail women will insist it's entirely the guy's fault even if they did something horrific like cheating or turning into a blubber laden landwhale first and refusing to change over the course of years. They always have to do this manipulative moralizing GSR bullshit framing to their story.
> "You're just a child"
Bitch she is 20 years old -- you know how old that is? You know how old humans for all of time have been getting hitched and having kids? Good grief this cope is just ridiculous. Men die in trenches when they're 17.
> "perpetuated lies about me"
Doubt they were lies tbh.
My sister is exactly like this author in terms of her world view and how she frames things -- you can spot this level of delusion a mile off. Obviously redditors eat it up but that's because most of them are women at this point and also redditors are brain dead retards who unironically should not be allowed to vote. Of course if you ever actually point out any of these things on places like reddit or express even a shred of skepticism about the framing of their version of events you just get banned. Have you ever met a woman that actually was willing to admit fault or impartially retell events? Zero women in my immediate family pass that test.
they’re just so dishonest in their framing and try to use moralizing language to shame people into submission to what they want and it’s extremely irritating when you start to notice women doing this. And if you call them out on it they then act like you’re the bad for … recognizing what they actually mean and are obviously trying to do.
