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One of the most infuriating examples of naive, blupilled advice is when normies say that relationships will be more easily attained once you set your focus on other things and stop looking. It’s usually phrased as something like:
I think what people are trying to say when they give advice like this is to not try so hard to be in a relationship and to just allow it to evolve naturally with time. It isn’t clear how not actively seeking a relationship is supposed to increase the chances of you getting one but I think the idea is that when you're more focused on developing yourself and your situation you’ll attract people better.
All of these quotes are basically just coded language used to communicate the same thing which is selling false hope and reassuring lower-tier men that their time will come once they stop worrying so much about their sexless situation. It’s a tactic that’s meant to keep men in a perpetual cycle of trying to be themselves and turning their attention toward other interests but still failing and then using that failure to make more useless, unnecessary changes when the culprit all along is actually physical appearance and not trying to get into a relationship. If you were to tell someone to just “shut up and die alone” it would have the same outcome.
Not looking for a relationship won’t help you, it will just make you even more invisible.
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I think what people are trying to say when they give advice like this is to not try so hard to be in a relationship and to just allow it to evolve naturally with time. It isn’t clear how not actively seeking a relationship is supposed to increase the chances of you getting one but I think the idea is that when you're more focused on developing yourself and your situation you’ll attract people better.
All of these quotes are basically just coded language used to communicate the same thing which is selling false hope and reassuring lower-tier men that their time will come once they stop worrying so much about their sexless situation. It’s a tactic that’s meant to keep men in a perpetual cycle of trying to be themselves and turning their attention toward other interests but still failing and then using that failure to make more useless, unnecessary changes when the culprit all along is actually physical appearance and not trying to get into a relationship. If you were to tell someone to just “shut up and die alone” it would have the same outcome.
Not looking for a relationship won’t help you, it will just make you even more invisible.
